Comments on: Why Would a Guy Act Like He Likes Me if He Doesn’t Want to Take Me Out Again? http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 05:00:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Noel http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/comment-page-2/#comment-177149 Noel Fri, 02 Sep 2011 06:04:37 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/#comment-177149 I like Maria & hunters posts - great advice! I recently went on a date w a guy. He pursued me, we had a great time & then, he was abducted by aliens??? Well, I'm not real sure what happened to him. At first i was upset, sad, wondered if I did or said something. Looking back, he always seemed happy, he followed up afterwards unprompted. I mean there were only good, positive signs the whole time. I did have a wonderful time with him & I was really thrown by his interest & then abrupt disappearance. But I'm going to let it go now because of this blog! Very helpful & some of the comments have made me feel so much better. Thanks Evan, Maria & Hunter. :) I like Maria & hunters posts – great advice! I recently went on a date w a guy. He pursued me, we had a great time & then, he was abducted by aliens??? Well, I’m not real sure what happened to him. At first i was upset, sad, wondered if I did or said something. Looking back, he always seemed happy, he followed up afterwards unprompted. I mean there were only good, positive signs the whole time. I did have a wonderful time with him & I was really thrown by his interest & then abrupt disappearance. But I’m going to let it go now because of this blog! Very helpful & some of the comments have made me feel so much better. Thanks Evan, Maria & Hunter. :)

]]> By: Lisa http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/comment-page-2/#comment-96214 Lisa Wed, 17 Nov 2010 07:43:47 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/#comment-96214 Okay I dont usually invest my heart on a first date so I agree,  at that stage, it makes you mad but if you never invested in it.. than no big loss.. But here is my issue.  This has happened to me the last two times I met someone and the relationship has gone from 4-7 months! and they just fall off the earth.. So it sounds like my serious problem right? This is the last relationship I had it was 4 months in. Even the last conversation  I had didnt make sense. It was "Sweetie I will call you tomorrow" "Have fun with your friends", What time will you get back to town"? "I work this weekend so we will make plans for next weekend". "I miss you, talk to you tomorrow" We live in different towns hour and a half away from each other at the present time because he travels with his work crew. Next day, which was Saturday, he didnt call or didnt answer my call. Havent heard from him since. The last time we were together we seemed to have a great time as always. He made me feel like I could really be myself around him and we always had great conversations.  I really dont get it.  Both of us always discussed, just be honest, straight forward, no games! Because we are older and tired of the games.. So yeah I am driving myself crazy.. What gives? Okay I dont usually invest my heart on a first date so I agree,  at that stage, it makes you mad but if you never invested in it.. than no big loss.. But here is my issue.  This has happened to me the last two times I met someone and the relationship has gone from 4-7 months! and they just fall off the earth.. So it sounds like my serious problem right?
This is the last relationship I had it was 4 months in. Even the last conversation  I had didnt make sense. It was “Sweetie I will call you tomorrow” “Have fun with your friends”, What time will you get back to town”? “I work this weekend so we will make plans for next weekend”. “I miss you, talk to you tomorrow”
We live in different towns hour and a half away from each other at the present time because he travels with his work crew. Next day, which was Saturday, he didnt call or didnt answer my call. Havent heard from him since. The last time we were together we seemed to have a great time as always. He made me feel like I could really be myself around him and we always had great conversations.  I really dont get it.  Both of us always discussed, just be honest, straight forward, no games! Because we are older and tired of the games.. So yeah I am driving myself crazy.. What gives?

]]> By: musicgirl http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/comment-page-2/#comment-24296 musicgirl Mon, 23 Mar 2009 13:24:05 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/#comment-24296 thank you all for your comments and observations. i couldn't sleep tonight because i've been waiting for some response from a guy i had two great dates with, and for the third, he ended up staying the night. sounds fast, yes, but we had such a great chemistry and connection. i've seen him once since then, but he gave me the obligatory "hug" at the end of our conversation, and had to leave abruptly for work. we texted that night but i haven't heard from him since, after a couple emails to follow up on some work we were doing together. i don't get it - it seemed like we had such a good connection, conversation flowing, and everything. maybe the fact that we were drinking the night we finally got together made things more unclear...who knows. all i know is that through reading the posts, i need to move on. for whatever reasons, he's not ready to see or talk with me now. *sigh thank you all for your comments and observations. i couldn’t sleep tonight because i’ve been waiting for some response from a guy i had two great dates with, and for the third, he ended up staying the night. sounds fast, yes, but we had such a great chemistry and connection. i’ve seen him once since then, but he gave me the obligatory “hug” at the end of our conversation, and had to leave abruptly for work. we texted that night but i haven’t heard from him since, after a couple emails to follow up on some work we were doing together. i don’t get it – it seemed like we had such a good connection, conversation flowing, and everything. maybe the fact that we were drinking the night we finally got together made things more unclear…who knows. all i know is that through reading the posts, i need to move on. for whatever reasons, he’s not ready to see or talk with me now. *sigh

