If you’ve been ignored online, dated a series of players and disappearing acts, and wasted months and years on non-committal men, it’s no surprise that you’re feeling down about love. However, the only way to find a healthy relationship is to let go of the past, date frequently, and carry yourself with joy and confidence. Please, read the blog posts below, and remember: the next man has nothing to do with the last man who broke your heart.
“Among other attempts at self-healing, I have tried: casual sex, dating apps, uppers, downers, day drinking, and sobriety. I also tried somatic healing, boxing, Buddhist meditation, Ayahuasca and finally, because…
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I have been dating a man on and off for 3 years. We have decided to move in together and blend our families. We both have children. The issues I…
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I will cut right to the chase. I screwed up and didn’t follow your mirroring advice and now I find myself in a bit of a jam. I have been…
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My marriage lasted for 26 years and was ultimately a very lonely place. I met someone new and exciting who I had a lot more in common with. I ended…
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I followed all your advice, went online and found a guy who I have a great compatibility with a decent attraction/chemistry with that grew over time. Fast forward two years,…
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I just turned 32 and my ex broke up with me a month ago. He’s almost 40, and if we talk about attachment styles, I’m more anxious and he’s more…
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I’ve been reading your blog since my break up and it’s been really helpful in making me realize that my ex wasn’t right for me (he was the one who…
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There was a time in my life when all I wanted was a boy toy. I had an exceptional career with a lot of pressure that took up a lot…
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This is not an endorsement. I only endorse things I’ve tried, books I’ve read, or people I know, which is one of many reasons why you don’t see my blurb…
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Your blog has been a godsend and I can’t thank you enough. After my 20-year marriage ended last year, out of the blue I fell in love with my child’s…
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He is a beautiful person and he is so generous, affectionate, well spoken and accomplished. He is tall and athletic and totally hot. He is 53, but I am here to tell you 53 can be pretty damn impressive. All this from a woman who a year before had equated dating with despair, rejection and pain.
I learned so much from Evan’s training and FOCUS Coaching… I was passionate about meeting someone who respected me, honored me, and really loved me…just for me. And, I wanted to feel the same about him. I’m thrilled to say that I found that man.
He is smart, loving, funny, a perfect travel partner, and really wonderful. I have never been in such a lovely relationship. I feel secure, cherished, and happy every day. I never stopped reading your books, and checked up on myself often.
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