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Flirting

I can’t tell you how many smart, strong, successful women tell me that they were born without the flirting gene! It doesn’t have to be this way. Flirting comes from confidence, experience, and self-awareness, and if you struggle to attract your ideal man, you would be well served to check out my posts on the art of flirting and attraction.

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How To Get Boys To Like You

Let’s just say that I would never make this video myself – it was passed to me by a follower on Facebook. But it’s fair to say that everything she…

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I Keep Scaring Guys Away. What Am I Doing Wrong?

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Evan, I’ve tried going after guys I’m attracted to even if I don’t really know them. For instance, there was this guy in the gym. I guess I creeped him…

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My Boyfriend Wants to Be a Dating Coach — Actually, a Pick-Up Artist.

My Boyfriend Wants to Be a Dating Coach — Actually, a Pick-Up Artist.

Evan, My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and we have a very strong and healthy relationship. We have lots of fun together and we can always…

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I’m a Strong, Confident Woman Who Wants to Soften Up Around Men. But How?

I’m a Strong, Confident Woman Who Wants to Soften Up Around Men.

Hi Evan, I recently purchased your e-book, “Why He Disappeared,” but I wanted to ask you a personal question! I grew up with very strict parents and my father was…

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What Signals Are You Giving For A Man To Approach You?

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Had lunch yesterday with an amazing entrepreneur, Kristin Moore, who is the founder of a site that designs witty t-shirts that signal that you’re single. I’d met her at my…

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I Think My Doctor Has a Crush on Me, But I Don’t Want to Look Foolish By Asking

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I met this wonderful man at physical therapy, whom I noticed from the beginning was attracted to me. The problem is he is my physical therapist. Soon, he started flirting…

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Should I Stay With My Boyfriend If He’s a Pick-Up Artist?

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Hello Evan, I’ve been exclusively dating a nice guy for almost eight months now. We’ve had good times together and he is always there for me when I need him.…

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My Husband Openly Talks About Other Attractive Women To Me

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Dear Evan, I have been married for two years. I am 26 years old and my husband is 12 years older than me. He is very nice to me and…

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How Do I Start a Conversation with a Straight Single Man?

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I’m a 42 year old woman, newly single. I’m just re-entering the dating fray for the first time in many years, and I discovered very quickly that I have no…

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Nice Guys Finish First

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Just got off the phone with a client and became inspired to write this piece. My client is a nice guy. Mid 30’s, intelligent, successful, and serious about finding a…

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    I am a firm believer in dating at least 4 seasons and we are already in our 3rd season of love. We have discussed marriage and will revisit the idea this October.

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