I have the love of my life, my kids, meaningful work, and I'm healthy.

Thanks, Evan! Life is much better when you live it with love. And, thanks to you, my life is the best it's ever been. I have the love of my life, my kids, meaningful work, and I'm healthy. I live on a whole new plane. I am more relaxed, more self-assured and appreciate each day. When challenges come, my husband reminds me that we share them. I knew this was possible - getting here was the challenge.

We have a lot of superstitions about love - namely, that it should come easy. It's work to find the right person - especially when you're out of a natural "pool" like college. It IS like a job search, only much more important and much more encompassing. Thinking you'll just stumble across the right person is really crazy when you think about it. What else in life that's worth having comes from happenstance? Knowing how to present yourself and who you really are is very important, and that's where you were so very helpful to me.

Thanks, Evan, I really appreciate your encouragement, kindness and support.

Lori Josephson, 44, Tampa