Far from a dying institution, over 95% of people eventually get married. Yes, the divorce rate is close to 40%. Yes, people marry later in life. But if you are a college educated woman over the age of 30, you are extremely likely to find a man who will marry you, cherish you and stay with you for life. You just have to know how to choose wisely. Click below to see how I can help you on your journey to wedded bliss.
I’ll admit it. I’m a big David Brooks fan. Brooks is a moderately conservative op-ed columnist for the New York Times and I’m an unabashed liberal. Regardless of his politics,…
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This space has covered a lot of ground on passion vs. comfort. I’m firmly in the camp that says passion is great, but there is no 40-year marriage based on…
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Hi Evan, My husband and I come from two different cultures (I’m Asian, he’s African-American) and were raised very differently. Not that these differences are necessarily bad, but we can’t…
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A recent article on YourTango argues that equality in marriage is a fallacy. The article focuses on a study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology of “millennials” —…
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If you believe marriage is in decline, think again. A new government report has found that 8 in 10 women will get married by the time they turn 40, a…
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You may remember Lori Gottlieb — author of the bestseller, Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough. I was Lori’s dating coach while she wrote her book…
Read More… 51 commentsA recent New York Times article talks about women who are both mothers and founders of start-ups. The premise of the piece is that venture capital firms discriminate against women…
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You may have been single for a long time. I can very much empathize with you. As much as I talk about my marriage these days, you mustn’t forget that…
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After ten years in an unsatisfying marriage, writer Wendy Paris wrote about her divorce in the New York Times. “While I yearn for a deeply united, soul-mate-style connection, he wants…
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Tracy McMillan, a writer for TV’s Mad Men, has four new reasons why you’re still single. She writes “Yes, I have “failed” at marriage — a lot. (Actually, I like…
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The thing that I most love about Dan is that I can be myself around him. At 52 years old, I’ve never felt that way with any man I’ve dated… I believe that it’s just a matter of time before all of you beautiful women on here find someone special. Don’t give up!
The result of giving up the search for “why” is losing the worry, the wringing of the hands, the wondering if he will call, and all the stress and sadness that goes with the worry.
I also discovered that I could attract a ton of quality men, in no time at all, if I needed to go back out there. It's a relief to know I have options. But really, I'm very, very much in love. THIS is the relationship I want, and I have it!
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