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You may think dating is a dirty word. Not when you do it my way. If you’ve ever struggled with attracting the “right” guys, getting second dates, or turning a hook-up into a boyfriend, my blog posts on dating will show you how to stop making the mistakes that have plagued you for your whole life.

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Has My Abusive and Cheating Ex-Boyfriend Ruined Me for Other Men?

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Recently, I finally left my verbally abusive/cheating boyfriend. It took me longer than it should have to get the courage to break up with him, but when I finally did…

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Another Broken Heart? Here’s How to Get It Right with the Next Guy.

Wouldn’t you like a man to take care of YOU

They’re wonderful stories. They just rarely have happy endings. That’s the way I see “love at first sight,” that Hollywood-meets-real-life phenomenon where you meet a total stranger and “just know”…

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How Can I Identify and Avoid Men Who Don’t Know What They Want?

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My ex and I dated for 2 years before we got engaged. When we met, I was 30 and he was 42, neither one of us had been married before.…

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I Have a Great Boyfriend with Issues. Should I Stick Around or Cut My Losses?

I Have a Great Boyfriend with Issues. Should I Stick Around or Cut My Losses?

After 4-6 weeks of dating, I’ve been in an exclusive relationship with a man 4 years my junior (I am 36) who has had some significant struggles in his life:…

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What Should I Say to Men Who Ask Me Out While on a First Date?

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I’m back into dating after a 20+ year marriage, having read and implemented your valuable advice in “Finding the One Online.” Even though I’m in my mid-50s, grossly over-educated, and…

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Why Do I Always Want Men Who Are Taken or Not Available?

Should I Stay with a Married Man Who Still Lives With His Wife?

I have come to learn that we manifest in our lives what we believe we deserve. I was a late bloomer to love because I never believed myself attractive enough…

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He Committed to Me After Two Weeks. When Can I Let Down My Guard?

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Your advice has helped me navigate modern dating. I figured out the ones who were just in it for sex, I dumped the ones who wouldn’t commit, I learned never…

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Why Do Men Not Accept Me and My Flaws When I Fully Accept Them?

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One trend in your advice is that men just want someone who accepts them for who they are, loves them, doesn’t nag them, etc. I am someone who does this,…

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Should I Continue Seeing a Separated Man Whose Divorce is Nowhere in Sight?

Should I Continue Seeing a Separated Man Whose Divorce is Nowhere in Sight

It feels so good to have found you: your advice on your YouTube videos has felt like a soothing guide to my soul. 🙂 I am going on 4 months…

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(Special Announcement) A Tragedy Puts Everything in Perspective

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After my annual Love U launch, I usually write a message with an apology for the flurry of blog posts, a summary of what I learned, and a promise to…

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    Noemi Morales on Is it Okay to Talk with a Man About His Small Penis?
  • "Evan, are you suggesting someone with a PhD degree should date someone who didn't graduate college? My friends and I have dated men who made less and didn't have as high of an education level. While t…"
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    Sammy on My Live-In Boyfriend Doesn’t Contribute Equally To Our Joint Expenses, And I’m Starting To Resent Him
  • "Looking forward to armchair experts like you telling me how to make an entire gender change to your satisfaction. Absent a tangible suggestion, all you have is a very wordy complaint, akin to “I hat…"
    Evan Marc Katz on Why Are There No Attractive Men in Your Area
  • "Evan, I recently turned 57. Been married for 11 or so years. I am NOT on the prowl. If I'm looking around, I usually look towards women 5-9 years older, just a preference. (my better half is 3 year…"
    AMFM on Why Would a Younger Woman Want to Date a Much Older Man?
  • "Mz. White, I appreciate your feedback. Really, I do. The gap between us, as I see it, is as follows: 1. You really have no idea what I do with women 45+. You're not in Love U. You haven't gotten coac…"
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  • "Uh, no. Gay men look great because they are trying to attract other males. Women are waking up and being more selective because they can. Straight men: get an education, get a career, take care of you…"
    Evan on Why Are There No Attractive Men in Your Area

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    "Seriously…everything you described would happen, happened!"

    He emailed me, he called me, he asked for a date, he called back, he contacts me everyday, he took down his profile first, he stopped dating the other women he was dating and asked me to “date exclusively” because he wants to focus on getting to know me better. All I did was say yes.

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