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Letting Go

If you’ve been ignored online, dated a series of players and disappearing acts, and wasted months and years on non-committal men, it’s no surprise that you’re feeling down about love. However, the only way to find a healthy relationship is to let go of the past, date frequently, and carry yourself with joy and confidence. Please, read the blog posts below, and remember: the next man has nothing to do with the last man who broke your heart.

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Should I Have a Long-Distance Relationship with a Man in Another Country?

“Among other attempts at self-healing, I have tried: casual sex, dating apps, uppers, downers, day drinking, and sobriety. I also tried somatic healing, boxing, Buddhist meditation, Ayahuasca and finally, because…

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I Moved in With My Boyfriend and Now Everything Is Falling Apart.

I have been dating a man on and off for 3 years. We have decided to move in together and blend our families. We both have children. The issues I…

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How Can I Make an Inconsistent Man Act More Consistently?

What Do I Do If I’m Not Attracted to Any Men?

I will cut right to the chase. I screwed up and didn’t follow your mirroring advice and now I find myself in a bit of a jam.   I have been…

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I Love My Boyfriend but He Values Money and Freedom More Than Me.

My marriage lasted for 26 years and was ultimately a very lonely place. I met someone new and exciting who I had a lot more in common with. I ended…

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Will Improving Myself Make My Boyfriend More Attracted to Me?

I followed all your advice, went online and found a guy who I have a great compatibility with a decent attraction/chemistry with that grew over time. Fast forward two years,…

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Should I Take Him Back if He’s “Working on Himself”?

I just turned 32 and my ex broke up with me a month ago. He’s almost 40, and if we talk about attachment styles, I’m more anxious and he’s more…

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How Do I Get Over the Curse of Hot-Ex Boyfriend?

I’ve been reading your blog since my break up and it’s been really helpful in making me realize that my ex wasn’t right for me (he was the one who…

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How Do I Get My 12-Year FWB to Want to Be in a Committed Relationship?

There was a time in my life when all I wanted was a boy toy. I had an exceptional career with a lot of pressure that took up a lot…

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How to Get Over a Breakup and Mend Your Broken Heart

This is not an endorsement. I only endorse things I’ve tried, books I’ve read, or people I know, which is one of many reasons why you don’t see my blurb…

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Is It Possible to Be Friends With An Ex and Still Move On?

Your blog has been a godsend and I can’t thank you enough. After my 20-year marriage ended last year, out of the blue I fell in love with my child’s…

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