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Letting Go

If you’ve been ignored online, dated a series of players and disappearing acts, and wasted months and years on non-committal men, it’s no surprise that you’re feeling down about love. However, the only way to find a healthy relationship is to let go of the past, date frequently, and carry yourself with joy and confidence. Please, read the blog posts below, and remember: the next man has nothing to do with the last man who broke your heart.

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How Do I Get My Ex Back?

bearded guy holding flowers while texting and hoping to get ex back

Currently I am “friends” with my daughter’s mother. We tried to make things work for years but with a bad past and doubts, we ended up being friends with benefits…

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My Boyfriend Wants Me to Have Surgeries So I’ll Look Like a Porn Star

My Boyfriend Wants Me to Have Surgeries So I’ll Look Like a Porn Star

I have been reading and following your advice religiously for a year and a half. You have truly been a godsend and I thank you profusely. You have changed my…

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My Boyfriend Has Turned Into a Cold Fish. What Can I Do Save Our Relationship?

My Boyfriend Has Turned Into a Cold Fish. What Can I Do Save Our Relationship

I have a baffling dating problem that none of my friends can figure out either. I’ve been dating a great guy for almost 3 years. He was very (almost excessively)…

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My Man Has Agreed to Marry Me Just to Make Me Happy. Should I Call Off The Wedding?

My Man Has Agreed to Marry Me Just to Make Me Happy. Should I Call Off Wedding

I’ve been in my relationship for almost 8 years. We’ve lived together for about 5. We finally got engaged last May. It was a total shock to me because he…

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My Fitness-Trainer Boyfriend Insults My Body and Insists I Wear a Shirt When We Have Sex. Is that Normal?

Trainer Boyfriend Insults My Body and Insists I Wear a Shirt When We Have Sex.

Dear Evan, Your blogs and advice has definitely changed my life into a positive direction in regards to relationships, understanding men and myself. I just have to say I’m very…

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My Best Friend’s Wife Hates Me. Should I End Our Friendship To Avoid Damaging His Marriage?

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I am a single woman and I recently connected with my male best friend from childhood. We lost touch for about 10 years and when we reconnected I found out…

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The 6 Reasons You Stay With the Wrong Man for Too Long

6 Reasons you stay with the wrong man for too long

I don’t know where you’re at in your love life, but if you’re anything like my other clients, you aren’t too thrilled with the state of affairs. You may be…

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My Boyfriend Is Addicted to Gaming

My boyfriend is addicted to gaming

I’m dating a guy in his mid-thirties who is ADDICTED to a Smartphone app game. We have been dating for almost 6 months. His addiction and obsession with this game…

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How Do I Figure Out If My Boyfriend Loves Me or Money More?

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Thank you for the sound advice you give. My boyfriend and I both respect it, and it is because of this that I am writing. When my boyfriend got his…

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My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Was Participating In A Forum on Sex and Dating. I Don’t Get It.

Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because I was Paricipating In A Forum on Sex and Dating

I casually mentioned to my ex-girlfriend that I was reading and participating in discussion forums on sex and dating. She got furious and ended the relationship. I tried to explain…

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