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I don’t speak for all men. But I try to speak for the most desirable ones: smart, successful, confident, driven, honest, experienced, sensitive, and marriage-oriented. If you want to be in a relationship with a man like that, please read every single post below to get a better sense of how we think. Knowledge is power.

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I Think I’m Hot But My Boyfriend Doesn’t Seem to Think So

I Think I’m Hot But My Boyfriend Doesn’t Seem to Think So

Evan, I want an honest opinion on my predicament. I am in a year-long relationship and my boyfriend is a wonderful man. We have a strong connection and share a…

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Men Are Honest. You’re Just Not Listening.

Men Are Honest. You’re Just Not Listening.

I take my job as your personal trainer for love very seriously. I try to honor and respect every woman who reads my emails and offer advice that is honest…

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My Boyfriend Expressed Doubts When Asking Me to Be His Girlfriend. Should I Worry?

I came across your blog when I first started online dating a few years ago in New York and your advice has helped me navigate the modern dating scene. I’ve…

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How Can I Turn Drinks into Dinner Without Scaring Guys Off?

I’ve been reading your blog for about two years now and your book ‘Why He Disappeared‘ really helped me get over a failed relationship. Thank you! I have been dating…

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Should I Let My Boyfriend Be Friends With His Ex?

I want to know where you stand on the whole “staying friends with your ex” thing. Recently I moved to the country/ town where my boyfriend lives, after a few…

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Why Men Aren’t Speaking Up About the #MeToo Movement

I scrolled through my NewsFeed and read through the names. It was overwhelming. Shocking. Soul-crushing. The old co-worker who is an animal and human rights activist. The founder of a…

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Why Men Need to Court Women Again

I’ve been a dating coach since 2003. I’ve been a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women since 2010. The only reason I focused on that very specific demographic is…

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Why Do Men Who Don’t Want Anything Serious End Up with Girlfriends?

Why Are There No Attractive Men in Your Area

I’m 31, fit, intelligent, attractive, and I’ve done enough work on myself to know that I’m happy, and that I’m ready for a relationship. Here’s my pattern: I’ll have a…

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Thoughts on MRAs, MGTOWs, and the Manosphere

The manosphere – for those of you not in the know – is a collection of blogs written by men, for men. Their complaint is generally that women (especially American…

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How Do I Avoid Wasting Time on Players and Narcissists?

How Do I Avoid Wasting Time on Players and Narcissists?

Dear Evan, I think your male point of view may help women spot the good guys. You advise us to be careful with the alphas and Mr. Know-it-all types. Well,…

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    Lucy on Do Men and Women Think About Sex Differently?
  • "Male lions routinely kill cubs from the previous alpha male when they take over a harem. And the lionesses just accept it. And they make no effort to provide for the lionesses or his cubs. In fact the…"
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  • "This is... joke..? Too much entertainment. Too much comparison. Why ones not learn how to stand on their own feet? This is your life. You are master of your life. Why do you need the validation from a…"
    Yume on I Think I’m Hot But My Boyfriend Doesn’t Seem to Think So
  • "It took me WAY too long to cut off the man who said he loved me, called me his girlfriend very soon, lived with me... but eventually picked fights with me and after 4.5 years, still hadn't proposed.…"
    April on How EXACTLY Do I Break Up With A Non-Committal Man?
  • ""Male lions provide protection. That is why a male lion can have a pride of lionesses. Male lions who cannot provide protection from other male lions do not have prides. They are social outcasts. Ther…"
    Selena on Do Men and Women Think About Sex Differently?
  • "I know what you wrote, YAG. Please re-read what I did. The drive in women for so many of the factors I listed is far more related to their serotonergic system to any testosterone:estrogen ratio (whic…"
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  • "@JeremyA downside associated with high testosterone in men and women is narcissism.…"
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    "I've always disliked self-help, but from the moment I started reading, I felt you were talking to me."

    He is smart, loving, funny, a perfect travel partner, and really wonderful.   I have never been in such a lovely relationship.   I feel secure, cherished, and happy every day.   I never stopped reading your books, and checked up on myself often.

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    "Many thanks to, you, Evan. You really know what you’re talking about — and you CARE."

    The Inner Circle really has been a learning process for which I'm grateful. In the meantime, I am enjoying a type of peace and ease in a relationship that I’ve never experienced before. That, in itself, is a tremendous gift to me, and worth its weight in gold.

    Melanie R.
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    "You really helped me filter and attract the 'kind, compassionate, funny' winner from the rest."

    He was gentle, tough, hugely insightful and extremely accurate at decoding a man's words, his actions, his lack of action, his likely intentions.  It was like having a direct line to a man's "private talk."

    Julie Z.

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