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You may think dating is a dirty word. Not when you do it my way. If you’ve ever struggled with attracting the “right” guys, getting second dates, or turning a hook-up into a boyfriend, my blog posts on dating will show you how to stop making the mistakes that have plagued you for your whole life.
I’m back into dating after a 20+ year marriage, having read and implemented your valuable advice in “Finding the One Online.” Even though I’m in my mid-50s, grossly over-educated, and…
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I have come to learn that we manifest in our lives what we believe we deserve. I was a late bloomer to love because I never believed myself attractive enough…
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Your advice has helped me navigate modern dating. I figured out the ones who were just in it for sex, I dumped the ones who wouldn’t commit, I learned never…
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One trend in your advice is that men just want someone who accepts them for who they are, loves them, doesn’t nag them, etc. I am someone who does this,…
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It feels so good to have found you: your advice on your YouTube videos has felt like a soothing guide to my soul. 🙂 I am going on 4 months…
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After my annual Love U launch, I usually write a message with an apology for the flurry of blog posts, a summary of what I learned, and a promise to…
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You began reading my blog because you were frustrated with dating. Who could blame you? Online dating is a jungle. Hook-up culture can be soul-sucking. It’s hard enough to find…
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This is an important post, so keep reading until the very end. First, I’m going to begin with a confession about my past. Next, I’m going to teach you a…
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I want to thank you for the amazing work you so generously provide to those lucky enough to have found your work. Over a year ago I bought “Why He…
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If you look at the top of the page under my name, you’ll see two short sentences: Understand Men. Find Love. I don’t think it’s a stretch to say that…
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He recently started referring to us as boyfriend and girlfriend and it makes my heart sing. I really feel that we are moving towards the next level in our relationship and I continue to listen to “Why He Disappeared” on a weekly basis to keep myself grounded.
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I’ve chosen to be cherished and allow myself to know that I was worthy of love. Now, I feel like when I go with the flow and stop trying to control any given situation, things fall into place. It’s so exhilarating!
He is a beautiful person and he is so generous, affectionate, well spoken and accomplished. He is tall and athletic and totally hot. He is 53, but I am here to tell you 53 can be pretty damn impressive. All this from a woman who a year before had equated dating with despair, rejection and pain.
You always did tell it like it is. I have to say thank you for believing in me, and giving me confidence I didn’t know I had. Thank you for seeing that there was something to be seen in me, that I didn’t even know existed.
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