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I’ve been dating this guy for about three months. He has worked out of the country for 2 of those three months and just got back home this week. While he was away he called me or texted me everyday, was very attentive and made the effort to keep in contact since he was on the other side of the world.
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I like Sophia Benoit from GQ. Her prose doesn’t descend to the levels of most first-person journalism you’d read in EliteDaily or Elephant Journal. This piece, simply called “When to Walk Away From a Bad Relationship,” is something I wholeheartedly endorse as one of the few dating coaches who believe it’s better to find an easy relationship than it is to double down on fixing a broken one.
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I met a great guy on Match two months ago and we’ve been spending a good amount of time together since. We have great conversation, and have fun together no matter what we do. He values me for who I am, and it feels great that I can completely be myself around him.
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Vanessa Van Edwards does YouTube videos and articles about charisma on her website, The Science of People. I ran across this one and thought it was applicable to dating.
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I am a married woman who has husband and a son. I have recently got in touch with my first ex. Well, technically we never met. I met him 20 years ago and for some reason we didn’t meet up and it has always been a void in my heart.
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In the never-ending gender wars that take place in the media (and on blogs), I think it’s important to continue to gather more information and listen to different voices. As a reader, your perspective is largely limited by your own gender and experience.
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My sister is a beautiful, smart, and funny 29-year-old woman. She wants to get married and have a family someday, but her problem is that she’s not attracted to anyone.
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Behold a telling infographic called “The Age That Women Have Babies: How a Gap Divides America.” While the average age of first childbirth is still 26, that’s a median between two extremes.
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I’d been in what seemed like the perfect dating relationship with a man for a couple months until just last week, when he broke up with me out of nowhere. I know a lot of articles tell people who were blindsided by breakups that just because the relationship seemed great to them, it doesn’t mean their partner had been feeling that way, too.
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The debate rages on in this surprising Slate article from earlier this summer. Can porn be addictive? Sure can.
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You always did tell it like it is. I have to say thank you for believing in me, and giving me confidence I didn’t know I had. Thank you for seeing that there was something to be seen in me, that I didn’t even know existed.
The thing that I most love about Dan is that I can be myself around him. At 52 years old, I’ve never felt that way with any man I’ve dated… I believe that it’s just a matter of time before all of you beautiful women on here find someone special. Don’t give up!
I am a firm believer in dating at least 4 seasons and we are already in our 3rd season of love. We have discussed marriage and will revisit the idea this October.
I feel more confident and relaxed and I'm not even sure it matters if I meet the one. I have a whole new way to enjoy life and enjoy having men in my life.
You provide a reality check and remind me that everyone has doubts and there is no one "normal" response to love and commitment. I think your insight and perspective is incredibly accurate - you seem to understand the plight/perspective of the working, successful urban woman over 30.
If you’re looking to answer your most pressing dating and relationship question, my blog is like Google for your love life!
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