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“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.

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When Should a Woman Have Sex With a Man?

The end of Wednesday’s blog post brought up a very important topic; perhaps the most common question I get asked by women whenever I give a speech: Turn sex into…

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Women Aren’t As Cool With One-Night Stands As Men

Let’s start with one thing: Just like every  study  ever conducted, just because this doesn’t apply to YOU doesn’t mean it doesn’t apply. There is just a mountain of evidence that suggests…

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Should Men Be Forced to Pay For Children They Didn’t Want?

I’m a man who helps women understand men. Not all men. Not in every situation. But, in general, if you want to hear how honest, loyal, sensitive, successful, confident, self-aware…

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Can You Have Meaningless Sex While You’re Looking for a Long Term Relationship?

Can You Have Meaningless Sex While You're Looking for a Long Term Relationship?

Dear Evan, If you’re looking for a long term relationship… can you just go back to having meaningless sex until you find one? For the past couple years I feel…

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Should I Disclose the Number of Sexual Partners I’ve Had In the Past?

I’ve been reading for a while, and I find myself hopping on your blog whenever I meet a new guy or am faced with a new situation. But have yet…

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I Want To Stop Having Sex With My Boyfriend Until We Get Married.

Hi. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I waited until I was officially his girlfriend (2 months) before we had sex. It’s been amazing, but…

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Is His Low Sex Drive A Dealbreaker?

Is His Low Sex Drive A Dealbreaker?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. He is sweet, patient, loving, and all the things you can ask for in a BF/Husband. One issue is…

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Who Enjoys Casual Sex?

Lots has been written about casual sex and the hookup culture – to the point where it has to be very confusing for people to navigate the booty call waters…

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Men Look for Sex and Find Love. Women Look for Love and Find Sex.

Hi Evan, I’ve been online dating for a while now, and I’ve started to notice a trend with a lot of the men who have contacted me. By way of…

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How Do I Tell a Man That His Awkward Sex Talk Is a Turn Off?

I just started casually dating a really great guy, he is fun to be with and we have a lot in common. It seems like we have similar goals and…

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