I’ll admit; I’m no expert on infidelity. I’m happily married and have never cheated on a girlfriend in my entire life. But if you’re plagued by jealousy, trust issues, or insecurities brought on by unfaithful men, you need to learn how to choose a loyal, trustworthy partner. If you can’t trust your boyfriend, he shouldn’t be your boyfriend. See below what you should and should not accept from your partner.
Just this Christmas, my husband ran into his old high school fling. Since she was starting to see my sister’s brother in law, we spent Christmas with her as well.…
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Dear Evan, I guarantee my question has never been asked before. I threw myself into my career for 25 years and didn’t date until I was 48 when I met…
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It’s complicated. This guy is a friend of my boyfriend. For years, we’ve had an obvious strong mutual liking for one another. We’ve never acted on it. Long story short,…
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Dear Evan, My boyfriend is constantly accusing me of sleeping with other guys. I am very devoted and don’t have any interest in any other guy but him. I am…
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I have been dating a guy I met online for about 3 months now. He has been divorced for 16 years. I have never been married. He’s 42, and I…
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From Psychology Today, a smart and concise description of why men risk so much for so little: Explanations (for cheating) are easy to come by, ranging from economics (He finally…
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I’m a newly and happily married man, but I’ve gotta say – I spend an inordinate amount of time peeking into the lives of others on Facebook. I’m sure I’m…
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I have been dating my boyfriend for over two years now. For the most part, I think he is a very loving, respectable, and caring man and I have never…
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I met this guy (he’s 53, I’m 43) on an online dating site, and our first and second date went so well, we slept together on the second date.…
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I am married to a man who has no interest in me. He never takes me anywhere. All he does is work and sleep. I realized now that he does…
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