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Did you know that nearly 1/5 of all marriages start from online dating? Did you know that I wrote a bestselling book about online dating and have written more profiles than anyone in the world? Did you know that if you’ve tried online dating and hated it, that there are a hundred things you can do better to attract more men and higher quality men? Click the below articles to learn more.

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Would It be Worthwhile to Send a Brief Survey to Men Who Don’t Message Me Online?

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You give great advice. One thing I’m not sure how to do is your suggestion to ask for feedback from guys that don’t follow up after first date. Would they…

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Is Your City the Reason You’re Single? Or Is It You?

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Cosmopolitan recently posted a pretty page called The State of Dating, with a series of articles about, well, the state of dating. You can read about Instagram hookups, $5000 dating…

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What’s Best Way to Say “No Thanks” to Someone Who Sends a Thoughtful Message?

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Thank you for all your helpful advice. I sincerely appreciate the way you can make me laugh while reading about some painful topics. I would like to know if it…

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What is the Best Online Dating Site?

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Even in this “alternative fact” world, I’m always surprised when I’m asked to defend online dating, because it needs no defense. Yet I’ve  written a book about online dating called “I…

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What You Should Do On Valentine’s Day When You Don’t Have a Valentine

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You read my blog. You hear my relentless positivity. You probably want to roll your eyes. My posts are so consistent and so predictable, and yet they don’t always sink…

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How to Write the Perfect Profile

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You know what a typical dating profile looks like. “Nice, smart, kind, warm, funny, honest, successful, ambitious, family-oriented. I like hiking, biking, movies, music, and travel. I love to laugh.…

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How Can a Sexy Woman Like Me Show Men Online I’m Not Up for a One Night Stand?

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I recently made an online profile in the hopes of trying to find a man that I can connect with on a deeper level than the past. I’ve tried to…

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The Future (and Past) of Online Dating

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I worked in customer care at JDate in 2002. I created  e-Cyrano online dating profile writing in 2003. I published my first book, “I Can’t Believe I’m Buying This Book: A…

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Has Swiping Killed Dating? Has Hinge Fixed the Problem?

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My opinion of dating apps  is well-documented. Like much 21st century technology, it’s incredible progress that creates and easy frictionless environment to meet strangers. The problem, of course, is that it’s…

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How Can Your 2/2/2 Rule for Online Dating Still Work When Many Don’t Use Email?

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I’m writing about your 2/2/2 rule from Finding the One Online. Since you originally came up with it, the online experience has changed significantly when it comes to email. Many…

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