Is It Appropriate to Discuss Sexual Preferences Before We Have Sex?

I’ve had two dates with a man that I met online. We are in the process of getting to know each other. I don’t like to sleep with men within…
Read More… 86 comments“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.
I’ve had two dates with a man that I met online. We are in the process of getting to know each other. I don’t like to sleep with men within…
Read More… 86 commentsLet’s start with one thing: Just like every study ever conducted, just because this doesn’t apply to YOU doesn’t mean it doesn’t apply. There is just a mountain of evidence that suggests…
Read More… 90 commentsHi. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I waited until I was officially his girlfriend (2 months) before we had sex. It’s been amazing, but…
Read More… 622 commentsMy husband wants me to have an affair and has fantasized about it for the last 5 of our 10 years together. He gets turned on at the mere thought…
Read More… 142 commentsDear Evan, If you’re looking for a long term relationship… can you just go back to having meaningless sex until you find one? For the past couple years I feel…
Read More… 385 commentsMy friend, Christan Marashio, also known as Moxie on her blog “And That’s Why You’re Single”, wrote a compelling first-person piece on what happened when she expanded her search on…
Read More… 70 commentsThe end of Wednesday’s blog post brought up a very important topic; perhaps the most common question I get asked by women whenever I give a speech: Turn sex into…
Read More… 320 commentsRead enough relationship on the Internet and you’ll often hear a strain of men who complain that women are too focused on height. Their belief is that all women only…
Read More… 304 commentsMy boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. He is sweet, patient, loving, and all the things you can ask for in a BF/Husband. One issue is…
Read More… 266 commentsHi Evan! I have been seeing this fantastic guy for the last couple months. I’ll cut to the chase and say that we get along very well, I enjoy every…
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