Passion. Lust. Chemistry. No matter what you call it, it’s one of the most intoxicating forces on the planet. But if you don’t understand how amazing chemistry can actually HURT your long-term relationship chances, you need to read all of the blog posts below.
Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love, felt trapped. She left her husband, sold a book, and took her book advance to find herself (and transcendent love) in Italy, India…
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Hi Evan, I have been struggling with the fact I have a wonderful man in my life who loves me more than I’ve ever felt loved, but I’m just not…
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Passion vs. Comfort. This is a post you don’t want to miss, inspired by a discussion on my (500) Days of Summer thread. Here’s the gist of it. Reader Lori…
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A reader of this blog shared a Huffington Post article with me last week. In it, author Sheryl Paul writes: “We live under a massive cultural delusion about the nature…
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My girlfriend of 2 1/2 years just put all our plans on hold, including buying a house together and getting married later this year. She says she loves me but…
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Janie is a 45-year-old private coaching client who registered for my Passion Course, in which I provide 8 weeks of intensive personalized coaching, beginning online and moving offline. After 3…
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I am married to an honest, loyal and trustworthy man. However, we are not intimate in any way and there is no chemistry. At one point, we went over four…
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As you probably know, I’m not a psychologist, therapist, MSW, clinical researcher, scientist or PhD. I’m a highly verbal, analytical, flirtatious former screenwriter and early adopter of online dating who…
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Hi Evan, I am in a very tricky situation and don’t know what to do, I found your web site and your advice are great. I hope you will answer…
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Dear Evan, I have read through over 40 pages of archives from your blog, and I can’t find the answer to this one. I’ve been dating a guy (for a…
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