Attract and keep the relationship you desire

Dating Coaching with Evan

Anyone can go to the gym. Those who want the best results work with a personal trainer.
I am a personal trainer for people who want to fall in love.

My mission is to give intelligent, successful, motivated people like you the tools to create, attract and keep the relationship that you desire.

No matter how bright you are, no matter how old you are, no matter how much you know yourself, you still have blind spots. We all do.

Dating coaching is about shining the light on those blind spots. It’s about understanding the opposite sex and developing a greater sense of self-awareness. It’s about figuring out what’s holding you back, and moving you forward without obstacles.

And who better to explain men than another man?

Plus, who knows more about dating than a man who dated prolifically for 15 years, wrote four books about it?


Keep reading to learn about what it’s like to work with me as your dating coach.

(Hint: it’s fun, exciting, and life-changing, but don’t let me bias you in any way.)

Who are your typical clients?

Smart. Successful. Good catches. Frustrated at dating. Confused about the opposite sex. Serious about finding a long-term relationship. Lots of love to give but no one to give it to. Wondering if there’s something you can do differently.

Do you work with men? Or do you exclusively coach women?

I used to coach men. Then I realized that while men need lots of help, they generally don’t ask for it. So, since 2010, I’ve worked exclusively with smart women who want to understand men and find love.

50% of my clients are 35-50.

25% are under 35

25% are above 50.

Which means that yes, I’ve helped women just like you before.

So let’s say I want to work with you. How long should we continue to talk?

As much as I’d like to wave my magic wand and hand you a life partner, coaching is a process. My comprehensive coaching program, Love U, is six months. You will see results within the first month.

Really? It works that fast?

It works that fast. Sometimes the difference between despair and success is just one piece of information, one shift in perspective that alters your entire life.

But what if I just want one session?

Sorry. Attracting and keeping a healthy partner doesn’t happen in one 50-minute phone session. You and I will be starting a new love life from scratch, not trying to save your broken relationship with a toxic commitmentphobe. If you’re dating a man who treats you poorly, I have an easy solution: dump him. Seriously. Dating coaching is about changing the way you choose men, not about changing men themselves.

It all sounds great. Kind of scary, but exciting! Just one more question: what do you mean by “starting a new love life from scratch”? Give me a little taste here…

Fair enough. Where we start depends entirely on your circumstances.

  • If you don’t meet enough people in real life, I’ll help you attract the highest quality people online and show you how to successfully flirt in “real life”.
  • If you never find anybody you meet to be desirable, I’ll illustrate how you can create more opportunities to connect wherever you go.
  • If you don’t get second dates with the men you like the most, I’ll coach you on understanding how you come across to the opposite sex.
  • If you’re trying to figure out how to get a guy, I’ll show you how it’s not actually about making the guy like you…but about being the woman that no man can resist.
  • If you’re consistently attracted to emotionally unavailable partners, I’ll introduce a new decision-making process designed to empower you and break your old patterns.

In other words, you may be a unique person but your situation is not unique. In fact, whatever you’re going through has been experienced by millions before you. By taking control of your own destiny, uncovering your blind spots, and learning how men think, you will have instant power and control over your love life. Better yet, you’ll have internal peace in knowing that you’re going to make all the right decisions in your future relationships.

To get access to this one-of-a-kind material, choose the option that best describes the kind of personal attention you desire.

Warmest wishes and many thanks,

Evan Marc Katz

  • Ali G. (soon to be Ali S!)

    "I'm in love, getting married and hopefully starting a family soon. I couldn't be any happier."

    I’m now engaged! I really wanted you to officiate our wedding, but it was very important to Jeremy that we have a Rabbi or Cantor – and, as I learned from you, compromise is important. However, I would still like to send you and your lovely wife an invitation.  If not for you, I don’t know that I would be getting married.  You taught me a great deal and I’ve been spreading the gospel of Evan in an attempt to pay it forward.

    Actions speak louder than words, it's not always as personal as we make it and the right guy does the right thing! I wish I had understood these things earlier, but life being what it is, I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be.

