Passion. Lust. Chemistry. No matter what you call it, it’s one of the most intoxicating forces on the planet. But if you don’t understand how amazing chemistry can actually HURT your long-term relationship chances, you need to read all of the blog posts below.
As you probably know, I’m not a psychologist, therapist, MSW, clinical researcher, scientist or PhD. I’m a highly verbal, analytical, flirtatious former screenwriter and early adopter of online dating who…
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Add this to the annals of studies that confirm things we already know anecdotally. A piece in Time Magazine cites numbers from the Are You Interested Facebook app that concludes…
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Hi Evan. In my search for relationship advice I have found your perspective so insightful and real. Much better than advice from friends that mainly includes “don’t settle” and “follow…
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Dilbert creator Scott Adams blogged about passion a couple of weeks ago. “You often hear advice from successful people that you should “Follow your passion.” That sounds about right. Passion…
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Ever fall hopelessly for a man who was more in love with himself than he was with you? Get in line. According to a new study published in the Journal…
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Evan, I’ve been involved with Ken for two years. I met him through friends. He isn’t exactly who I envisioned and we’ve had some tough challenges along the way. I…
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Hi Evan. First I wanted to thank you for creating a fantastic forum for dating enlightenment and for changing the way I view relationships. Here’s my question: I have met…
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As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, I don’t talk about it much, but here’s my dirty little secret: I LOVE coaching men. 20% of my clients were…
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A reader of this blog shared a Huffington Post article with me last week. In it, author Sheryl Paul writes: “We live under a massive cultural delusion about the nature…
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I have a guy friend who is perpetually single. He’s got everything going for him. Advanced degree. Successful. Funny. Social. Ambitious. Good values. And yet every time I talk with…
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He is everything I never knew I always wanted. He is kind and caring, with wonderful values. He makes me feel like the most special woman in the world. I never have to wonder how he feels about me, I KNOW.
You always did tell it like it is. I have to say thank you for believing in me, and giving me confidence I didn’t know I had. Thank you for seeing that there was something to be seen in me, that I didn’t even know existed.
“Why He Disappeared” made me feel like I was in control of my love life and that it was not in control of me. Now I'm VERY happy with myself and my relationship. I can relax and not stress about the future, I'm enjoying the here and now and its so much FUN!
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