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Is Evan Marc Katz’s Marriage Sad and Uninspiring?

I haven’t done this for a long time, but an individual comment on this post just rubbed me the wrong way. Since I couldn’t shake the feeling, I figured this would be a great opportunity to explain myself to anyone who may have the same perceptions as this reader about me and my “uninspiring” marriage.

How Can I Ever Let a Man Get Close to Me Again?

I am shattered from bad relationships. I’ve just finished my seventh long term relationship and I’m only 37. The man before this last one died unfortunately from cancer and left me with a newborn baby. I took nearly four years to pull myself together after this and then met a man online.

Why Women Don’t Have to Ask Out Men

Sadie Hawkins Day is famous as a day when girls take the initiative by inviting the boy of their choice out on a date If you go to Wikipedia and read up on the 1937 origins, it’s not nearly as empowering.

Why You Should Wait Before You Have Sex

Sex is not a new topic on this blog. Nor is my stance on why it’s a good idea to wait until you’re in a relationship before you have sex. What’s different today is that I just had two clients who illustrated the value of my theory.

Why Getting Your Heart Broken by a Selfish Man is a Gain, Not a Loss.

I don’t usually do this but I had something I wanted to say today. Thanks for viewing, sharing, and offering your thoughts below.

129 Ways to Not Meet Your Husband in 2019

For all the talk about how women are faced with sexual harassment, emotionally stunted men or the hell that is Tinder… for all the talk about emotional labor and the death of marriage… the truth is, there’s never been a better time to be alive and dating. Don’t believe me?

I Keep Going Out with Men Who Can’t Tell I’m Interested. How Can I Be a Better First Date Flirt?

In one of your videos you mentioned that while men like women who show interest on the first date, while women prefer men who leave them guessing a little bit about their interest level. I totally agree! I grew up a very shy and insecure kid.

Why Do Men Like Me But Never Love Me?

Like Meghan Daum, Heather Havrilesky is another author and Facebook friend whom I haven’t met yet. She, too, is a Duke graduate from the 90’s as well as a noted advice columnist, and I’ll be the first to admit that she’s probably better than I am.

Why is My Toxic Ex-Husband Prolonging Our Divorce?

We were in a very toxic and abusive relationship. It all ended when I decided to press charges on him at the beginning of my pregnancy. I wasn’t ready to let go at first but I am now. He threatened a false annulment and said that he had the paperwork for me to sign.

Can Women Be Awful, Too?

Meghan Daum is an author, a writing instructor, a former LA Times columnist and a Facebook friend, in that order. We haven’t met in real life. But I respect her work more than I can possibly say. Daum – like me – knows one mode: 100% honest.