Attract and keep the relationship you desire

Dating Coaching with Evan

Anyone can go to the gym. Those who want the best results work with a personal trainer.
I am a personal trainer for people who want to fall in love.

My mission is to give intelligent, successful, motivated people like you the tools to create, attract and keep the relationship that you desire.

No matter how bright you are, no matter how old you are, no matter how much you know yourself, you still have blind spots. We all do.

Dating coaching is about shining the light on those blind spots. It’s about understanding the opposite sex and developing a greater sense of self-awareness. It’s about figuring out what’s holding you back, and moving you forward without obstacles.

And who better to explain men than another man?

Plus, who knows more about dating than a man who dated prolifically for 15 years, wrote three books about it, and finally got married after following his own dating advice?


Keep reading to learn about what it’s like to work with me as your dating coach.

(Hint: it’s fun, exciting, and life-changing, but don’t let me bias you in any way.)

Who are your typical clients?

Smart. Successful. Good catches. Frustrated at dating. Confused about the opposite sex. Serious about finding a long-term relationship. Lots of love to give but no one to give it to. Wondering if there’s something they can do differently.

Do you work with men? Or do you exclusively coach women?

While the majority of my clients are intelligent career women, 35-55, I’ve coached both 21-year-old college students and 76-year-old widowers to success. If you are struggling with dating and relationships, and you’re serious about getting different results, I can help. Just try to ignore that most of my materials are written for a female audience.

So let’s say I want to work with you. How long should we continue to talk?

As much as I’d like to wave my magic wand and hand you a life partner, coaching is a process. To get the optimum results, we talk weekly for approximately three months. You will see results within the first month.

Really? It works that fast?

It works that fast. Sometimes the difference between despair and success is just one piece of information, one shift in perspective that alters your entire life.

But what if I just want one session?

Sorry. Attracting and keeping a healthy partner doesn’t happen in one 50-minute phone session. You and I will be starting a new love life from scratch, not trying to save your broken relationship with a toxic commitmentphobe. If you’re dating a man who treats you poorly, I have an easy solution: dump him. Seriously. Dating coaching is about changing the way you choose men, not about changing men themselves.

It all sounds great. Kind of scary, but exciting! Just one more question: what do you mean by “starting a new love life from scratch”? Give me a little taste here…

Fair enough. Where we start depends entirely on your circumstances.

  • If you don’t meet enough people in real life, I’ll help you attract the highest quality people online and show you how to successfully flirt in “real life”.
  • If you never find anybody you meet to be desirable, I’ll illustrate how you can create more opportunities to connect wherever you go.
  • If you don’t get second dates with the men you like the most, I’ll coach you on understanding how you come across to the opposite sex.
  • If you’re trying to figure out how to get a guy, I’ll show you how it’s not actually about making the guy like you…but about being the woman that no man can resist.
  • If you’re consistently attracted to emotionally unavailable partners, I’ll introduce a new decision-making process designed to empower you and break your old patterns.

In other words, you may be a unique person but your situation is not unique. In fact, whatever you’re going through has been experienced by millions before you. By taking control of your own destiny, uncovering your blind spots, and learning how men think, you will have instant power and control over your love life. Better yet, you’ll have internal peace in knowing that you’re going to make all the right decisions in your future relationships.

To get access to this one-of-a-kind material, choose the option that best describes the kind of personal attention you desire.

Warmest wishes and many thanks,

Evan Marc Katz

  • Ali G. (soon to be Ali S!)

    "I'm in love, getting married and hopefully starting a family soon. I couldn't be any happier."

    I’m now engaged! I really wanted you to officiate our wedding, but it was very important to Jeremy that we have a Rabbi or Cantor – and, as I learned from you, compromise is important. However, I would still like to send you and your lovely wife an invitation.  If not for you, I don’t know that I would be getting married.  You taught me a great deal and I’ve been spreading the gospel of Evan in an attempt to pay it forward.

    Actions speak louder than words, it's not always as personal as we make it and the right guy does the right thing! I wish I had understood these things earlier, but life being what it is, I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be.

    I'm in love, getting married and hopefully starting a family soon. I couldn't be any happier. In short, thank you for everything, I can’t say that enough. You’ve given me tools I will use for the rest of my life.

    Love always,

    Ali G. (soon to be Ali S!)
  • Mary L.

    "You truly changed my life, my outlook...and I am grateful!!"

    I've been thinking about our coaching so much lately!

    When we parted ways - I had been wooed and then experienced the amazing disappearing act of Robert - tall dark handsome Italian - who spun me up and left me cold. I was dating John (neighbor/dad) and George (rich/arrogant) and quite happy having 2 boyfriends that were interesting.

