“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.
Dear Evan, I keep losing relationships when I say that sex isn’t right outside of a marriage. I used to think that women have more self-control than men, but have…
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I’d like to hear your take on how a guy can smoothly handle the condom issue early in the dating relationship (assuming things get hot and heavy on the first…
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You saw “When Harry Met Sally…” but have you lived it? I have. Once had a wicked crush on my best friend from eleventh grade. Lost touch, got back in touch,…
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I finally read Neil Strauss’ The Game this past weekend on the plane ride home from New York. Amazing book. Nearly 400 pages that went down as if they were…
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Evan, Please help me. I have a friend who sleeps with every guy she meets/knows, including my guy friends. The problem is that she literally just sleeps. She prefers to…
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The end of Wednesday’s blog post brought up a very important topic; perhaps the most common question I get asked by women whenever I give a speech: Turn sex into…
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Dear Evan, I am 27 and a virgin. I am sure that no one expects this of me 🙂 How do I address this issue when I meet someone “quality”?…
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Dear Evan, So what is it with guys who just want you to come over and don’t ask to take you out? What is it really – if they have…
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(by Elise Nersesian from Match.com’s Happen Magazine) These days, should a woman have sex with a guy as soon as she wants…or hold off? Here, three single gals discuss the…
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I am a firm believer in dating at least 4 seasons and we are already in our 3rd season of love. We have discussed marriage and will revisit the idea this October.
He recently started referring to us as boyfriend and girlfriend and it makes my heart sing. I really feel that we are moving towards the next level in our relationship and I continue to listen to “Why He Disappeared” on a weekly basis to keep myself grounded.
I know so much more about men and how they think, and because I have a man in my life who is worth my time and effort, I have a confidence in myself that I never had before, too.
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