Charlene J.

"I cannot say enough good things about this man."

I was feeling confused, sad and out of control about dating. I felt like a little leaf being tossed in a storm without understanding or strategy. I equated dating with pain and sadness.

I had been in a marriage, then a 7 year relationship which both began effortlessly before falling apart. When I found myself dating at 41, I was very lost and confused, dating the wrong men and getting hurt by them.

Evan helped me write my profile and helped me achieve some perspective and detachment from the dating process. He taught me that what I formerly thought of as heartbreaking failure was natural part of the dating process and not something that should set me back. He taught me reliable techniques to bring out the best in men on the first date and get a second date.  Evan helped me through the process of moving from dating to forming a relationship.

After a few weeks of working with Evan I was dating a good-looking, wealthy, intelligent stockbroker who treated me well in many ways.  Unfortunately this man also possessed a bad temper. Evan helped me understand that “Alpha Males” come with their own set of pluses and minuses and that this was in some way natural.  I stayed in the relationship for about a year but eventually decided I could not live with this man’s temper and decided to end the relationship.  Evan provided the framework to help me make that choice.

When I re-entered the dating world, my profile attracted a lot of accomplished, athletic, tall, intelligent successful men.  I recently decided to become exclusive with someone who may be the man of my dreams. I think he is a beautiful person and he is so generous, affectionate, well spoken and accomplished.  He is tall and athletic and totally hot.  He is 53, but I am here to tell you 53 can be pretty damn impressive.  I even cut loose 4 other guys, including my ex-boyfriend who regretted losing me.

All this from a woman who a year before had equated dating with despair, rejection and pain.

Evan is the only counselor or coach who has ever made a difference in my life.  I cannot say enough good things about this man.  He is doing God’s work. 

Charlene J.