I’m a 40-Year Old Man Who Has Never Had A Girlfriend Or Sex.
First off, I’m glad to have found your site. Your advice is thoughtful and reasonable, unlike many others out there. Suffice to say, you’ve given me a lot to think…
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Why Does He Text Me Photos of His Penis?
Evan, I meet a man via an online dating site, we email back and forth, get to know each other, then he will ask for my phone number. If I…
Read More… 212 commentsWhy Women Shouldn’t Pursue Sex (According to Science, Not Me!)
Sex is a fun topic to write about and I’ve written a LOT about it. But this piece by Ann Friedman in New York magazine is so spot on that I…
Read More… 210 commentsWhen Should I Have Sex With Him For the First Time?
In the latest “Water is wet; News at 11” report, the Journal of Sex Research reports that – get this – having sex too early in a relationship is a…
Read More… 180 commentsYou Didn’t Lose The Person You Thought You Lost
You know what it’s like to get devastated when a promising new relationship doesn’t work out? Well, take heart – you didn’t actually lose ANYTHING. In fact, you gained the…
Read More… 179 commentsShould I Stick Around If My Boyfriend’s Sex Drive Is Gone?
Evan, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. This past month, our intimacy levels have severely dropped. A friend of ours who we confide in mutually passed…
Read More… 171 commentsIs Monogamy Harder for Men or Women?
The confirmation bias is a tendency to prefer information that confirms whatever you already believe. It’s dangerous, because under the influence of the confirmation bias, you cherry-pick only facts that…
Read More… 168 commentsIs Hooking Up Dangerous or Liberating?
Just came back from the gym and heard an interesting piece on NPR – The Hookup: Dangerous or Liberating? Like any reasonable debate, both sides have merit. I don’t think…
Read More… 154 commentsIs it Wrong to Stop Sleeping with a Man While I Figure Out How I Feel About Him?
I’ve been spending a lot of time with an attractive, interesting man these past few months (I’m 37, he’s 32). Until recently, we were just friends – dinners, cultural events,…
Read More… 149 commentsWhy Does the Guy I’m Seeing Like Me More Since I Told Him I Was a Virgin?
Dear Evan, I really hope you can help me with this predicament. About a month and a half ago, I met this guy at a bar, the day after I…
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