Give Me 5 Minutes a Day and I Will Give You a Husband!

You can have the relationship of your dreams and you don’t have to change to do it.

 

From this moment forward, you will have the ability to determine your own fate.

  • You will be able to effortlessly let go of the pain and negativity in your past.
  • You will carry yourself with unshakable confidence in all dating situations.
  • You will attract quality men and watch them invest in you.
  • You will be an incredible first date who always gets a second date.
  • You will actually enjoy dating, knowing that you’re in control of the entire process.
  • You will easily handle sexual situations, maintain healthy boundaries, and make your man want to come back for more.
  • You will never worry about breaking up with a guy out of fear that you can’t do better.
  • You will understand what he’s thinking and why he does what he does.
  • You will be able to tell men how to please you and get what you want from your relationship.
  • You will learn the difference between chemistry and compatibility and use it to choose a healthy, long-term partner.
  • You will act with confidence and trust and inspire your man to do the same.

And most importantly:

You will have the fun, passionate, lasting love you’ve always dreamed about.

Yes, I’m Ready to Understand Men and Find Love


I've helped thousands of women find love

Since 2003, I’ve spent 3 hours every day coaching, cheerleading, and mentoring women like you into relationship success.

I am thrilled that so many of my clients have written to share their happiness. But I always knew that I could do my job better.

I only work with a handful of women each year, and I only have a limited amount of time to coach women each afternoon.

So, I started to think: “How could I help more women – particularly, the smart women who most frequently turn to me to find love?”

You’re tired. You’re busy. You’re overwhelmed. You’re not going to comb through all my blog posts, newsletters and audio programs to get answers.

You need concepts explained to you in a short period of time.

You need a process that is easy, fun, and achievable.

And, of course, you need results.

No more wasting time on the wrong men.

No more books that don’t change your destiny.

No more long dating hiatuses where you passively wait to win the love lottery.

Do You Want A HusbandYOU WANT A HUSBAND, DAMMIT!

So after going through all my stuff, I came up with a system that gives you everything you need to make healthy relationship choices with men.

This is the culmination of all my coaching and relationship experience in one place.

I call it…

Love U - Understand Men. Find Love.

It’s no accident that Love U has two meanings.

First of all, Love U means Love Yourself

Susanne

It’s impossible to have the relationship of your dreams if you don’t love yourself.

You may like yourself.

You may think you’re kind and smart and pretty.

But if that doesn’t translate into insisting on proper treatment from the man in your life, then you have to work on your confidence and self-awareness.

If you have settled on losers, players, commitmentphobes and narcissists, you’re largely saying that you don’t love yourself enough to deserve better.

Well, I don’t think that’s true. When you’re done with Love U, you will have a healthier relationship with yourself, as well as a healthy relationship with a man.

Second of all, Love U means Love University

Are Today's Marriages Better or Worse Than They Used To Be?

Now, of course, this isn’t an official university. You cannot put this on your resume. You cannot use these credits to transfer to another higher learning institution.

But make no mistake: you are getting an education here.

Better yet, this is the kind of education that you cannot get from a traditional college, masters or doctorate program.

And yet, I offer you the ticket to the most important thing you could possibly learn.

Life IS love.

There is no other force in the universe that is as powerful, nothing that is a better predictor of your happiness than having a loving partner by your side, day in and day out, until you grow old.

I’ve long said that working with me was like getting a degree in men, and I couldn’t be more serious about the comparison.

You may have read 100 dating books. You may have gone on 100 dates. You may be a licensed psychiatrist with twenty years of private practice.

And yet Love U still has the unique ability to show you what’s in your blind spot.

It’s a blind spot your family can’t see.

It’s a blind spot your friends won’t reveal to you.

It’s blind spot that no amount of books or self-guided therapy can cure.

As long as you are unable to identify your blind spot, shine the light on it, and get rid of it permanently, relationships will continue to be a struggle for you.

In Love U, I’m taking you on an exciting and transformational journey, a one-way ticket to love and happiness.

"Without you there's no way I would have found the love of my life!"

Julie

Remember earlier when we were talking about what a struggle it would be to drive cross-country without a map?

Well, Love U is the GPS that leads you directly to the man you’ve always sought.

Here are 9 ways in which Love U is different than anything out there.

1 Love U is comprehensive.

How comprehensive?

Comprehensive enough that you should never need to talk to a therapist, listen to a summit, or buy an eBook ever again.

