How Low Will Some Guys Go for Sex?

Here’s the (not-so) funny thing about online dating: The majority of men using it really do want to fall in love and get married. An old Match poll set the…
Read More… 44 comments“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.
Here’s the (not-so) funny thing about online dating: The majority of men using it really do want to fall in love and get married. An old Match poll set the…
Read More… 44 commentsHere’s the downside of writing blog posts six weeks in advance. I heard about this story in which a woman – a 27-year-old US medical student named Elizabeth Raine planned…
Read More… 44 commentsHello Evan, I have a tough question. I have been dating this man for a long time. He is 37 and I am 34. On many levels, we fit nicely,…
Read More… 43 commentsWith women beginning to outnumber men in college and the workforce, a recent Slate Magazine article examines how this growing imbalance affects relationships. “If women were more fully in charge…
Read More… 43 commentsThere’s been a lot of talk – including talk on this blog – about hookup culture. Is it empowering for women to embrace their sexuality, have fun, and not worry…
Read More… 42 commentsThe debate rages on in this surprising Slate article from earlier this summer. Can porn be addictive? Sure can.
Read More… 40 commentsI met a man online last year who has treated me wonderfully. He is everything my ex’s have not been. He treats my child as his own. He is transparent (opens all accounts, phones, computers), honest, loyal, caring.
Read More… 40 commentsOKTrends released a study last week after compiling observations and statistics from hundreds of millions of OkCupid users. The study features ten charts about sex. Charts 7 and 8 plot…
Read More… 39 commentsFor their new book A Billion Wicked Thoughts, neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam analyzed a billion web searches, a million individual search histories, a million Web sites, a million…
Read More… 39 commentsIt’s a bit of a trick to make someone you’ve been with for a long time feel desirable, but it’s vital to the health of the relationship. Sex with a monogamous partner will rarely feel “new” but it can – and should be – mutually satisfying, no matter how long you’re together.
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