“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.
Sex makes people happy. And why not? It’s fun. It’s intimate. It’s not terribly time-consuming or expensive. It’s something you share with someone else. You may conclude, therefore, that if you like…
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I have been dating a man for 3 years. He’s amazing and we are in love. He told me he loved me first over 2 years ago and he says…
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Sex is a fun topic to write about and I’ve written a LOT about it. But this piece by Ann Friedman in New York magazine is so spot on that I…
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Let’s start with one thing: Just like every study ever conducted, just because this doesn’t apply to YOU doesn’t mean it doesn’t apply. There is just a mountain of evidence that suggests…
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…but not that differently. That’s the big takeaway I got from this joint Esquire/Cosmopolitan survey of 2000 men and women on what’s okay when it comes to sex. Now to…
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It’s a joke that men brag about how much sex they have. Well, according to a recent New York Times piece by Seth Stephens-Davidowitz, it seems that it’s not just…
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My boyfriend and I are in our late twenties, live together, and have a very healthy, equal relationship. We speak comfortably and openly about our problems and insecurities, but there…
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This is going to be such a bizarre question and I’m not sure if it’s blog-worthy or even answerable, but here goes: In your honest and knowledgeable opinion, what do…
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I am 22 years old and in a relationship of 10 months with an absolutely amazing guy. He is 26, so thoughtful, open-minded, kindhearted, and gives me so much respect.…
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I’ll admit, I’ve avoided putting this post up for a few weeks. It’s gotten a lot of internet air play because it’s a juicy subject: man lays out, in a…
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