Did you know that nearly 1/5 of all marriages start from online dating? Did you know that I wrote a bestselling book about online dating and have written more profiles than anyone in the world? Did you know that if you’ve tried online dating and hated it, that there are a hundred things you can do better to attract more men and higher quality men? Click the below articles to learn more.
Anna Gensler is a brave badass of a woman. I’ve written before how disgusting guys can be when hitting on women online – especially when hidden behind a computer screen.…
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I had a great chat with a guy on e-Harmony and we made it to exchanging phone numbers. I said I didn’t chat much (because I don’t, and because I…
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I’ve already been on record as stating that I’m not a dating app guy. Too little information. Too quick to text. Too many options. Too impersonal. Too disposable. All of…
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There’s an incredible man looking for you out there. He’s the full package: tall, handsome, successful, passionate, interesting, honest, considerate, generous. And every single woman on your dating site knows…
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I’ve written a bunch on hook-up culture (here, here and here to start). Each post receives a lot of play in the comments below (82, 105 and 118 comments to be…
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I’m Asian-American and was born and raised in the United States. I think I’m just as American as about anyone else, but I was raised by Korean parents. I’m pretty…
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There’s a lot of mixed messaging when it comes to dating advice. Readers can search the Internet and find two pieces of guidance that directly contradict each other. Is Tinder…
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Hey Evan, I am writing to you from a pseudonym because I’m a public figure and could use your advice! I may not be a household name, but I have…
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10 years ago, I had a private client in Arkansas. We’ll call him Jon. He was a meaty, blond, tractor-driving farmer who really wanted a wife. He was in his early 30’s…
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First of all, I want to say that after reading all of your blog articles and your book, Why He Disappeared, I feel more empowered than ever in my dating…
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The result of giving up the search for “why” is losing the worry, the wringing of the hands, the wondering if he will call, and all the stress and sadness that goes with the worry.
Thanks to Evan, I finally feel like I'm exactly where I want to be in life. The future is wide open and bright, and I found a rare gem to cherish. I thank Evan for his advice and insight, his reading recommendations, and his encouragement through this process!
To make a long story short, I am so happy because I met Mr. Right. He possessed the 3 important requirements that fit my need: chemistry, compatibility, and emotionally and physically attraction. We are committed and our relationship is going on strong for three years now.
He recently started referring to us as boyfriend and girlfriend and it makes my heart sing. I really feel that we are moving towards the next level in our relationship and I continue to listen to “Why He Disappeared” on a weekly basis to keep myself grounded.
You provide a reality check and remind me that everyone has doubts and there is no one "normal" response to love and commitment. I think your insight and perspective is incredibly accurate - you seem to understand the plight/perspective of the working, successful urban woman over 30.
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