]]> By: Sara http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/comment-page-2/#comment-21893 Sara Wed, 18 Feb 2009 02:22:27 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/#comment-21893 I doubt it. The guys always followup if they like a girl, at least from my experience. I did text him a few days after our date in which he replied. But I have heard nothing since. I doubt it. The guys always followup if they like a girl, at least from my experience.
I did text him a few days after our date in which he replied. But I have heard nothing since.

]]> By: Joe http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/comment-page-2/#comment-21863 Joe Tue, 17 Feb 2009 20:29:05 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/#comment-21863 Maybe he thinks YOU disappeared... Maybe he thinks YOU disappeared…

]]> By: Sara http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/comment-page-2/#comment-21833 Sara Tue, 17 Feb 2009 01:43:21 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/#comment-21833 True starthrower, its like I've already moved on. If he DID decide to call me now, it would really have me wondering about the guy and why he would all of a sudden decide to call now. But nothing like this has ever happened to me before, where the guy acted interested and then never called. Its all so strange! True starthrower, its like I’ve already moved on. If he DID decide to call me now, it would really have me wondering about the guy and why he would all of a sudden decide to call now.

But nothing like this has ever happened to me before, where the guy acted interested and then never called. Its all so strange!

]]> By: starthrower68 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/comment-page-2/#comment-21810 starthrower68 Mon, 16 Feb 2009 17:32:51 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/#comment-21810 While I can see and understand Maria's points, I can see Sara's reluctance should the guy come back around. When a guy disappears a smart woman will accept it, cut the emotional ties, and move on with her life. She's done. If he should decide that he wants to reinsert himself into her life, it's difficult for a woman to shift gears emotionally to let him back in. Its like something has been lost. Of course there are going to be exceptions to this, but it's just an observation based on experience. When I've run across someone who wants to drift in and out of my life as he will, I eventually tell him just to stay away. While I can see and understand Maria’s points, I can see Sara’s reluctance should the guy come back around. When a guy disappears a smart woman will accept it, cut the emotional ties, and move on with her life. She’s done. If he should decide that he wants to reinsert himself into her life, it’s difficult for a woman to shift gears emotionally to let him back in. Its like something has been lost. Of course there are going to be exceptions to this, but it’s just an observation based on experience. When I’ve run across someone who wants to drift in and out of my life as he will, I eventually tell him just to stay away.

]]> By: Sara http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/comment-page-2/#comment-21777 Sara Mon, 16 Feb 2009 01:16:31 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/#comment-21777 We shall see :) We shall see :)

]]> By: Maria http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/comment-page-2/#comment-21765 Maria Sun, 15 Feb 2009 20:47:50 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/#comment-21765 You have mutual friends, as you mentioned in your previous posts. It is entirely possible that due to mutual contacts you will run into him again at some point. In the meantime...date others and have fun!! Take up a new interest, join a meet-up club and get busy!! You have mutual friends, as you mentioned in your previous posts. It is entirely possible that due to mutual contacts you will run into him again at some point. In the meantime…date others and have fun!! Take up a new interest, join a meet-up club and get busy!!

]]> By: Sara http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/comment-page-2/#comment-21761 Sara Sun, 15 Feb 2009 18:44:40 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-do-guys-act-like-they-like-you-if-they-do-not/#comment-21761 The thing is, I barely even got to know the guy and he disappeared, maybe 1 or 2 dates thats it. And I never even kissed him, he just seemed totally interested in hanging out again then never called. The thing is, I barely even got to know the guy and he disappeared, maybe 1 or 2 dates thats it. And I never even kissed him, he just seemed totally interested in hanging out again then never called.

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