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“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.

Is Porn Bad for You?

I’m not pro-porn. I’m not anti-porn. Porn exists and many, many people consume it. The real question is: what are the consequences of the copious amounts of free pornography on…

Camille Paglia on Hugh Hefner: Retrograde But Sophisticated

“It’s complicated.” It may feel wishy-washy and dissatisfying, but often that’s the best way to categorize things that are neither purely good or purely evil. Such is the legacy of Playboy founder,…

Fuck First, Names Later. Is Icelandic Casual Sex Better Than American Dating Culture?

men and woman at the park having an intimate moment

Ah, casual sex… Back when I was depressed, unemployed, and poor, it was the greatest source of joy in my life. Now, it’s the bane of my existence. Not because…

Is Open Marriage Worth the Risk?

When you blog twice a week for 10 years, you’re bound to run across the same topics. But that doesn’t mean they’re any less pertinent the fifth time around. Take…

How Risky Is It to Break the Commitment First Rule and Have Sex?

I’m a 34-year old woman living in New York City, looking for that great love. I get asked on a lot of dates, however, it’s been difficult to find a…

Should I Keep Faking Orgasms to Build My Man’s Confidence?

I have found the perfect man on paper but he has NO confidence in the bedroom. The sex is terrible, between his anxiety and my health issues. He has so…

Can You Learn About Sex from YouTube Videos?

Apparently, hundreds of millions of people think you can. According to a recent New York Times piece, “The sex and relationships commentators who arose in the self-help boom of the…

I’m Disabled and Fear All Sexual Activity. Should I Go Forward with My Wedding and Let My Husband Find Sex Elsewhere?

I’m Disabled and Fear All Sexual Activity. Should I Go Forward with Wedding and Let My Husband Find Sex Elsewhere

I’m getting married this Halloween. I love my husband-to-be very much, we don’t live together yet and we will not be living together for a while as I’m finishing Grad…

What Does a 28-Year-Old Woman Need to Do to Lose Her Virginity?

Dear Evan, I’m a couple of years from 30 and still a virgin, but I’m not waiting for marriage. I’ve kept mine because going through high school and college it…