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I don’t speak for all men. But I try to speak for the most desirable ones: smart, successful, confident, driven, honest, experienced, sensitive, and marriage-oriented. If you want to be in a relationship with a man like that, please read every single post below to get a better sense of how we think. Knowledge is power.

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Why Would a Guy Keep in Touch After He Already Dumped Me?

Hi Evan, I’ve been dating an amazing guy who’s only just recently become “too busy” for a relationship. I know that is really just code for him losing interest and…

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40-Year-Old Men Want to Get Married, Too! (On Not Being the Old Guy In the Club)

I couldn’t be more sympathetic to women who are struggling in love. You’re burned out with online dating. You’ve wasted years on unavailable and abusive men. You’ve focused all your attention on…

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Are Women Good, and Men Bad?

Are Women Good, and Men Bad?

According to author Suzanne Venker, “the so-called rise of women has not threatened men. It has pissed them off… Men want to love women, not compete with them. They want…

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My Boyfriend Is Turned Off By My Hairy Legs.

I’m 25 and have been dating a man who is 34 for the last 1.5 years. There is a lot to like about him – he’s smart, kind, caring, and…

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Believe The Negatives, Ignore The Positives

Believe The Negatives, Ignore The Positives

Last week, I thought of something that I’d never quite considered before. It was in my Monday night Inner Circle and new member, Natalie, asked a question: I went to…

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What Do Men REALLY Want From Women?

What Do Men REALLY Want From Women?

Have you ever dated a guy and thought things were going GREAT between you, only to have him suddenly start being flaky, or stop calling, or vanish all together? In…

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How Can I Turn Drinks into Dinner Without Scaring Guys Off?

I’ve been reading your blog for about two years now and your book ‘Why He Disappeared‘ really helped me get over a failed relationship. Thank you! I have been dating…

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How Can I Learn To Trust A Man And Give Him Freedom?

How Do I Cope With the Other Women in His Life?

Hello Evan, I’m new to you, but I’m a quick student. My question is not really for you, though, it’s for your wife. Has she written anything you can refer…

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Become the Woman that No Man Can Ever Leave

Become the Woman that No Man Can Ever Leave

I’m still buzzing from the email that I got from my former client, Michelle. And let me say, that Michelle is one of my favorite clients ever. Always good-humored, always…

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I Have a Great Relationship But Something’s Missing. Should I Hold Out For Something Better?

How do you know if a girl is the one? As a guy, do you get swept off your feet like a girl does or is it more logical? I’ve…

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    "After reading Evan’s material. I enjoyed my dates and I learned to trust my feelings and instincts more."

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    "Evan, you’re amazing. You’re changing a little corner of the world in a very special way."

    The thing that I most love about Dan is that I can be myself around him. At 52 years old, I’ve never felt that way with any man I’ve dated… I believe that it’s just a matter of time before all of you beautiful women on here find someone special. Don’t give up!

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    "I cannot say enough good things about this man."

    He is a beautiful person and he is so generous, affectionate, well spoken and accomplished. He is tall and athletic and totally hot. He is 53, but I am here to tell you 53 can be pretty damn impressive. All this from a woman who a year before had equated dating with despair, rejection and pain.

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    "I have met a man I can only describe as practically perfect."

    Evan's info gave me the understanding that if a guy is interested in you, he will want to be with you, he will call when he says he will call, he will make sure he arranges time to spend with you. 

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    "Evan answered my question on one of the calls and it was the best coaching ever."

    I’ve chosen to be cherished and allow myself to know that I was worthy of love.  Now, I feel like when I go with the flow and stop trying to control any given situation, things fall into place. It’s so exhilarating!  

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