Passion. Lust. Chemistry. No matter what you call it, it’s one of the most intoxicating forces on the planet. But if you don’t understand how amazing chemistry can actually HURT your long-term relationship chances, you need to read all of the blog posts below.
Rich men, beautiful women. It’s sort of a cliche, right? Ugly old man, young blonde gold digger. The Millionaire Matchmaker. Men make money to get hot women. Women try to…
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Hi Evan, I have been struggling with the fact I have a wonderful man in my life who loves me more than I’ve ever felt loved, but I’m just not…
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Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love, felt trapped. She left her husband, sold a book, and took her book advance to find herself (and transcendent love) in Italy, India…
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Dear Evan, I’m in a four-year relationship with a truly amazing guy. He is thoughtful, considerate, and funny. We share many of the same interests, and we truly enjoy spending…
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Dear Evan, I have read through over 40 pages of archives from your blog, and I can’t find the answer to this one. I’ve been dating a guy (for a…
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Passion vs. Comfort. This is a post you don’t want to miss, inspired by a discussion on my (500) Days of Summer thread. Here’s the gist of it. Reader Lori…
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Let’s just say that if I could bottle and sell this, I’d be one rich dude. All the men in the pick-up artist (PUA) community have tried to turn it…
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Have you ever been in a relationship with a person who made your heart flutter? Who made your toes curl? Who gave you butterflies? Chemistry. There’s no feeling like it.
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As you probably know, I’m not a psychologist, therapist, MSW, clinical researcher, scientist or PhD. I’m a highly verbal, analytical, flirtatious former screenwriter and early adopter of online dating who…
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Hi Evan, I am in a very tricky situation and don’t know what to do, I found your web site and your advice are great. I hope you will answer…
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