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I don’t speak for all men. But I try to speak for the most desirable ones: smart, successful, confident, driven, honest, experienced, sensitive, and marriage-oriented. If you want to be in a relationship with a man like that, please read every single post below to get a better sense of how we think. Knowledge is power.

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Renew Breakup Bootcamp Heals Your Past. But What About Your Future?

“Among other attempts at self-healing, I have tried: casual sex, dating apps, uppers, downers, day drinking, and sobriety. I also tried somatic healing, boxing, Buddhist meditation, Ayahuasca and finally, because…

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My Fiancé Controls All of My Money and I Feel Trapped

  My fiance and I have been together for three years. About 2 years ago, I quit my job to work with my fiance and his business. Things were decent,…

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Are You Doing These 9 Things Wrong in Your Relationship?

Thursday posts are always links to other articles and while I tend to lean on first-person stories or scientific reports written up in mainstream publications, every once in awhile, I’ll…

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Why Can’t Men Refrain from Looking at Photos of Sexy Women and Fantasizing?

I read your article about why men look at other women and tried to get my head around it. I understand the whole cavemen instinct, but what I don’t understand…

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Freezing Your Eggs Doesn’t Always Work Out

Every so often, I receive an application from a woman who wants private coaching who is torn: invest into finding lasting love or freeze her eggs to potentially have children.…

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Why Did He Act Excited About Me If He Didn’t Want to Be My Boyfriend?

I am a 44-year old, highly educated woman who can say that throughout my life I have been able to quasi-understand and respect men and their behaviors. However, I started…

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Sex. Relationships. Infidelity. Communication. Marriage. All in One Place.

As much as I like to think of this site as a one-stop shop for women who want to understand men and find love, I hope it’s clear that I’m…

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How Can I Be Sure I’m Not His Second Choice?

I’m engaged to a man I dated for over 5 years (we wanted to finish school first). I have no doubt that I want to spend my life with him.…

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Why Would a Man Commit to Me and Then Change His Mind?

I started seeing a close friend after we made out one night. I had reservations because he was divorced (a year and a half ago) with 2 kids. He would…

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How Do I Get Over My “Limiting Belief” That I’m Too Fat to Find Love?

Been listening to your podcasts and I love them! I believe you touched on this topic once before but not really sure. I’ve been online dating for years. I’m not…

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  • "Hi Jeremy Useful & relevant contributions, as usual. There's another option too, a woman who accepts that a concept exists, without putting much weight on it or it's usefulness. Particularly…"
    Marika on Are Dating Apps and Texting Working For You? If Not, There’s An Alternative.
  • "The women who don't believe in leagues generally choose to date men for different reasons than those who believe in leagues.  A woman who is suddenly and viscerally attracted to a man she'd otherwise…"
    Jeremy on Are Dating Apps and Texting Working For You? If Not, There’s An Alternative.
  • "@shaukat You can count me in as a person who wholeheartedly believes that SMV and leagues exist.   A lot of women honestly appear to oblivious to leagues because so many guys are willing to date…"
    Yet Another Guy on Are Dating Apps and Texting Working For You? If Not, There’s An Alternative.
  • "I've been waiting for this topic so I can explain my model of LDR success :D My boyfriend and I are unicorns - we met by chance while we were traveling (overseas for me), were intimate immediately,…"
    Michelle on Should I Move to Another Country to Pursue a Long-Distance Relationship?
  • "I do not find most men attractive. I do however find some men attractive, and what will take someone from average to special is usually, wit, wisdom, kindness and an absence of problems such as substa…"
    nonya on I Find Most Men Unattractive. What’s Wrong With Me?
  • "If we want to date around forever, it probably matters. If we want a great & loving relationship, I'm pretty sure it doesn't. I don't remember Tom's specific points; I do remember him as bei…"
    Marika on Are Dating Apps and Texting Working For You? If Not, There’s An Alternative.
  • "Here is my story very brief, I ended up have a kid with a woman, I told literally to her face that "I am not ready to be a father" and in her words were "I am not getting rid of this one" And in my de…"
    Parrish Hill on Should Men Be Forced to Pay For Children They Didn’t Want?
  • "Clare and Shaukat, People who focus on SMV tend to see their partner's attractiveness as as a reflection of their own worth. I suppose we all do that to a certain extent, but the SMV-obsessed seem…"
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    "Give the guy a chance to prove he might have what you need for a satisfying relationship."

    I am a firm believer in dating at least 4 seasons and we are already in our 3rd season of love. We have discussed marriage and will revisit the idea this October.

    Connie D.
  • Mary L.

    "You truly changed my life, my outlook...and I am grateful!!"

    John texts me crazy wonderful love texts to start and end every day.  The roses are never from the grocery store...the Christmas presents were thoughtful and perfect.  And I am wrapped in his wonderful love.

    Mary L.
  • Cheryl O.

    "9 months and 14 first dates later, I met the man of my dreams! Love is not a big enough word for how we feel!"

    It's only been 106 days, Evan, but they have been the BEST 106 days of my life! Thank you for leading me in the right direction, giving me the confidence to believe in myself and helping me find the love I deserve.

    Cheryl O.
  • Melanie R.

    "Many thanks to, you, Evan. You really know what you’re talking about – and you CARE."

    The Inner Circle really has been a learning process for which I'm grateful. In the meantime, I am enjoying a type of peace and ease in a relationship that I’ve never experienced before. That, in itself, is a tremendous gift to me, and worth its weight in gold.

    Melanie R.
  • Karen M.

    "I have read it 10 times already, and keep revisiting it every time I begin to even hint at a moment’s insecurity."

    Brilliant! Once you understand where men are coming from, which I would not have been able to do without the help of "Why He Disappeared," it is very simple!  I have never felt so relaxed around him, he knows this and wants to spend more time with me. His choice!

    Karen M.

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