Are You Wrong for Wanting a No-Drama Relationship?

Are You Wrong for Wanting a No-Drama Relationship?

It’s an easy angle. After all, men DO say they want “no drama” relationships three times more than women. And, obviously, there is no such thing as a “perfect” relationship where two people agree all the time. So isn’t the author “right” about men and their foolish fantasies.

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Should We Get Rid of Marriage Altogether?

Should We Get Rid of Marriage Altogether?

Catron does make a valid case – made by Eli Finkel in The All Or Nothing Marriage – that we expect too much from marriage. One person is now supposed to provide what an entire community provided in the past. She’s right. And it’s why choosing the right spouse is literally the most important decision you’ll ever make.

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Why Telephone is Better Than Texting

Why Telephone is Better Than Texting

In this case, the consequence is that people conduct entire relationships via text – and, objectively – text is not the best way to conduct a relationship. The easiest, maybe. The laziest, for sure? But I don’t know a single important conversation that ever went BETTER because it was being conducted by text.

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I’m Hotter than My Boyfriend and I Feel Like I’m Settling

I’m Hotter than My Boyfriend and I Feel Like I’m Settling

Summer, 2000. I’m out to dinner, in West Hollywood, with the most physically attractive woman I’ve ever dated. We’ve been boyfriend and girlfriend for a few months. She lives with her Mom an hour away and is currently unemployed. I’m a struggling writer with big ambitions and a desire to love and be loved. We’re lonely and dysfunctional but passionate.

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