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Did you know that nearly 1/5 of all marriages start from online dating? Did you know that I wrote a bestselling book about online dating and have written more profiles than anyone in the world? Did you know that if you’ve tried online dating and hated it, that there are a hundred things you can do better to attract more men and higher quality men? Click the below articles to learn more.
About three years ago, a man on OkCupid messaged me. I wasn’t interested in meeting, so it ended pretty quickly. Eight months ago, I reactivated my account and he messaged…
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It’s an age old story. Man goes on dating site. Man assumes women have it easy because they get a ton of attention. Man poses as woman on dating site…
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Yeah, yeah, I know I’m a little old-school. I don’t think we can (or should) turn back the clock on dating and gender dynamics, but I do feel that our…
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While I’m happily married and try to help others become happily married, in no way do I think that my lifestyle is the only viable lifestyle. Readers with alternative lifestyles…
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Hey Evan, I have recently started chatting with someone on a dating site and he keeps asking me for my phone number. He says he doesn’t use the internet much…
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If you’ve ever wondered why I don’t do celebrity news when writing about Kate Middleton or Kim Kardashian could increase my traffic tenfold, it’s because it would be too painful…
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That’s the thesis from Pacific Standard magazine, anyway. “People who use Internet dating sites are choosing who to date based on criteria that are highly correlated with political preferences, according…
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I first heard of Tinder in May. I was the keynote speaker at the Matchmaker’s Conference cruise and saw a PowerPoint presentation of all the dating sites and apps that…
Read More… 67 commentsMy blog assistant sent me this link about the science behind OkCupid’s algorithm. I watched the seven minute video and while I found it entertaining, I saw two big flaws…
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As an online dating advocate, I’ve said for years that it’s as safe (or safer) than dating “in real life”. Strangers and critics pooh-poohed me. “How could that be? They’re…
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He makes me feel special, goes out of his way for me, doesn't keep me guessing about whether I'll hear from him, gives me his full attention.
I feel more confident and relaxed and I'm not even sure it matters if I meet the one. I have a whole new way to enjoy life and enjoy having men in my life.
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I know so much more about men and how they think, and because I have a man in my life who is worth my time and effort, I have a confidence in myself that I never had before, too.
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