Tina P.

"Evan answered my question on one of the calls and it was the best coaching ever."

Before I began FOCUS coaching I was feeling very alone in the dating process.  I knew what I was doing wasn’t working.  I was treating going on dates as if it were a business meeting and thought men should like me just because I am this strong, powerful, and successful woman.  On some level I knew that I lacked being feminine, intimate, sexy, and easygoing.  I was under the wrong impression thinking those qualities made me look weak.  Boy, was I wrong!!

I wanted to understand how other women were getting all the online dates and I was not. I wanted to understand how I could be different in my online profile, and with initial phone conversations.  I wondered what 40+ year-old men thought about and who better to hear it from but a male dating coach!

Evan answered a question of mine on one of the monthly calls and it was the best coaching ever.  I changed my thinking and behaviors towards men and began to realize they were just as scared sometimes as I was on the initial date.  I’ve chosen to be cherished and allow myself to know that I was worthy of love.  Now, I feel like when I go with the flow and stop trying to control any given situation, things fall into place. It’s so exhilarating!

I met my boyfriend of 7 months ago.  Each day I get to know more and more about myself and learn who I need to be in this relationship. I knew that he was an awesome man through his actions.  I was never left guessing or needing information.  He was expressive in his communication and let me know he liked me as soon as the first date was over. I felt amazing.  When I let go of my old beliefs about who I thought I was and or how I thought I was being perceived, life changed for me.  It was not only the different, risky and uncomfortable actions that I took but the person I embraced and knew myself to be; a beautiful, sensual, tender loving woman.

Tina P.