Shelagh M.

"Dale and I have been together for two and a half years and will be married in 3 months."

Two and a half years ago I was frustrated, sad and a little hopeless. I had had yet another man leave me suddenly and I was so confused. I knew I hadn’t done anything to warrant his departure and yet I could not deny that the only common denominator in all my failed relationships was me! I had started to read Evan’s blog and everything he said resonated: I really believed there were good men out there – after all many of my friends had met and married good men- and I had finally come to accept that the only thing I could change was me. So I signed up for private coaching and promised myself that I would do whatever Evan suggested even those things I knew I would want to resist.

Evan helped me with my profile, recommended a photographer for professional photos and I started to date using his advice. Within a month I met Dale. Now, in hindsight I can see something which was not obvious to me then: when I met a man who was really open to a relationship, and who I might like, I wanted to run – made excuses as to why he wasn’t right or talked myself into moving onto a less available man. And of course this was true of Dale too. In this case though I had Evan – who encouraged me to ” stop paying attention to how I feel and start paying attention to how he treats me”.

Never before have I received better advice! To make a long story short Dale and I have been together for two and a half years and will be married in 3 months. I love him and am so happy and excited to start a new life and family together.

It’s not that I don’t think I wouldn’t have found love and marriage eventually on my own but I do know that I would not have found it as quickly nor as painlessly without Evans help. And who wants to wait to be happy?? Evan thank you for everything!

Your ever grateful client,

Shelagh M.