As a smart, strong, successful woman, you have a full single life, filled with work, friends, family, and hobbies. Yet this isn’t your primary strength when it comes to dating. If you don’t let men it’s hard for them to make an emotional connection.
Were you ever in a draining relationship in which you felt that you gave too much? Have you considered that you should probably give less to your partner in the future? It’s a painful problem, but giving less isn’t the solution. Choosing a better partner is.
If you’ve ever vacillated between being “too picky” and spending time with men you don’t like, check out this Love U Podcast. In it, I tell the story of two clients who are learning to trust their judgment and cut off men quickly, and finish by telling you how I decided my wife was “the one.” You don’t want to miss this.
Evidently, the secret of life is something that folks have been looking for a long, long time. Now, I’m not going to claim to know the secret of life – not yet, anyway – but I’m pretty sure I know the secret to a long-term relationship. It starts with learning from the wisdom of people who are different than you are – old married couples…
Love U is a six-month curriculum that teaches you how to understand men and find love. In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to teach you one simple idea about 3 ways your relationship can go.
When I interview women like you who apply to Love U, I invite you to consider what your life will look like when you found the relationship you’ve always dreamed about. Sure enough, some women struggle with this exercise because they can’t even imagine what it feels like to be loved unconditionally. If that’s you, tune in to this special Love U Podcast.
Have you ever been afraid that the next guy is going to turn out just like the last guy? If so, I’m going to give you a five-step process to evaluate if he’s worth your time BEFORE you get in too deep. You’re gonna want a pen for this one.
When you meet a guy you’re intensely attracted to, your common sense and boundaries go out the window. You’re not alone. Listen to this Love U Podcast to hear my own tale of verbal abuse and learn one simple trick to breaking the spell of the hot guy.
Are you an independent woman with a rich, full single life? Are you generally busy with your work, family, friends, hobbies, and travel? Does your vision of couple-hood look a lot like your life now – just with a man dropped in it? If that’s the case, we’ve gotta talk. If you’re going to partner with a man who is your equal, you’ve gotta make space for him.
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You didn't always tell me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to hear. You were honest with me even when I didn't like it. You put a mirror to my face...no one enjoys that but it's important if you really want to make a change and find the real thing.
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You provide a reality check and remind me that everyone has doubts and there is no one "normal" response to love and commitment. I think your insight and perspective is incredibly accurate - you seem to understand the plight/perspective of the working, successful urban woman over 30.
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