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I don’t speak for all men. But I try to speak for the most desirable ones: smart, successful, confident, driven, honest, experienced, sensitive, and marriage-oriented. If you want to be in a relationship with a man like that, please read every single post below to get a better sense of how we think. Knowledge is power.

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What Do Men REALLY Want From Women?

What Do Men REALLY Want From Women?

Have you ever dated a guy and thought things were going GREAT between you, only to have him suddenly start being flaky, or stop calling, or vanish all together? In…

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Why Would a Guy Keep in Touch After He Already Dumped Me?

Hi Evan, I’ve been dating an amazing guy who’s only just recently become “too busy” for a relationship. I know that is really just code for him losing interest and…

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What Do You Do When a Guy Dumps You and Then Comes Back?

Right as I discovered you, I’d starting dating a man. He asked me out on the next date during our dates. He kept in contact regularly between dates, mainly calling…

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Why Men Aren’t Speaking Up About the #MeToo Movement

I scrolled through my NewsFeed and read through the names. It was overwhelming. Shocking. Soul-crushing. The old co-worker who is an animal and human rights activist. The founder of a…

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How Can I Learn To Trust A Man And Give Him Freedom?

How Do I Cope With the Other Women in His Life?

Hello Evan, I’m new to you, but I’m a quick student. My question is not really for you, though, it’s for your wife. Has she written anything you can refer…

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My Boyfriend Is Turned Off By My Hairy Legs.

I’m 25 and have been dating a man who is 34 for the last 1.5 years. There is a lot to like about him – he’s smart, kind, caring, and…

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Do Men Need To See Other Men Desire Their Partner? Or Is That Just a Woman Thing?

How important is it for your husband to see you being desired or checked out by other men? Does this influence how attractive HE thinks you are? And if you’re…

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How Can You Attract and Keep the Right Guy?

You were delighted when I told you how to tell if a man was falling in love with you. You were thrilled when I told you when to dump a…

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I’m a Transgender Woman Who is Saving Herself For Marriage. Why Aren’t Men Interested?

I am a transgender woman. I am social, outgoing, and I have little trouble making friends, male or female. Surprisingly, men who seem to be interested in me usually aren’t…

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Do You Distrust Men Who Are Trustworthy?

“It’s full trust or no trust.”   You’ve heard me say this before but it bears repeating before you read today’s article. As always, I’m not telling you to trust an…

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    "Evan, you’re amazing. You’re changing a little corner of the world in a very special way."

    The thing that I most love about Dan is that I can be myself around him. At 52 years old, I’ve never felt that way with any man I’ve dated… I believe that it’s just a matter of time before all of you beautiful women on here find someone special. Don’t give up!

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    “I will never have to settle for a less than fabulous relationship ever again.”

    He recently started referring to us as boyfriend and girlfriend and it makes my heart sing. I really feel that we are moving towards the next level in our relationship and I continue to listen to “Why He Disappeared” on a weekly basis to keep myself grounded.

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