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“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.

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Men and Women View Sexual Assault Differently

…but not that differently. That’s the big takeaway I got from this joint Esquire/Cosmopolitan survey of 2000 men and women on what’s okay when it comes to sex. Now to…

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What Google Tells Us About Our Sex Lives. A Lot.

It’s a joke that men brag about how much sex they have. Well, according to a recent New York Times piece by Seth Stephens-Davidowitz, it seems that it’s not just…

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Should My Sexually Inexperienced Boyfriend Sow More Wild Oats Before We Marry?

My boyfriend and I are in our late twenties, live together, and have a very healthy, equal relationship. We speak comfortably and openly about our problems and insecurities, but there…

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The Guy I’m Dating Is Grossed Out by His Own Semen

This is going to be such a bizarre question and I’m not sure if it’s blog-worthy or even answerable, but here goes: In your honest and knowledgeable opinion, what do…

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Should I Be Okay With Letting My Boyfriend Fulfill His Fetish With Another Woman?

I am 22 years old and in a relationship of 10 months with an absolutely amazing guy. He is 26, so thoughtful, open-minded, kindhearted, and gives me so much respect.…

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Should Men Give Up on Pornography Entirely?

I’ll admit, I’ve avoided putting this post up for a few weeks. It’s gotten a lot of internet air play because it’s a juicy subject: man lays out, in a…

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Who Enjoys Casual Sex?

Lots has been written about casual sex and the hookup culture – to the point where it has to be very confusing for people to navigate the booty call waters…

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Is Auctioning A Woman’s Virginity Going Too Far?

Here’s the downside of writing blog posts six weeks in advance. I heard about this story in which a woman – a 27-year-old US medical student named Elizabeth Raine planned…

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Hooking Up With A One-Night Stand

I’ve done no shortage of posts on sex and hook-up culture. Since I am not only a dating coach, but a long-time participant in the hook-up culture (1991-2008), I’d like…

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I’m a 40-Year Old Man Who Has Never Had A Girlfriend Or Sex.

First off, I’m glad to have found your site. Your advice is thoughtful and reasonable, unlike many others out there. Suffice to say, you’ve given me a lot to think…

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