I Have a Crush on a Guy I Don’t Even Like and Can’t Get Over It!
I’m really attracted to someone I work with. I’ve had feelings for him for years however I’ve always hidden this. I need a man to pursue me and I’m…
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Why You Must STOP Texting As Your Primary Form of Communication
I’ve gotten a lot of flak on YouTube for my No More Bad Dates TEDx Talk, in which I lay out my keenly observed theories that. Most people’s online dating profiles suck.
Read More… 142 commentsIs There Something Wrong If the Guy I’m Seeing Doesn’t Post Me on Instagram?
I started dating this guy on May 9th, 2017. We dated for 10 months and broke up and after that we’ve been on and off. All those times we’ve been together he never once posted me on his Snapchat and Instagram. He posts everything else but me and I just don’t understand.
Read More… 14 commentsWhen Women Try To Control Men Out of Fear
As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, I am well aware of the myriad problems you have with men. How they sleep with you without commitment. How they seem like they’re into you but they’re not.
Read More… 14 commentsDoes Marriage Mean Suffering Through A Lot of Horrible Years?
As a longtime reader of your blog, I know you’re a proponent of good marriages as opposed to marrying solely for the sake of not being alone. I was recently watching a late night show on which Michelle Obama appeared and said, “If you’re married for 50 years, and 10 of them are horrible, you’re doing really good! Anybody would take those odds.”
Read More… 82 commentsHow to Up Your Game At Parties
I do a lot of online dating stuff because it’s hard to create a social life from scratch when you’re 35-60, work in a small office, and most of your friends are married. But that doesn’t mean I don’t see the great importance of real-life interactions.
Read More… 4 commentsMy Boyfriend of 5 Years Hasn’t Proposed to Me Yet. What Should I Do?
I’m 42 years old and my boyfriend is almost 48. He was married once before and has two young adult children. We’ve been together for five years. Three years in, I asked about marriage and he told me he wasn’t ready. I was ready to break up with him until he gave me a sweet promise ring and swore that he really does want to marry me, but he just wasn’t ready and needed more time.
Read More… 17 commentsWhy Short-Term Pessimism and Long-Term Optimism Is The Only Way to Date
You may have heard me talk about short-term pessimism and long-term optimism. I mention it in my Believe in Love program and I firmly believe it’s the only way to date.…
Read More… 9 commentsShould I Get More Sexual Experience to Be More Like My Boyfriend?
I am 31 and in an early, but exclusive (5 month) relationship with a wonderful man. He’s 33, good looking, tall, he’s very considerate, generous, loves dogs, gets on with my mother, tick, tick, tick. We have a very, very good sex life too. He’s just the best. There is one thing that I find bothers me.
Read More… 81 commentsBefore I Get Married, A Shout-Out to All the Men I’ve Loved Before
For some people, life is just a series of dogs. For me, life has been a series of romantic relationships. Maggie Parker would seem to feel the same way. In her New York Times Modern Love column, she pens an ode to all of her exes after she finally got engaged.
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