Love U is a meticulously crafted curriculum with 6 different modules. Within each module is 4-5 weeks of video content, organized in chronological order.

Confidence

Bury the past. Live in the present. Get your groove back.

Past Baggage

  • Why holding onto your last relationship does nothing but stop you from finding a better one.
  • The danger of thinking that the man you’re seeing is the Last Man on Earth. He’s not, and you can do better, guaranteed!
  • Why Cinderella needs to try on a lot of shoes before she finds one that fits perfectly. (And why she doesn’t get mad at her feet when they don’t!)
  • The curse of being a smart, strong, successful woman with high standards, and what that means for you.
  • How to be both a short-term pessimist and a long-term optimist. If you don’t figure this one out, you’re doomed from the start.

Why Bother Syndrome

  • Why there is no time like the present to find love. No matter how much you’ve suffered, you’re better off doing something NOW than putting it off indefinitely.
  • The one thing that’s been keeping you from getting back out there. It’s simple, but it’s weighing on you heavily and preventing you from your true life’s purpose.
  • The inspiring success stories of my most challenging clients: a 73-year-old widowed woman, a paralyzed woman in a wheelchair, and a woman in the remotest part of the Yukon. Learn how these women found lasting love and how you can apply their lessons.
  • Why dating and relationships are never a waste of time – except in this one specific instance.
  • The reason you should always bother to date. All of your bad experiences may have helped you forget how good it feels to find the love you want.

Confidence

  • What it means to be unreasonable, and why unreasonable people are the ones who find love faster than anyone.
  • The incredible story of a famous self-help author who couldn’t find love and her 4 limiting beliefs that might be holding you back.
  • The value of getting a “small win” and seeing instant results in your love live. Small wins propel you into bigger and bigger victories.
  • Why the only thing to be afraid of in dating is NOT dating. I’ll teach you how to get over everything else.

Take Action

  • How you already know (almost) everything you need to know to get happy – you just haven’t applied it yet.
  • When it’s important to be unreasonable when it comes to getting the relationship you so richly deserve.
  • That love is like a lottery and that you probably don’t want to celebrate your winnings until you’ve gotten all 6 numbers.
  • Why there are many things to celebrate before you get a ring on your finger – and why it’s essential to take joy in them as you date.
  • A new, empowering definition of happiness, that will get you into action and produce greater results than any relationship book you’ve ever read.

Meeting Men

How to make men flock, swoon, and step up – wherever you are.

Meeting Men

  • Why “where are all the quality men?” is the wrong question, and what question you SHOULD be asking to get better results in love.
  • The downside of being too independent and comfortable – and how if you’re very successful at being single, it becomes even harder to become a couple.
  • The secret to getting more men to approach you. It’s a piece of cake – and all you have to do is understand what he’s thinking when he sees you.
  • Why you should never take a man’s card or ask him to call you. It’s not that it’s “wrong”; it’s that the right guy doesn’t need to be prodded to follow up with you.
  • If you’ve ever felt you weren’t good at email, phone, texting, or dating, you’ll learn to make men stand up and pay attention.

Flirting

  • The one thing you need to assume before you start talking to a guy. Once you get this down, you will never again worry about whether he likes you or not.
  • The art of verbal foreplay, and why being a woman is the only power you need to flirt with the cutest guys.
  • Why “playing hard to get” is the WORST advice you’ve ever been given and why warm and positive feedback is the way to any man’s heart.
  • The difference between flirting and being a tease, and how to establish healthy boundaries that let men know where you stand.
  • Don’t like the men you’re meeting? You can actually CHANGE your date’s personality by being a better flirt. This lesson is like MAGIC!

Online dating

  • The difference between the top dating sites and which one is the best fit for YOU.
  • A powerful formula to writing an online dating profile that not only gets a higher quantity of responses, but a higher quality as well.
  • What it’s like to be a man in online dating. It’s shocking and heartbreaking, and it just may change the way you view men from this moment forward.
  • The power of my 2/2/2 Rule. Screen out bad guys, get the good ones to invest in you, and have total control of your online dating experience.
  • How to confidently initiate contact with men and get them to write back. If you’re like most people, your first emails are weak attempts at finding common interests that send your favorite men running for the hills.

