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I don’t speak for all men. But I try to speak for the most desirable ones: smart, successful, confident, driven, honest, experienced, sensitive, and marriage-oriented. If you want to be in a relationship with a man like that, please read every single post below to get a better sense of how we think. Knowledge is power.

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I Think I’m Hot But My Boyfriend Doesn’t Seem to Think So

I Think I’m Hot But My Boyfriend Doesn’t Seem to Think So

Evan, I want an honest opinion on my predicament. I am in a year-long relationship and my boyfriend is a wonderful man. We have a strong connection and share a…

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Men Are Honest. You’re Just Not Listening.

Men Are Honest. You’re Just Not Listening.

I take my job as your personal trainer for love very seriously. I try to honor and respect every woman who reads my emails and offer advice that is honest…

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My Boyfriend Expressed Doubts When Asking Me to Be His Girlfriend. Should I Worry?

I came across your blog when I first started online dating a few years ago in New York and your advice has helped me navigate the modern dating scene. I’ve…

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How Can I Turn Drinks into Dinner Without Scaring Guys Off?

I’ve been reading your blog for about two years now and your book ‘Why He Disappeared‘ really helped me get over a failed relationship. Thank you! I have been dating…

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Should I Let My Boyfriend Be Friends With His Ex?

I want to know where you stand on the whole “staying friends with your ex” thing. Recently I moved to the country/ town where my boyfriend lives, after a few…

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Why Men Aren’t Speaking Up About the #MeToo Movement

I scrolled through my NewsFeed and read through the names. It was overwhelming. Shocking. Soul-crushing. The old co-worker who is an animal and human rights activist. The founder of a…

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Why Men Need to Court Women Again

I’ve been a dating coach since 2003. I’ve been a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women since 2010. The only reason I focused on that very specific demographic is…

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Why Do Men Who Don’t Want Anything Serious End Up with Girlfriends?

I’m 31, fit, intelligent, attractive, and I’ve done enough work on myself to know that I’m happy, and that I’m ready for a relationship. Here’s my pattern: I’ll have a…

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Thoughts on MRAs, MGTOWs, and the Manosphere

The manosphere – for those of you not in the know – is a collection of blogs written by men, for men. Their complaint is generally that women (especially American…

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How Do I Avoid Wasting Time on Players and Narcissists?

How Do I Avoid Wasting Time on Players and Narcissists?

Dear Evan, I think your male point of view may help women spot the good guys. You advise us to be careful with the alphas and Mr. Know-it-all types. Well,…

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  • "Nice!  I like it when guys do what you're talking about (offer several options and allow me to choose).  You put the time into researching several possibilities instead of just one, i.e. took *more*…"
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  • "@Nissa, @Jeremy Yeah, it's definitely tricky to get enough information to get an idea of who the other person *could* be without having so much information that the model your brain constructs and the…"
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  • "@Evan Aw, thanks... this is the kind of stuff I *wish* I hadn't been too overloaded with work stress to write for you to shape into my profile last year... I feel really lucky that you were able to re…"
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  • Cheryl O.

    "9 months and 14 first dates later, I met the man of my dreams! Love is not a big enough word for how we feel!"

    It's only been 106 days, Evan, but they have been the BEST 106 days of my life! Thank you for leading me in the right direction, giving me the confidence to believe in myself and helping me find the love I deserve.

    Cheryl O.
  • Julie H.

    "Thank you, Evan, for enlightening me, having faith in women, and being honest with what 'is'!!"

    The result of giving up the search for “why” is losing the worry, the wringing of the hands, the wondering if he will call, and all the stress and sadness that goes with the worry.

    Julie H.
  • Busola O.

    "I feel very fortunate that I gave him a chance and that he's in my life. The best part is that there is NO DRAMA!"

    “Why He Disappeared” made me feel like I was in control of my love life and that it was not in control of me. Now I'm VERY happy with myself and my relationship. I can relax and not stress about the future, I'm enjoying the here and now and its so much FUN!

    Busola O.
  • Rachel E.

    "Thank you Evan for your training. In less than one year, I met my fiancé online!"

    I learned so much from Evan’s training and FOCUS Coaching… I was passionate about meeting someone who respected me, honored me, and really loved me…just for me. And, I wanted to feel the same about him. I’m thrilled to say that I found that man.

    Rachel E.
  • Connie D.

    "Give the guy a chance to prove he might have what you need for a satisfying relationship."

    I am a firm believer in dating at least 4 seasons and we are already in our 3rd season of love. We have discussed marriage and will revisit the idea this October.

    Connie D.

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