    I'm in love, getting married and hopefully starting a family soon. I couldn't be any happier. In short, thank you for everything, I can’t say that enough. You’ve given me tools I will use for the rest of my life.

    Love always,

    Ali G. (soon to be Ali S!)
  • Mary L.

    "You truly changed my life, my outlook...and I am grateful!!"

    I've been thinking about our coaching so much lately!

    When we parted ways - I had been wooed and then experienced the amazing disappearing act of Robert - tall dark handsome Italian - who spun me up and left me cold. I was dating John (neighbor/dad) and George (rich/arrogant) and quite happy having 2 boyfriends that were interesting.

    You coached me through the craziness of being wooed and dumped by Robert -- and promised that 'he'd call again'. We virtually experienced labor pains getting me to a profile that we both liked. You coached me through flirting online - which landed me both of my 'dateables': John because I started a conversation about his Boston Terriers - and George because we both traveled too much.

    And now, I have a great love. John became the light of my life. He chased me to Minnesota for 4th of July weekend last year and we've been together since. We I laugh about our Match experiences - his friends think he was searching for girls within walking distance - we only live a mile apart and had a 'Worlds Collide' party over the holidays because of all our mutual friends and acquaintances.  John says that I am exactly the person in my profile...and I'm cuter than my photos ever were.

    I was a pretty sad sap when I was in the coaching process -- I really had no great love stories to tell you from my past -- and now, I have them, in spades. John texts me crazy wonderful love texts to start and end every day.  The roses are never from the grocery store...the Christmas presents were thoughtful and perfect.  And I am wrapped in his wonderful love.

    And last week, out of the blue....Robert from chapter 1 of this crazy saga called me.  I proudly ignored the call (and the 2 more after that one) and prodded myself to write to you and thank you again for your fabulous coaching, amazing support, wisdom and honesty.

    You truly changed my life, my outlook...and I am grateful!!

    Mary L.

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Love U Inner Circle

Love U Inner Circle

Love U is a one-of-a-kind course that answers every single question you have about dating, relationships, and men. By walking you through different topic every month – Confidence, Meeting Men, Dating, Understanding Men, Relationships and Commitment – I ensure that when you graduate, you will be able to create the love you truly deserve.

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Love U Masters Coaching

Love U Masters Coaching

If you want an opportunity to work with me one-on-one…

If you value personal attention above all, and you need the kind of hand-holding that ensures the greatest possible results…

If you want to live happily ever after and are ready to start your fairy tale NOW…

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  • Charlene J.

    "I cannot say enough good things about this man."

    He is a beautiful person and he is so generous, affectionate, well spoken and accomplished. He is tall and athletic and totally hot. He is 53, but I am here to tell you 53 can be pretty damn impressive. All this from a woman who a year before had equated dating with despair, rejection and pain.

    Charlene J.
  • Carol A.

    "Since working with you, I am happy, content, less anxious, more compassionate, more understanding, more patient, loving."

    I learned from you something revelatory: men want to make women happy. Sometimes they don’t know how to do that, but my boyfriend really wants to make me happy…

    Carol A.
  • Shelagh M.

    "Dale and I have been together for two and a half years and will be married in 3 months."

    You provide a reality check and remind me that everyone has doubts and there is no one "normal" response to love and commitment. I think your insight and perspective is incredibly accurate - you seem to understand the plight/perspective of the working, successful urban woman over 30.

    Shelagh M.
  • "All I can say is THANK YOU. Keep doing what you are doing – you are so good at it. You were the wizard in my love story."

    I am now married to a wonderful man that I met about one and a half years ago on Match. I cannot overemphasize how important your guidance and advice was in finding the right person for me.

    Ana Y.
  • Morgana R.

    "Being able to check in with Evan each week was like a safety net to give this a go."

    I also discovered that I could attract a ton of quality men, in no time at all, if I needed to go back out there. It's a relief to know I have options. But really, I'm very, very much in love. THIS is the relationship I want, and I have it!

    Morgana R.