You may think dating is a dirty word. Not when you do it my way. If you’ve ever struggled with attracting the “right” guys, getting second dates, or turning a hook-up into a boyfriend, my blog posts on dating will show you how to stop making the mistakes that have plagued you for your whole life.
Hi there, I came across your blog seeking advice. I searched the archives and haven’t found my particular situation. I’m going to be 31 in a month, and my biological…
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There are two big problems in dating. 1) You don’t want the people who want you. 2) The people you want don’t want you in return. Now, take a look…
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Dear Evan! I’ve been reading your advice for a while. I like how you talk about not putting so much importance on chemistry and how you should focus on how…
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Hi Evan, I went on a date with a wonderful girl on Friday, and it did go quite well. I noticed the past few days since she has looked at…
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Hi Evan, I just finished reading “Why He Disappeared.” It was extremely insightful. I didn’t really fit EXACTLY into the female examples you gave but still got a lot out…
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I am 44 years old and entering the dating scene again for the first time in 25 years. Where do you go to meet someone at my age? I am…
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Evan, I filed with the court a legal separation and divorce decree at the same time. My ex-wife and I were physically separated for almost 10 months, mentally separated longer…
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I’ve been running a Relationship Survey, filled out by 720 women (and a coupla guys) so far, and the results have been astounding. So many interesting, heartfelt, vulnerable questions, which,…
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What are the signs that someone’s desire for exclusivity is really about YOU, rather than about a need to control? I’ve been casually dating for three years since my divorce,…
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I’ve been dating a guy for two years now. We currently live on opposite coasts (I’m in graduate school, he’s a professor), but we manage to see each other relatively…
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Thanks to Evan, I finally feel like I'm exactly where I want to be in life. The future is wide open and bright, and I found a rare gem to cherish. I thank Evan for his advice and insight, his reading recommendations, and his encouragement through this process!
He emailed me, he called me, he asked for a date, he called back, he contacts me everyday, he took down his profile first, he stopped dating the other women he was dating and asked me to “date exclusively” because he wants to focus on getting to know me better. All I did was say yes.
The Inner Circle really has been a learning process for which I'm grateful. In the meantime, I am enjoying a type of peace and ease in a relationship that I’ve never experienced before. That, in itself, is a tremendous gift to me, and worth its weight in gold.
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