Is Rape the Worst Thing That Can Happen to a Woman?
I’m going to tread lightly on today’s post. Rape is a very personal, very sensitive, very political issue, and emotions tend to run high around it. But recently, I read…
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Why Men Should Say No to Sex
I’d like to hear your take on how a guy can smoothly handle the condom issue early in the dating relationship (assuming things get hot and heavy on the first…
Read More… 83 commentsWhy Women Should Make Men Wait For Sex — Part II
I’ve only done this twice before: once, in a post defending Lori Gottlieb’s “Marry Him,” and a second time, in a post explaining my opposition to Rori Raye’s “Circular Dating.”…
Read More… 272 commentsIs His Low Sex Drive A Dealbreaker?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. He is sweet, patient, loving, and all the things you can ask for in a BF/Husband. One issue is…
Read More… 264 commentsIf I Have Herpes, How Can I Tell The New Guy I’m Dating?
Hi Evan – Really enjoy your blog. I found out a few months ago that I have herpes. After going through the normal flip out and that my dating life…
Read More… 380 commentsHow Do I Tell a Man That His Awkward Sex Talk Is a Turn Off?
I just started casually dating a really great guy, he is fun to be with and we have a lot in common. It seems like we have similar goals and…
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Hi Evan! I have been seeing this fantastic guy for the last couple months. I’ll cut to the chase and say that we get along very well, I enjoy every…
Read More… 49 commentsMen Look for Sex and Find Love. Women Look for Love and Find Sex.
Hi Evan, I’ve been online dating for a while now, and I’ve started to notice a trend with a lot of the men who have contacted me. By way of…
Read More… 523 commentsWomen Aren’t As Cool With One-Night Stands As Men
Let’s start with one thing: Just like every study ever conducted, just because this doesn’t apply to YOU doesn’t mean it doesn’t apply. There is just a mountain of evidence that suggests…
Read More… 86 commentsCan You Have Meaningless Sex While You’re Looking for a Long Term Relationship?
Dear Evan, If you’re looking for a long term relationship… can you just go back to having meaningless sex until you find one? For the past couple years I feel…
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