Men Look for Sex and Find Love. Women Look for Love and Find Sex.

Hi Evan, I’ve been online dating for a while now, and I’ve started to notice a trend with a lot of the men who have contacted me. By way of…
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“Men look for sex and find love.” If you disagree, you still don’t understand how sex is the primary driver for men. Essentially, men fall for you during the process of pursuing sex with you. Which means that if you have sex before you get into a relationship with him, you’re taking a predictably high risk that things aren’t going to work out. Click below to understand how men think about sex; you will be forever empowered.
Hi Evan, I’ve been online dating for a while now, and I’ve started to notice a trend with a lot of the men who have contacted me. By way of…
Read More… 518 commentsDear Evan, I keep losing relationships when I say that sex isn’t right outside of a marriage. I used to think that women have more self-control than men, but have…
Read More… 276 commentsIf you’ve ever wondered why it seems that men are okay with no-strings-attached sex while women tend to suffer with this arrangement, watch this video closely. It affirms everything that…
Read More… 435 commentsLots has been written about casual sex and the hookup culture – to the point where it has to be very confusing for people to navigate the booty call waters…
Read More… 115 commentsThe confirmation bias is a tendency to prefer information that confirms whatever you already believe. It’s dangerous, because under the influence of the confirmation bias, you cherry-pick only facts that…
Read More… 153 commentsI just started casually dating a really great guy, he is fun to be with and we have a lot in common. It seems like we have similar goals and…
Read More… 104 commentsRead enough relationship on the Internet and you’ll often hear a strain of men who complain that women are too focused on height. Their belief is that all women only…
Read More… 298 commentsDear Evan, If you’re looking for a long term relationship… can you just go back to having meaningless sex until you find one? For the past couple years I feel…
Read More… 378 commentsI’ve only done this twice before: once, in a post defending Lori Gottlieb’s “Marry Him,” and a second time, in a post explaining my opposition to Rori Raye’s “Circular Dating.”…
Read More… 256 commentsThe end of Wednesday’s blog post brought up a very important topic; perhaps the most common question I get asked by women whenever I give a speech: Turn sex into…
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