I know you think you’re probably a great communicator. Think again. Most women are either sabotaged by oversharing your thoughts, not fully accepting your man for who he is, or by pressuring him to be someone he’s not. If you’ve done any of these things, my posts on communication are for you.
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After 300 dates in New York and Los Angeles between the ages of 25-34, I’ve now been with my wife for twelve years. Our relationship pre-dates dating apps, pre-dates social media, and pretty much pre-dates texting as a primary form of communication.
All too often, I’d rather talk than listen. Especially when the salient points are buried deeply in a stream of unnecessary detail. This is never more manifest than within my marriage
It’s not whether you will disagree; it’s what you do about it afterward. Listening, validating, not attacking, looking for points of agreement, assuming the best intentions: these are the hallmarks of healthy communication and successful relationships.
David Brooks is a modern-day philosopher masquerading as a newspaper columnist. I may not agree with every word he writes (he’s still a Republican, I think) but he’s a moderate…
You go out with a guy on Friday. You’re bored stiff. He calls you the next day to say he had a blast and can’t wait to see you again. You determine he’s a needy stalker.
It’s generally not my style to link to other advice columnists, but my friend, Lori Gottlieb, author of the new book,”Maybe You Should Talk to Someone” does such an incredible job that it feels like a dereliction of duty to keep her to myself.
I am a 25-year old woman living in North Carolina. I’ve been with my loving, consistent boyfriend (also 25) for a year now and I’ve been impressed with how easy and natural the relationship is. We live separately but see each other at least 2-3x/week and have keys to each other’s places.
Vanessa Van Edwards does YouTube videos and articles about charisma on her website, The Science of People. I ran across this one and thought it was applicable to dating.
So, I was dating a guy for two months and things were going pretty great in my opinion! However, he started to do the slow fade after spending the night (no sex). I recognized what this was early on, and just let it be!
I know that, if a man isn’t reaching back out within a day or so of your last date, it’s because he doesn’t care to do so. However, when the guy sends a follow-up message 5-7 days later, what’s the best way to respond?
"I was able to learn from others’ experiences without having to go through all of it myself. That’s why the Inner Circle was invaluable."
I went from being unsure and inexperienced to having a great boyfriend who adores me and treats me really well and is now actively thinking and talking about marriage and kids.
"I have read it 10 times already, and keep revisiting it every time I begin to even hint at a moment’s insecurity."
Brilliant! Once you understand where men are coming from, which I would not have been able to do without the help of "Why He Disappeared," it is very simple! I have never felt so relaxed around him, he knows this and wants to spend more time with me. His choice!
“Without your help, I never could have imagined that I could be in a relationship like this one.”
I'm in my 60's and expected that I would not have a committed relationship again. I'm still dealing with issues internally of fear and past experiences, as is he. But we can talk about these things and know that we have something special.
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