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I don’t speak for all men. But I try to speak for the most desirable ones: smart, successful, confident, driven, honest, experienced, sensitive, and marriage-oriented. If you want to be in a relationship with a man like that, please read every single post below to get a better sense of how we think. Knowledge is power.

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I Think I’m Hot But My Boyfriend Doesn’t Seem to Think So

I Think I’m Hot But My Boyfriend Doesn’t Seem to Think So

Evan, I want an honest opinion on my predicament. I am in a year-long relationship and my boyfriend is a wonderful man. We have a strong connection and share a…

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Men Are Honest. You’re Just Not Listening.

Men Are Honest. You’re Just Not Listening.

I take my job as your personal trainer for love very seriously. I try to honor and respect every woman who reads my emails and offer advice that is honest…

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My Boyfriend Expressed Doubts When Asking Me to Be His Girlfriend. Should I Worry?

I came across your blog when I first started online dating a few years ago in New York and your advice has helped me navigate the modern dating scene. I’ve…

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How Can I Turn Drinks into Dinner Without Scaring Guys Off?

I’ve been reading your blog for about two years now and your book ‘Why He Disappeared‘ really helped me get over a failed relationship. Thank you! I have been dating…

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Should I Let My Boyfriend Be Friends With His Ex?

I want to know where you stand on the whole “staying friends with your ex” thing. Recently I moved to the country/ town where my boyfriend lives, after a few…

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Why Men Aren’t Speaking Up About the #MeToo Movement

I scrolled through my NewsFeed and read through the names. It was overwhelming. Shocking. Soul-crushing. The old co-worker who is an animal and human rights activist. The founder of a…

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Why Men Need to Court Women Again

I’ve been a dating coach since 2003. I’ve been a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women since 2010. The only reason I focused on that very specific demographic is…

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Why Do Men Who Don’t Want Anything Serious End Up with Girlfriends?

Why Are There No Attractive Men in Your Area

I’m 31, fit, intelligent, attractive, and I’ve done enough work on myself to know that I’m happy, and that I’m ready for a relationship. Here’s my pattern: I’ll have a…

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Thoughts on MRAs, MGTOWs, and the Manosphere

The manosphere – for those of you not in the know – is a collection of blogs written by men, for men. Their complaint is generally that women (especially American…

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How Do I Avoid Wasting Time on Players and Narcissists?

How Do I Avoid Wasting Time on Players and Narcissists?

Dear Evan, I think your male point of view may help women spot the good guys. You advise us to be careful with the alphas and Mr. Know-it-all types. Well,…

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  • "It is a great contradiction in that women can jump from one man's bed to the next, seeking something that surely is beyond her reach; just because it is her option. Women can choose to have more choic…"
    Jim on Why Don’t Men Hate Being Single As Much As Women Do?
  • "You're mistaken about the conclusion... men don't do as WELL single. Meaning, we aren't as careful, we dont take care of ourselves, we eat pizza all the time, whatever. Now we are learning to cook ou…"
    Jim on Why Don’t Men Hate Being Single As Much As Women Do?
  • "Agree with the current responses; millennials are a different generation, but so is every generation, with it's own common themes. But humans do not change; we crave connection, admiration, support,…"
    Michelle on Do Millennials Lack Social Skills Because of Dating Apps and Texting?
  • "Good grief, will the ignorant bash-the-millennials nonsense ever go away? And are people genetically wired to develop rose-tinted glasses when we grow older? Because I, for one, remember that meeting…"
    A Random Guy on Do Millennials Lack Social Skills Because of Dating Apps and Texting?
  • "Saw this & thought it was an interesting approach to balancing the household load: https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a29246366/household-chores-marriage/?utm_source=pocket-newtab…"
    Robyn on Is the Bar Too Low on Being a Good Father?
  • "I don’t agree with Ron. In my experience, guys have been really mean to me, and selfish. If you want to know, feel free to ask, I’ve always been kind, and caring, and giving,…"
    Evie on If Men Like Only Hot Women, Where Does That Leave an Average Woman Like Me?
  • "This probably explains why US birthrates have hit a low not seen since 1937. Given that we are at the start of the Anthropocene extinction thats not a bad thing.…"
    Francis Mulhare on Why Are There No Attractive Men in Your Area
  • "I'll give my take as a heterosexual male who may have at various times been in the position of the boyfriend here. I agree with Evan that this isn't wildly out of the oridnary; we can lose interest in…"
    Galilee on Should I Stick Around If My Boyfriend’s Sex Drive Is Gone?

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  • Julie Z.

    "You really helped me filter and attract the 'kind, compassionate, funny' winner from the rest."

    He was gentle, tough, hugely insightful and extremely accurate at decoding a man's words, his actions, his lack of action, his likely intentions.  It was like having a direct line to a man's "private talk."

    Julie Z.
  • Lise A.

    "Working with Evan has helped me to really value myself and to be myself when I am dating. This is priceless."

    Look, I can say I feel more confident than ever before but it’s more than that. Working with Evan has helped me to really value myself and to be myself when I am dating. This is priceless. It’s not perfect but I have come a thousand miles from where I was and feel so lucky.

    Lise A.
  • Heather J.

    "Seriously…everything you described would happen, happened!"

    He emailed me, he called me, he asked for a date, he called back, he contacts me everyday, he took down his profile first, he stopped dating the other women he was dating and asked me to “date exclusively” because he wants to focus on getting to know me better. All I did was say yes.

    Heather J.

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