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“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.

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What Does a 28-Year-Old Woman Need to Do to Lose Her Virginity?

Dear Evan, I’m a couple of years from 30 and still a virgin, but I’m not waiting for marriage. I’ve kept mine because going through high school and college it…

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How Do I Tell a Man That His Awkward Sex Talk Is a Turn Off?

I just started casually dating a really great guy, he is fun to be with and we have a lot in common. It seems like we have similar goals and…

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Is It Appropriate to Discuss Sexual Preferences Before We Have Sex?

I’ve had two dates with a man that I met online. We are in the process of getting to know each other. I don’t like to sleep with men within…

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Do Tall Men Get Laid More?

Read enough relationship on the Internet and you’ll often hear a strain of men who complain that women are too focused on height. Their belief is that all women only…

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[Video] How Long Should You Wait Before You Sleep With Him?

Here’s the latest video from the series I created with Three Day Rule. It’s called “How Long Should You Wait Before You Sleep With Him?” In it, Kate and I…

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Will Guys Think Less of Me If I Want to Stick With Casual Sex?

I read your article on male celibacy and it was a very good read. I’m a divorced 29 year old woman with two children. I met my ex-husband when I…

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More Sex Doesn’t Equal More Happiness

Sex makes people happy. And why not? It’s fun. It’s intimate. It’s not terribly time-consuming or expensive. It’s something you share with someone else. You may conclude, therefore, that if you like…

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Should I Stop Having Sex With My Boyfriend Until He Decides If He Will Marry Me?

I have been dating a man for 3 years. He’s amazing and we are in love. He told me he loved me first over 2 years ago and he says…

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Why Women Shouldn’t Pursue Sex (According to Science, Not Me!)

Sex is a fun topic to write about and I’ve written a LOT about it. But this piece by Ann Friedman in New York magazine is so spot on that I…

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Women Aren’t As Cool With One-Night Stands As Men

Let’s start with one thing: Just like every study ever conducted, just because this doesn’t apply to YOU doesn’t mean it doesn’t apply. There is just a mountain of evidence that suggests…

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