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My take as a 46-year-old former slut in a 10+ year marriage is this: I think the obsession with “hot” is largely a maturity thing. Which is why I can be attracted to so many people and be the world’s safest husband. It doesn’t occur to me for one second that I’d be happier with anyone other than my wife. That’s what I mean by maturity.
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The first iPhone would be released later that year. Texting was around but it wasn’t ubiquitous. Same with Facebook. Instagram came around in 2010. Tinder didn’t launch until 2012. And here we are, as lonely and disconnected as ever. Social media sites that were designed to connect us now cause an equal amount of pain and confusion.
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I hope you challenged yourself on what you can do differently, and on understanding how men really think. No matter what, I remain committed to staying in touch with you and giving you as much valuable information as I can in my weekly newsletters, blog posts and podcasts.
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When I first launched Love U in 2015, 250 women enrolled. It was an unusually close group and remains one of the highlights of my career because of this dynamic.But as you know, my goal isn’t just to make friends – it’s to change lives.
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You may get really down that you’re still without that deep, lasting love you seek.You may get really frustrated when you see other couples holding hands at the movies.You may get really self-conscious when you see happy families walking down the street.
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A good relationship is easy. If it’s not easy, it’s not that good.Your entire life, you’ve tried to fit a square peg in a round hole. For years, you’ve fallen for men and tried to justify why they were a long-term fit, despite all the evidence to the contrary.
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What? You didn’t get a chance to watch my Facebook Live on Thursday? Was it because you were too busy? Was it because you had too much work? Listen, I understand that a smart, busy woman like you has a life outside of me. Still, you missed out on some really powerful stuff.
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Time is running out! Okay, so that’s a bit of an overstatement. Time isn’t running out. You can find love at 38, 48, 58, 68 or 78. I see proof of this every day from happy readers and clients. But, as you already recognize from, dating DOES get tougher as you get older…
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“Finding the One Online” prompted me to get professional photos taken and to rewrite my dating profile. As a result, not a week went by without men on Match, Plenty of Fish and OK Cupid telling me my profile was the best they’d ever read.
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No more loneliness. No more frustration. No more embarrassment. No more anxiety. Soon, you will feel connected, knowing you are loved by a man who will do anything to make you happy.
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I'm in my 60's and expected that I would not have a committed relationship again. I'm still dealing with issues internally of fear and past experiences, as is he. But we can talk about these things and know that we have something special.
Here's the deal. I read your blog - I devour your newsletters. I've learned so much about men (and myself) through the process.
The result of giving up the search for “why” is losing the worry, the wringing of the hands, the wondering if he will call, and all the stress and sadness that goes with the worry.
If you’re looking to answer your most pressing dating and relationship question, my blog is like Google for your love life!
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