    You coached me through the craziness of being wooed and dumped by Robert -- and promised that 'he'd call again'. We virtually experienced labor pains getting me to a profile that we both liked. You coached me through flirting online - which landed me both of my 'dateables': John because I started a conversation about his Boston Terriers - and George because we both traveled too much.

    And now, I have a great love. John became the light of my life. He chased me to Minnesota for 4th of July weekend last year and we've been together since. We I laugh about our Match experiences - his friends think he was searching for girls within walking distance - we only live a mile apart and had a 'Worlds Collide' party over the holidays because of all our mutual friends and acquaintances.  John says that I am exactly the person in my profile...and I'm cuter than my photos ever were.

    I was a pretty sad sap when I was in the coaching process -- I really had no great love stories to tell you from my past -- and now, I have them, in spades. John texts me crazy wonderful love texts to start and end every day.  The roses are never from the grocery store...the Christmas presents were thoughtful and perfect.  And I am wrapped in his wonderful love.

    And last week, out of the blue....Robert from chapter 1 of this crazy saga called me.  I proudly ignored the call (and the 2 more after that one) and prodded myself to write to you and thank you again for your fabulous coaching, amazing support, wisdom and honesty.

    You truly changed my life, my outlook...and I am grateful!!

    Mary L.

Group CoachingGroup Coaching

FOCUS Coaching

FOCUS Coaching

A comprehensive, interactive coaching program, tackling a new facet of dating every month, answering your personal questions on our monthly calls, and joining hundreds of other women in my exclusive members-only community forum.

My Inner Circle

Inner Circle

Get all the tools you need to create a happy, healthy relationship. With intimate group coaching and the support of the 16 women in your Inner Circle, you’ll gain confidence and control over your love life in no time.

Private CoachingPrivate Coaching

4 Week
Romance Course

4 Week Romance Course

Online dating can be frustrating. The wrong people contact you, the right people ignore you, and just when you think you’ve made a connection – poof! – it disappears.

While you may just want to give up, quitting’s not the answer.

Despite its flaws, no medium creates more opportunities than online dating. I specialize in helping women like you stand out in a sea of generic profiles. Within weeks of coaching, you’ll have a new profile, new photos, and a new email technique to weed out the wrong guys and attract the right ones!

8 Week
Passion Course

8 Week Passion Course

Let’s face it: the dating process is fraught with dilemmas.

You have a great first date, but you don’t always get a second one. You don’t know how to respond to his text. You debate whether you should be calling him. You’re not sure how you feel about dating other guys. You’re confused about when to have sex. You wonder how many dates you should give to a flaky guy.

Thankfully, I’ve figured it all out for you. Join me and learn to be a confident, self-aware woman who makes the right decisions every time!

12 Week
Commitment Course

12 Week Commitment Course

You know what it’s like when a man starts to pull away. You know how you feel when you’re starting to fight. You remember being afraid to break up because you’ve already invested so much time.

I promise: you will never have that feeling again.

After 12 weeks with me, you will understand men, be able to set boundaries, and get crystal clear on how to choose a healthy partner. This is my most comprehensive and empowering course, designed so you don’t need further coaching!

Happy ClientsHappy Clients

  • Morgana R.

    "Being able to check in with Evan each week was like a safety net to give this a go."

    I also discovered that I could attract a ton of quality men, in no time at all, if I needed to go back out there. It's a relief to know I have options. But really, I'm very, very much in love. THIS is the relationship I want, and I have it!

    Morgana R.
  • Carol A.

    "Since working with you, I am happy, content, less anxious, more compassionate, more understanding, more patient, loving."

    I learned from you something revelatory: men want to make women happy. Sometimes they don’t know how to do that, but my boyfriend really wants to make me happy…

    Carol A.
  • Karin G.

    "I have a mature, supportive, satisfying, committed relationship, and I am so happy. "

    Regardless of how women want to go about finding the relationship they want and need, you are the one to help them find it... Thank you so much for everything!!

    Karin G.
  • Shelagh M.

    "Dale and I have been together for two and a half years and will be married in 3 months."

    You provide a reality check and remind me that everyone has doubts and there is no one "normal" response to love and commitment. I think your insight and perspective is incredibly accurate - you seem to understand the plight/perspective of the working, successful urban woman over 30.

    Shelagh M.
  • Charlene J.

    "I cannot say enough good things about this man."

    He is a beautiful person and he is so generous, affectionate, well spoken and accomplished. He is tall and athletic and totally hot. He is 53, but I am here to tell you 53 can be pretty damn impressive. All this from a woman who a year before had equated dating with despair, rejection and pain.

    Charlene J.