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I am shattered from bad relationships. I’ve just finished my seventh long term relationship and I’m only 37. The man before this last one died unfortunately from cancer and left me with a newborn baby. I took nearly four years to pull myself together after this and then met a man online.
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Sadie Hawkins Day is famous as a day when girls take the initiative by inviting the boy of their choice out on a date If you go to Wikipedia and read up on the 1937 origins, it’s not nearly as empowering.
Read More… 168 commentsSex is not a new topic on this blog. Nor is my stance on why it’s a good idea to wait until you’re in a relationship before you have sex. What’s different today is that I just had two clients who illustrated the value of my theory.
Read More… 198 commentsI don’t usually do this but I had something I wanted to say today. Thanks for viewing, sharing, and offering your thoughts below.
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For all the talk about how women are faced with sexual harassment, emotionally stunted men or the hell that is Tinder… for all the talk about emotional labor and the death of marriage… the truth is, there’s never been a better time to be alive and dating. Don’t believe me?
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In one of your videos you mentioned that while men like women who show interest on the first date, while women prefer men who leave them guessing a little bit about their interest level. I totally agree! I grew up a very shy and insecure kid.
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Like Meghan Daum, Heather Havrilesky is another author and Facebook friend whom I haven’t met yet. She, too, is a Duke graduate from the 90’s as well as a noted advice columnist, and I’ll be the first to admit that she’s probably better than I am.
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We were in a very toxic and abusive relationship. It all ended when I decided to press charges on him at the beginning of my pregnancy. I wasn’t ready to let go at first but I am now. He threatened a false annulment and said that he had the paperwork for me to sign.
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Meghan Daum is an author, a writing instructor, a former LA Times columnist and a Facebook friend, in that order. We haven’t met in real life. But I respect her work more than I can possibly say. Daum – like me – knows one mode: 100% honest.
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I’m 35, I’m from Germany, and admittedly some national clichés are very true: Germans don’t date well, have a sinister tendency and generally don’t deal with the opposite sex in a very playful way. I was the same, plus having had unhealthy codependent tendencies in my first marriage, that ended 4 years ago and left me devastated for quite a while.
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I went from being unsure and inexperienced to having a great boyfriend who adores me and treats me really well and is now actively thinking and talking about marriage and kids.
You always did tell it like it is. I have to say thank you for believing in me, and giving me confidence I didn’t know I had. Thank you for seeing that there was something to be seen in me, that I didn’t even know existed.
The result of giving up the search for “why” is losing the worry, the wringing of the hands, the wondering if he will call, and all the stress and sadness that goes with the worry.
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