The Worst Dating Advice From a Dating Expert
God, I hate people who give advice. They’re so smug. So opinionated. So unqualified. So wrong! I’m sure that’s what many people think about me, and that’s certainly what I…
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What Tinder Tells You About Yourself
I’m not a luddite. Hell, I was the first guy to make a career as an online dating coach. But advances in technology have led us down the inexorable path…
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About three years ago, a man on OkCupid messaged me. I wasn’t interested in meeting, so it ended pretty quickly. Eight months ago, I reactivated my account and he messaged…
Read More… 56 commentsWhat It’s Like to Be a Woman In Online Dating
It’s an age old story. Man goes on dating site. Man assumes women have it easy because they get a ton of attention. Man poses as woman on dating site…
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Yeah, yeah, I know I’m a little old-school. I don’t think we can (or should) turn back the clock on dating and gender dynamics, but I do feel that our…
Read More… 11 commentsCan Women Be Equally Satisfied With Part-Time Relationships?
While I’m happily married and try to help others become happily married, in no way do I think that my lifestyle is the only viable lifestyle. Readers with alternative lifestyles…
Read More… 48 commentsAm I Being Unfair Not Giving My Phone Number Until I’m Ready?
Hey Evan, I have recently started chatting with someone on a dating site and he keeps asking me for my phone number. He says he doesn’t use the internet much…
Read More… 93 commentsCelebrities, They’re Just Like Us! (Dating Coach Edition)
If you’ve ever wondered why I don’t do celebrity news when writing about Kate Middleton or Kim Kardashian could increase my traffic tenfold, it’s because it would be too painful…
Read More… 11 commentsDoes Online Dating Make People More Politically Polarized?
That’s the thesis from Pacific Standard magazine, anyway. “People who use Internet dating sites are choosing who to date based on criteria that are highly correlated with political preferences, according…
Read More… 19 commentsTinder, WTF?!
I first heard of Tinder in May. I was the keynote speaker at the Matchmaker’s Conference cruise and saw a PowerPoint presentation of all the dating sites and apps that…
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