Do Most Men Begin to Experience Sexual Performance Issues At 30?
I have kind of a delicate question that I can’t exactly ask the guys I date about. Now that I am 33 and am dating guys between age 30-36 I…
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Is it Wrong to Stop Sleeping with a Man While I Figure Out How I Feel About Him?
I’ve been spending a lot of time with an attractive, interesting man these past few months (I’m 37, he’s 32). Until recently, we were just friends – dinners, cultural events,…
Read More… 149 commentsIs Porn Bad for You?
I’m not pro-porn. I’m not anti-porn. Porn exists and many, many people consume it. The real question is: what are the consequences of the copious amounts of free pornography on…
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“It’s complicated.” It may feel wishy-washy and dissatisfying, but often that’s the best way to categorize things that are neither purely good or purely evil. Such is the legacy of Playboy founder,…
Read More… 55 commentsFuck First, Names Later. Is Icelandic Casual Sex Better Than American Dating Culture?
Ah, casual sex… Back when I was depressed, unemployed, and poor, it was the greatest source of joy in my life. Now, it’s the bane of my existence. Not because…
Read More… 106 commentsIs Open Marriage Worth the Risk?
When you blog twice a week for 10 years, you’re bound to run across the same topics. But that doesn’t mean they’re any less pertinent the fifth time around. Take…
Read More… 55 commentsHow Risky Is It to Break the Commitment First Rule and Have Sex?
I’m a 34-year old woman living in New York City, looking for that great love. I get asked on a lot of dates, however, it’s been difficult to find a…
Read More… 106 commentsShould I Keep Faking Orgasms to Build My Man’s Confidence?
I have found the perfect man on paper but he has NO confidence in the bedroom. The sex is terrible, between his anxiety and my health issues. He has so…
Read More… 119 commentsCan You Learn About Sex from YouTube Videos?
Apparently, hundreds of millions of people think you can. According to a recent New York Times piece, “The sex and relationships commentators who arose in the self-help boom of the…
Read More… 5 commentsI’m Disabled and Fear All Sexual Activity. Should I Go Forward with My Wedding and Let My Husband Find Sex Elsewhere?
I’m getting married this Halloween. I love my husband-to-be very much, we don’t live together yet and we will not be living together for a while as I’m finishing Grad…
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