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“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.

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Why Men Should Say No to Sex

I’d like to hear your take on how a guy can smoothly handle the condom issue early in the dating relationship (assuming things get hot and heavy on the first…

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Why You Shouldn’t Have Sex With Your Friends – Or Should You?

You saw “When Harry Met Sally…” but have you lived it?  I have. Once had a wicked crush on my best friend from eleventh grade. Lost touch, got back in touch,…

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What I Learned From the Pick-Up Artists Who Wrote “The Game”

Brene Brown (and Evan Marc Katz) on Having a Midlife Crisis

I finally read Neil Strauss’ The Game this past weekend on the plane ride home from New York. Amazing book. Nearly 400 pages that went down as if they were…

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The Great Mate Debate on Chemistry.com

Topic: Is there anything wrong with a person in a committed relationship having a crush on someone else…as long as it isn’t acted upon? Can it even benefit a relationship?  …

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What Do I Do With a Girlfriend Who Literally Sleeps Around?

Evan, Please help me. I have a friend who sleeps with every guy she meets/knows, including my guy friends. The problem is that she literally just sleeps. She prefers to…

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When Should a Woman Have Sex With a Man?

The end of Wednesday’s blog post brought up a very important topic; perhaps the most common question I get asked by women whenever I give a speech: Turn sex into…

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How Soon Should I Tell A Date That I’m a Virgin?

Dear Evan, I am 27 and a virgin. I am sure that no one expects this of me 🙂 How do I address this issue when I meet someone “quality”?…

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To Booty Call or Not To Booty Call?

Dear Evan, So what is it with guys who just want you to come over and don’t ask to take you out? What is it really – if they have…

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Dating and the Double Standard

(by Elise Nersesian from Match.com’s Happen Magazine) These days, should a woman have sex with a guy as soon as she wants…or hold off? Here, three single gals discuss the…

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