First dates

  • The 3 things you should be looking for on a first date. If you don’t get them, there is NO point in going back for a second one.
  • What it means to “forgive the ignorance,” and how you want men to be more forgiving of your flaws as well.
  • How to handle the first date kiss. If you don’t do it this way, you may be inadvertently alienating the vast majority of men.
  • The deadly “Pedestal Principle” and how it could be silently killing your chances of online dating success! If you don’t know what it is, chances are, it is already affecting you…
  • A nearly foolproof plan to start enjoying your first dates, and creating chemistry and intimacy. No more dreadful coffee dates!

Courtship

  • Why men will do as little as possible to get the greatest reward, and how you can effectively weed out the users and players FAST.
  • A simple way to figure out whether a guy is interested in you. Do this, and you’ll never spend another second, staring at your phone, waiting for his text.
  • You’ve spent your entire life focused on how you feel about your date. Instead, focus on THIS to avoid wasting time on ambivalent guys.
  • An ESSENTIAL fact about men that will make sense of all of their behavior, and allow you to finally have peace around dating.
  • Why you can’t always tell when a guy is right for you, but you can absolutely tell when he’s WRONG for you.

Dating

The art of choosing a boyfriend amidst the losers, flakes, and players.

Staying cool

  • The first thing you need to remember when you’re seeing a guy, and the one thing that guarantees you don’t lose a moment of sleep over him.
  • How choosing a boyfriend is NOT the same as choosing a husband. In fact, the whole point of dating is to try a guy on for size before even considering a real commitment.
  • Why you need to throw out whatever rules you have in your head about how he “should” act, and what you should be looking for instead.
  • What to do when you you’re freaking out that he hasn’t called and you think he’s pulling away. This will absolutely SAVE your relationship.
  • The fascinating science behind attachment styles, and how learning your own can make or break your entire future.

Sex

  • The main difference between men and women when it comes to sex. Once you learn this, it will explain and heal the confusing sexual situations from your past.
  • Why great relationships should have great sex, but great sex is not a predictor of a great relationship. Just look at your past!
  • If a man is only interested in sex with you, then sex is probably all he’s offering in return. Funny how that works.
  • Five simple sentences that will guarantee that no man uses you for sex ever again.
  • How to say no to sex, set healthy boundaries, and still make him want to come back for more.

Being selective

  • The downfall of dating smart, handsome, wealthy guys. I’m not telling you to lower your standards; I am shining the light on blind spot that continues to afflict you.
  • Why you should never date simply for the sake of dating, and why dating is the best way to create lasting love.
  • 3 things a man could say to you that should make you dump him on the spot. You’ve always been too forgiving, but you’ll never make that mistake again.
  • What men want. Believe it or not, 90% of it is the same as what you want, but there is 10% that you’ve never heard before. You need to learn this if you want to forge an unbreakable bond with your guy.
  • Why you may not need a man, but men want to be needed. Until you let down your guard and risk being vulnerable, you have no chance at getting the man you desire.

Becoming exclusive

  • Exactly when it’s time for you to focus your full attention on one man. Don’t become his girlfriend until he does THIS.
  • The 2 different paths to becoming a boyfriend. Which one are you on, and why are you putting up with the guy who is not stepping up to commit to you?
  • The vital definitions of exclusive vs. boyfriend. Until you nail this down, you run the risk of sleeping with men for months at a time who have no intention of being your boyfriend.
  • Instead of seeing if your boyfriend meets up to your mental checklist, try rating your relationship on this one important quality.
  • The 8 things your boyfriend should be doing right now. If he’s not doing them, you need to give him his walking papers!

Understand Men

You may be confused, but we’re not that confusing.

Boyfriend material

  • Why you should never be afraid of having a serious relationship discussion. You’ll feel 1000 times better after you take this to heart.
  • Why great men aren’t always great boyfriends, and how you can tell the difference within a few weeks.
  • Why some men make less of an effort after they’re in a relationship, and why there are times that this is okay.
  • When you should say “I love you” and how to avoid scaring him away with those three magic words.
  • An easy way to assess whether your relationship is truly making you happy. Try this and it will spare you months of wasted time on the wrong men.

Feminine energy

  • How to get a confident, masculine man to want to treat you like a queen. It sounds obvious, but most women have been getting it wrong forever.
  • Why smart, strong, successful women kick ass in the boardroom yet struggle in love, and what you can do about it – without changing your personality.
  • How to choose a partner who is a complementary fit. There is no right and wrong; there is only effective and ineffective when it comes to choosing a man.
  • What it means to be with the “nice guy with balls,” and why even this attractive archetype is going to frustrate you, despite his charms.
  • A test to figure out your own feminine energy. The result will determine your romantic future far more than your education, career, and hobbies ever will.

