Passion. Lust. Chemistry. No matter what you call it, it’s one of the most intoxicating forces on the planet. But if you don’t understand how amazing chemistry can actually HURT your long-term relationship chances, you need to read all of the blog posts below.
Dilbert creator Scott Adams blogged about passion a couple of weeks ago. “You often hear advice from successful people that you should “Follow your passion.” That sounds about right. Passion…
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Dear Evan, I have read through over 40 pages of archives from your blog, and I can’t find the answer to this one. I’ve been dating a guy (for a…
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Ever fall hopelessly for a man who was more in love with himself than he was with you? Get in line. According to a new study published in the Journal…
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Evan, I’ve been involved with Ken for two years. I met him through friends. He isn’t exactly who I envisioned and we’ve had some tough challenges along the way. I…
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I have a lot of conversations with women who inquire about which coaching option is the right fit. Before anyone invests a lot of money in herself, it’s important that…
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Hi Evan. First I wanted to thank you for creating a fantastic forum for dating enlightenment and for changing the way I view relationships. Here’s my question: I have met…
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As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, I don’t talk about it much, but here’s my dirty little secret: I LOVE coaching men. 20% of my clients were…
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A reader of this blog shared a Huffington Post article with me last week. In it, author Sheryl Paul writes: “We live under a massive cultural delusion about the nature…
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I have a guy friend who is perpetually single. He’s got everything going for him. Advanced degree. Successful. Funny. Social. Ambitious. Good values. And yet every time I talk with…
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Dear Evan, I’m in a four-year relationship with a truly amazing guy. He is thoughtful, considerate, and funny. We share many of the same interests, and we truly enjoy spending…
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I'm in my 60's and expected that I would not have a committed relationship again. I'm still dealing with issues internally of fear and past experiences, as is he. But we can talk about these things and know that we have something special.
He was gentle, tough, hugely insightful and extremely accurate at decoding a man's words, his actions, his lack of action, his likely intentions. It was like having a direct line to a man's "private talk."
He makes me feel special, goes out of his way for me, doesn't keep me guessing about whether I'll hear from him, gives me his full attention.
Brilliant! Once you understand where men are coming from, which I would not have been able to do without the help of "Why He Disappeared," it is very simple! I have never felt so relaxed around him, he knows this and wants to spend more time with me. His choice!
You didn't always tell me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to hear. You were honest with me even when I didn't like it. You put a mirror to my face...no one enjoys that but it's important if you really want to make a change and find the real thing.
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