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Understanding Men

I don’t speak for all men. But I try to speak for the most desirable ones: smart, successful, confident, driven, honest, experienced, sensitive, and marriage-oriented. If you want to be in a relationship with a man like that, please read every single post below to get a better sense of how we think. Knowledge is power.

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What Do Men REALLY Want From Women?

What Do Men REALLY Want From Women?

Have you ever dated a guy and thought things were going GREAT between you, only to have him suddenly start being flaky, or stop calling, or vanish all together? In…

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Do Men Like Bitches Or Nice Girls?

Do Men Like Bitches Or Nice Girls?

Evan, When it comes to dating, what do you think works best for attracting a man – and making him want to commit? In the world of dating advice, there…

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Why Would a Guy Keep in Touch After He Already Dumped Me?

Hi Evan, I’ve been dating an amazing guy who’s only just recently become “too busy” for a relationship. I know that is really just code for him losing interest and…

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Why Men Need to Court Women Again

I’ve been a dating coach since 2003. I’ve been a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women since 2010. The only reason I focused on that very specific demographic is…

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How Can I Turn Drinks into Dinner Without Scaring Guys Off?

I’ve been reading your blog for about two years now and your book ‘Why He Disappeared‘ really helped me get over a failed relationship. Thank you! I have been dating…

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I’m a Transgender Woman Who is Saving Herself For Marriage. Why Aren’t Men Interested?

I am a transgender woman. I am social, outgoing, and I have little trouble making friends, male or female. Surprisingly, men who seem to be interested in me usually aren’t…

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Believe The Negatives, Ignore The Positives

Believe The Negatives, Ignore The Positives

Last week, I thought of something that I’d never quite considered before. It was in my Monday night Inner Circle and new member, Natalie, asked a question: I went to…

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Should I Let My Boyfriend Be Friends With His Ex?

I want to know where you stand on the whole “staying friends with your ex” thing. Recently I moved to the country/ town where my boyfriend lives, after a few…

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My Boyfriend Expressed Doubts When Asking Me to Be His Girlfriend. Should I Worry?

I came across your blog when I first started online dating a few years ago in New York and your advice has helped me navigate the modern dating scene. I’ve…

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A Good Man Is Hard to Find. Only 35% of Men Are Emotionally Intelligent.

If this was a blog for men, I would spend a whole lot more time talking about how men need to change. But since this is a blog for women,…

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  • "Scott said "My frustration after another bad date came down to: “why wasn’t this one, #349, exactly what I’m looking for?!?!?” I know EXACTLY what you mean.  When I was in OLD, I wasn't fr…"
    SparklingEmerald on What Do I Say to a Guy on the Phone If I Don’t Want to Go Out With Him?
  • "If you are a virgin man or woman nothing is wrong with that. Growing up i was taught to respect a lady not a hoe. To most men dating a virgin is like having the woman of your dreams.  My view is that…"
    Kenneth Bell on Why Does the Guy I’m Seeing Like Me More Since I Told Him I Was a Virgin?
  • "Hmmm. I understand why most people would believe this is true. Yet I am a woman that has never had the desire to change her man. Just stay the guy you were when you caught me. Don't be someone you're…"
    Molly on Why Don’t Men Hate Being Single As Much As Women Do?
  • "Nice!  I like it when guys do what you're talking about (offer several options and allow me to choose).  You put the time into researching several possibilities instead of just one, i.e. took *more*…"
    AdaGrace on What Do I Say to a Guy on the Phone If I Don’t Want to Go Out With Him?
  • "Ada Grace-  i have no problem at all changing plans because of things like that.  I would appreciate her feedback on making a choice.  One of the things I find awkward is picking a place without kn…"
    ScottH on What Do I Say to a Guy on the Phone If I Don’t Want to Go Out With Him?
  • "@Nissa, @Jeremy Yeah, it's definitely tricky to get enough information to get an idea of who the other person *could* be without having so much information that the model your brain constructs and the…"
    AdaGrace on My Boyfriend of 3 Years Says He Isn’t Attracted to Me. Should I Still Marry Him?
  • "@Evan Aw, thanks... this is the kind of stuff I *wish* I hadn't been too overloaded with work stress to write for you to shape into my profile last year... I feel really lucky that you were able to re…"
    AdaGrace on What Do I Say to a Guy on the Phone If I Don’t Want to Go Out With Him?
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    Marika on The Best Way to Stop Your Relationship From Getting Stale

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    "I cannot say enough good things about this man."

    He is a beautiful person and he is so generous, affectionate, well spoken and accomplished. He is tall and athletic and totally hot. He is 53, but I am here to tell you 53 can be pretty damn impressive. All this from a woman who a year before had equated dating with despair, rejection and pain.

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    "Working with Evan has helped me to really value myself and to be myself when I am dating. This is priceless."

    Look, I can say I feel more confident than ever before but it’s more than that. Working with Evan has helped me to really value myself and to be myself when I am dating. This is priceless. It’s not perfect but I have come a thousand miles from where I was and feel so lucky.

    Lise A.
  • Julie H.

    "Thank you, Evan, for enlightening me, having faith in women, and being honest with what 'is'!!"

    The result of giving up the search for “why” is losing the worry, the wringing of the hands, the wondering if he will call, and all the stress and sadness that goes with the worry.

    Julie H.
  • Marianne K.

    "Evan rocks as a dating coach, and if he can change my life, I promise: he can change yours, too!"

    Thanks to Evan, I finally feel like I'm exactly where I want to be in life. The future is wide open and bright, and I found a rare gem to cherish. I thank Evan for his advice and insight, his reading recommendations, and his encouragement through this process!

    Marianne K.
  • Ann S.

    “Without your help, I never could have imagined that I could be in a relationship like this one.”

    I'm in my 60's and expected that I would not have a committed relationship again. I'm still dealing with issues internally of fear and past experiences, as is he. But we can talk about these things and know that we have something special.

    Ann S.

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