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Why Women Have Sex – And More…

I’m no sexologist but I find studies like this compelling, for the same reason that I found What the Happiest and Most Successful Women Do Differently” interesting.

Newsweek reports on a new book called, bluntly, “Why Women Have Sex”. The reasons, very much like women themselves, are varied and complex.

“One of the things we realized early on was that there’s this huge gap in the field of study in that we thought women’s sexual motivations were sort of intuitive and understood. But what shocked me was the sheer complexity of women’s psychology.”

Newsweek reports on a new book called, bluntly, “Why Women Have Sex”. The reasons, very much like women themselves, are varied and complex.

The piece also cites this really cool study, detailing 237 reasons that women sleep with men. And while it should go without saying, Newsweek makes the same disclaimer that I do when posting something potentially controversial

“The women who answered Meston and Buss’s online survey certainly don’t represent every woman, says Julia Heiman, the director of the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction. Nor will an anonymous online poll tell us everything we need to know… “Up until the past 10 years, we weren’t even talking about the nuances of female sexuality, let alone the multifaceted reasons we have sex,” says Laura Berman, a professor of psychiatry at Northwestern University and the author of Real Sex for Real Women. ”So in that sense, this is a really big step.” A step, with many more to go.”

By the way, this is a great organic intro to my upcoming interview with Dr. Berman on Oprah Radio. We’re kicking off Singles Week in style on Monday afternoon at 5pmEST/2pmPST.

Just tune into XM156 or Sirius 195 to join us.

Have a great weekend!

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4 Responses to “Why Women Have Sex – And More…”

  1. Honey 1

    Nifty!

  2. starthrower68 2

    I don’t think the findings of this study are all that suprising. What a novel concept that women can have sex for a multitude of reasons? We’re human beings, of course it’s complex.

  3. Jimmy 3

    237 reasons and not one seems to apply to me. Help me Evan! Great blogging though.
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  4. Jane 4

    I sent a message to the authors to disabuse them of the focus in this book on the sex/procreation attractant. I wanted to promote the reality that lots of women have sex for reasons that have nothing to do with babies some of which are mentioned in this book but the male author of this duo was more focused on procreation as the real reason behind attraction when in fact, sex for love, sex for sex, sex for fun are all huge motivators as well or else sex would stop with a tubal ligation, stop at menopause or stop once the babies were here! Which, of course, it doesn’t.

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