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Why Are There No Attractive Men in Your Area

80% of them are physically repulsive and another 80% of them aren’t smart enough and don’t make enough money, which leaves a small dating pool for women.

What Do I Do If I’m Not Attracted to Any Men?

I hear this question every single day. And I don’t think there’s a one-size-fits-all answer I can give you that everyone will agree with

Are You a Good Listener?

All too often, I’d rather talk than listen. Especially when the salient points are buried deeply in a stream of unnecessary detail. This is never more manifest than within my marriage

I Got Too Excited About a New Guy and Scared Him Off!

Yes, masculine is about doing and feminine is about receiving, and masculine men prefer women who receive their advances. But neither men nor women are so monolithic that you have to live in fear of reaching out to a guy.

Do Relationships Make You Feel Anxious? Read This.

It’s not whether you will disagree; it’s what you do about it afterward. Listening, validating, not attacking, looking for points of agreement, assuming the best intentions: these are the hallmarks of healthy communication and successful relationships.

My Boyfriend Is Both Attractive and Safe. Why Do I Think of Breaking Up with Him?

It took me awhile but I finally outgrew the desire for butterflies – probably when I realized that butterflies had never been a good predictor of my future.

Brene Brown (and Evan Marc Katz) on Having a Midlife Crisis

We see a lot of this in the comments section – people so committed to the worldview that has led them to being single and unhappy – that when this blog challenges them, the only thing they can do is lash out at a guy who gives free dating advice on the internet.

My Boyfriend Has Been Putting Off Talking About Marriage for a Year

I would normally attempt to point out your blind spot – and illuminate something you couldn’t see because you’re too emotionally close to the situation – but that’s not the case here. You took the words right out of my mouth.

Can Facebook and Alexa Predict Your Next Breakup?

Do Millennials Lack Social Skills Because of Dating Apps and Texting?

I have college friends who aren’t on there while their wives are. What does that say about their relationship? Nothing. There’s more in the article about algorithms that can predict your future, but here’s the reason I don’t believe in them: humans can’t predict their future.

Should I Stay with a Married Man Who Still Lives With His Wife?

Of course, you’re going to have chemistry, romance, physical connection with a guy – that’s exactly what STARTS pretty much every relationship. But you’re playing the long game here – trying to find a lifetime partner, presumably – and your decision-making criteria has to change when you’re considering a future.

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