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I Keep Scaring Guys Away. What Am I Doing Wrong?

Evan, I’ve tried going after guys I’m attracted to even if I don’t really know them. For instance, there was this guy in the gym. I guess I creeped him…

Do Women Look Down on Men Who Earn Less Than They Do?

Nearly 40 percent of U.S. working wives now out-earn their husbands, and many believe they’ll soon make up a majority. Women hold more managerial and professional jobs, they earn more…

What Makes Marriages Last (Or Not)

I’ve been getting into it recently with some readers who have a slightly different take on when people should get engaged. Hey, different strokes for different folks. One reader on…

My Boyfriend Wants to Be a Dating Coach – Actually, a Pick-Up Artist.

Evan, My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and we have a very strong and healthy relationship. We have lots of fun together and we can always…

First Date: Do You Want To Come Upstairs?

Upstairs by shawnwines Loved this. I have more embarrassing sex stories than anyone I know – but I can’t share them here due to the very public nature of this…

Men Are Honest. You’re Just Not Listening.

I take my job as your personal trainer for love very seriously. I try to honor and respect every woman who reads my emails and offer advice that is honest…

I Married A Man I’m Not Attracted To. Now What?

Hi Evan, I am stuck in a very tricky situation, which came in my life because of my wrong choices. I married a man to whom I am not physically…

More And More Men Are Settling For Ms. Good Enough

This week, my friend Arielle Ford, author of The Soulmate Secret, sent me a link to a Daily Beast article. The author of the article interviewed anthropologist Helen Fisher, PhD,…

Why You’re a Hypocrite, I’m a Hypocrite, and We Both Have to Change

I was once asked by a website called 43Things to offer my shortest relationship advice. To the best of my recollection, I said something to the effect of: “Single people…

Does a Man Need To Hear His Girlfriend Say I Love You?

Hi Evan. I love, love, love your blog! You have some really saucy, right-to-the-point advice. I’ve combed through many a blog post. Now, here’s a question for you: I find…