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“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.

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Men Look for Sex and Find Love. Women Look for Love and Find Sex.

Hi Evan, I’ve been online dating for a while now, and I’ve started to notice a trend with a lot of the men who have contacted me. By way of…

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I Think Sex Is Wrong Outside Marriage. Why Won’t Anyone Date Me?

Dear Evan, I keep losing relationships when I say that sex isn’t right outside of a marriage. I used to think that women have more self-control than men, but have…

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Why Women Should Make Men Wait For Sex

If you’ve ever wondered why it seems that men are okay with no-strings-attached sex while women tend to suffer with this arrangement, watch this video closely. It affirms everything that…

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Who Enjoys Casual Sex?

Lots has been written about casual sex and the hookup culture – to the point where it has to be very confusing for people to navigate the booty call waters…

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Is Monogamy Harder for Men or Women?

The confirmation bias is a tendency to prefer information that confirms whatever you already believe. It’s dangerous, because under the influence of the confirmation bias, you cherry-pick only facts that…

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How Do I Tell a Man That His Awkward Sex Talk Is a Turn Off?

I just started casually dating a really great guy, he is fun to be with and we have a lot in common. It seems like we have similar goals and…

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Do Tall Men Get Laid More?

Read enough relationship on the Internet and you’ll often hear a strain of men who complain that women are too focused on height. Their belief is that all women only…

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Can You Have Meaningless Sex While You’re Looking for a Long Term Relationship?

Can You Have Meaningless Sex While You're Looking for a Long Term Relationship?

Dear Evan, If you’re looking for a long term relationship… can you just go back to having meaningless sex until you find one? For the past couple years I feel…

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Why Women Should Make Men Wait For Sex – Part II

I’ve only done this twice before: once, in a post defending Lori Gottlieb’s “Marry Him,” and a second time, in a post explaining my opposition to Rori Raye’s “Circular Dating.”…

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When Should a Woman Have Sex With a Man?

The end of Wednesday’s blog post brought up a very important topic; perhaps the most common question I get asked by women whenever I give a speech: Turn sex into…

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  • "I'm 38 male and just told the love of my life, (whom I have been with for almost a year) that my heart wasnt in having kids. I knew from day 1 she wanted kids some day (she is 28) but I was never sure…"
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  • "There's also the issue where women can "freeze up" and be incapable of saying no, but which an inexperienced man might mistake for non verbal consent. This is one justification feminists give for requ…"
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  • "This is from only your perspective though..women dont exist just in relation to men..new flash sometimes we are out for our own selves, interest and pleasure..not for men or what they think of us or w…"
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  • "I was the other "understanding patiently waiting" woman too.. Until i wasnt anymore. It took me two and half years to realize this but it's plain and simple.... If he loves you. In he would do what it…"
    Chandy on I’m in Love with a Separated Man Who Is Not Pushing to Finalize His Divorce.
  • "Chris, Would women really find men who are a bit more cautious and move a bit slower to be such a turn off though? It signals hesitation and insecurity. Of course, moving too fast signals a man…"
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  • "Being used for sex?!?!? You cannot use someone who participated willingly..this is just something women told other women to deter them from having sex just for pleasure, or to quickly and allowing men…"
    Angela on Why Women Shouldn’t Pursue Sex (According to Science, Not Me!)

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