The Love U Pyramid of Love

If you’ve been at your job for over ten years, you’re probably “unconsciously competent” at it. As a dating coach for the past fifteen years, I’d like to think that describes me as well.

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How Can I Ever Let a Man Get Close to Me Again?

How Can I Ever Let a Man Get Close to Me Again

I am shattered from bad relationships. I’ve just finished my seventh long term relationship and I’m only 37. The man before this last one died unfortunately from cancer and left me with a newborn baby. I took nearly four years to pull myself together after this and then met a man online.

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Why Do Men Like Me But Never Love Me?

My Boyfriend Has Been Putting Off Talking About Marriage for a Year

Like Meghan Daum, Heather Havrilesky is another author and Facebook friend whom I haven’t met yet. She, too, is a Duke graduate from the 90’s as well as a noted advice columnist, and I’ll be the first to admit that she’s probably better than I am.

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