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“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.

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Why Women Shouldn’t Pursue Sex (According to Science, Not Me!)

Sex is a fun topic to write about and I’ve written a LOT about it. But this piece by Ann Friedman in New York magazine  is so spot on that I…

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Why Women Should Make Men Wait For Sex — Part II

I’ve only done this twice before: once, in a post defending Lori Gottlieb’s “Marry Him,” and a second time, in a post explaining my opposition to Rori Raye’s “Circular Dating.”…

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If I Have Herpes, How Can I Tell The New Guy I’m Dating?

Hi Evan – Really enjoy your blog. I found out a few months ago that I have herpes. After going through the normal flip out and that my dating life…

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I Think Sex Is Wrong Outside Marriage. Why Won’t Anyone Date Me?

Dear Evan, I keep losing relationships when I say that sex isn’t right outside of a marriage. I used to think that women have more self-control than men, but have…

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Who Enjoys Casual Sex?

Lots has been written about casual sex and the hookup culture – to the point where it has to be very confusing for people to navigate the booty call waters…

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Why Men Should Say No to Sex

I’d like to hear your take on how a guy can smoothly handle the condom issue early in the dating relationship (assuming things get hot and heavy on the first…

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You Didn’t Lose The Person You Thought You Lost

You Didn't Lose The Person You Thought You Lost

You know what it’s like to get devastated when a promising new relationship doesn’t work out? Well, take heart – you didn’t actually lose ANYTHING. In fact, you gained the…

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Is His Low Sex Drive A Dealbreaker?

Is His Low Sex Drive A Dealbreaker?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. He is sweet, patient, loving, and all the things you can ask for in a BF/Husband. One issue is…

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Women Aren’t As Cool With One-Night Stands As Men

Let’s start with one thing: Just like every  study  ever conducted, just because this doesn’t apply to YOU doesn’t mean it doesn’t apply. There is just a mountain of evidence that suggests…

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Should I Keep Faking Orgasms to Build My Man’s Confidence?

I have found the perfect man on paper but he has NO confidence in the bedroom. The sex is terrible, between his anxiety and my health issues. He has so…

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  • "@Jeremy I get it, the toxic shame part. I agree we should never change to make someone else happy or to get people to like us better. But one needs to get over that. They should always been improving…"
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  • "That is undoubtedly true, Emily, but I agree with Mrs Happy that women faking it is counterproductive. Because it just ensures that they will continue to not enjoy it into the future, their partners t…"
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  • "@Persephone As the article states, he encourages the reader to work on becoming a better version of themselves instead. And it also assumes that communicating your wants and needs has already been don…"
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  • "Clare, "How the two of you put up with roommates, I cannot imagine." This is the LAST time I will ever have a roommate (or, frankly, live with anyone). If I want to leave the thermostat at 78 in the…"
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  • "Jeremy, "Why then do men judge their sexual prowess by their ability to pleasure women and not themselves? " Therein lies the problem. Whereas both parties should be willing to do what he/she can to…"
    Emily, to on Do Relationships Make You Feel Anxious? Read This.
  • "And if what you wrote is true, EW, (and I believe it is, especially your last paragraph), then these women are their own worst enemies. The essence of their problem is their own mindset. When you wr…"
    Jeremy on Do Relationships Make You Feel Anxious? Read This.
  • "You mistake me, my friend. The desire you speak of is not the desire I seek, not how I interpret love. How to explain?To love someone....is to want to make them smile. To smile when they are sm…"
    Jeremy on Do Relationships Make You Feel Anxious? Read This.
  • "How the two of you put up with roommates, I cannot imagine.You must have the patience of saints.One perk of living on my side of the world is that, even on a modest salary (such as mine), you…"
    Clare on Are You a Good Listener?

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