Should I Go Out With Men Who Don’t Know If They Want Kids?
There are men who really, really want kids like you do. I was one of them. I always wanted to be a Dad and was always looking for a woman who wanted to be a Mom.
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I Don’t Make Money and I’m Worried That Men Will Judge Me For It
See, for the most part, men don’t “expect you to be successful.” Men expect you to be nice. To accept them as they are without trying to change them. To laugh at their jokes. To be able to carry on a good conversation. To appreciate their efforts to please you. To take the time to look attractive and sexy. To make them feel attractive and sexy. To be his soft place to land
Read More… 66 commentsLori Gottlieb Wants You to Change Your Story
Lori Gottlieb is one hell of a writer. She published her childhood diaries as a book. She’s written for the New York Times, The Atlantic and NPR.
Read More… 8 commentsI Think I Pushed a Good Guy Away by Being Too Intense
You dated a guy who decided – after much interaction, intercourse and deliberation – that he did NOT want to be with you.
Whether that was because of his job, his lack of attraction to you, his feeling that you were not “the one” or a hundred other reasons doesn’t really matter.
Should I Have a Long-Distance Relationship with a Man in Another Country?
Don’t say that to the woman who thinks that if she’s a self-made millionaire, she “deserves” to date a man who makes more.
And definitely don’t say anything to the millions of starry-eyed lovers who think that long-distance relationships are a good idea.
My Boyfriend Got Me Pregnant (Twice) and Left Me. Should I Take Him Back?
Was there ANY point in this story where he was kind? Patient? Sensitive? Thoughtful? Put your feelings first? Showed that he’d be a giving and willing partner? Demonstrated the kind of character you’d want to pass along to your children?
Read More… 19 commentsHow to Quit Worrying
“Often, when driven people care about something and finally experience whatever they’ve been hoping to achieve — whether it’s a new relationship, a health goal, a promotion or something else altogether — they’re unable to entirely savor the good times. They may, in fact, do the exact opposite: endlessly worry about when their peak might plummet.”
Read More… 83 commentsLast Chance to Apply For A Love U Masters VIP Scholarship Worth $18,000!
I have mixed emotions right now. On one hand, it’s wonderful hearing from women who have been so touched by my work. Yet it hurts to get so many reminders of the pain that you feel around men, dating and relationships. It kills me that I can’t singlehandedly help every single woman on this mailing list just by waving my magic wand.
Read More… 1 commentA (Love U) Christmas success story
Last year, at this time, I offered an $18,000 Love U VIP Masters Coaching Scholarship to one woman from my mailing list. 200 women applied in less than a week.
After agonizing over the applications and doing a number of phone interviews, I chose a 41-year-old woman named Rania. It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
My Boyfriend Just Lost His Job and His Home and I’m Really Afraid.
This is HIS problem and if you think you’re scared, believe me, he’s even MORE scared. And, just like being a parent to a child who is fearful, the best thing you can do is provide reassurance that everything is going to be okay. He’s already feeling vulnerable and thinking all the same thoughts that you are – except he’s really beating up on himself.
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