Alpha males vs. beta males

  • The difference between constructive criticism and destructive criticism when it comes to men. If you don’t know this off the top of your head, you are probably unintentionally emasculating your man.
  • The secret appeal of the easygoing, laid-back guy. What you perceive as weakness is actually his greatest strength!
  • The 2 qualities that are the best at determining whether a man is going to be a great husband. I promise: you have NO IDEA what they are, but once you do, you’ll have an advantage on every other woman who is seeking a life partner.
  • Can you be an alpha female at work and a beta female in a relationship? What does it take to be with a man who is a natural leader? Together, we’ll explore your options and steer you towards the right kind of man for you.
  • A fun and effective way to make your boyfriend act the way you want him to. It’s basic psychology, and it’s incredibly powerful when you do it right.

Understanding men

  • The first thing you need to understand about men. Once you do, you’ll be able to clearly decide whether his behavior is acceptable or not.
  • The primary difference between what men and women want from relationships. Once you know what he wants, you can easily give it to him and make your relationship rock-solid.
  • Your boyfriend wants to make you happy. With this knowledge, you can transform the way you deal with him and make him WANT to be a better boyfriend.
  • Men have a unique timetable when it comes to commitment. Understand where he’s coming from and he will clamor to commit to you.
  • Tired of wasting time on men who don’t want to get married? Here’s exactly how you deal with those guys who aren’t sure if they want to ever settle down…

Chemistry

  • It’s on Wikipedia, yet you may have no clue what “love” really is. This lesson will forever change the way you look at the concept of chemistry.
  • Have you ever had a guy tell you that he wasn’t “in love” with you? Have you ever said that to a man? Learn the science of being “in love” and what that means for your future.
  • What does it mean when you “just know”? Do you need to have that feeling? Learn why this is better known as “the deception of passion” and how not to be drawn into that trap.
  • There is a formula for happy relationships – a perfect mix of chemistry and compatibility. Learn it and make your next boyfriend your last boyfriend.
  • How to choose a man who is not only attractive to you, but, just as importantly, great husband material as well.

Relationships

Finding a guy is easy. Finding a guy you want to keep is hard.

How to talk with men

  • The primary reason that men shut down when you have an important discussion. The second you get this is the second you can speak your mind without fear.
  • The “compliment sandwich” and how to use it to get your way. Trust me: no man can resist.
  • How he acts and how he feels about you are often two different things. Learn how to distinguish his inconsiderate actions from his cruel ones.
  • If you want your boyfriend to be 100% honest with you, you have to do this one thing (that pretty much no woman ever does)…
  • Solve ANY sensitive relationship using this three-step conversation technique that makes him WANT to please you.

Should I stay or should I go?

  • “The Rubberband Effect” and how to deal with guys who pull away to think.
  • Why you should forgive him for being a man and break up with him for being a jerk. And no, those two words are not synonymous!
  • How to quickly identify and dump an jerk. I hate to use such clinical terms, but you need to break up with him before he does too much damage.
  • “The Normalization of Deviance” and how to fix your relationship before it becomes broken.
  • When you should give him a mulligan for his clueless behavior, and when to learn to let it go. Men have no incentive to stay in relationships where they are constantly told that they’re failing.

Jealousy and cheating

  • The actual statistics on how many men cheat, how many women cheat, and why people stray. Trust me: it’s not what you think.
  • The surprising – and shockingly common – reason that good men lie to you. Believe it or not, you’re partially responsible for bringing out the worst in him.
  • The reason you’re drawn to cheaters and they are drawn to you. It’s time to break your pattern of choosing emotionally unavailable men, once and for all.
  • The truth about monogamy – what biology says, what men say, and why so many men choose to stay with one woman forever.
  • One simple rule you need to know about trust that will inspire the right man to be loyal and monogamous.

Compatibility

  • Common interests, similar backgrounds, great chemistry. Guess what? NONE of these are the primary source of compatibility with men.
  • The 3 personality traits that are the best predictors for a compatible partner. Does your guy have them or do you need to ditch him now?
  • Make your partner feel more appreciated by speaking his “love language.” Then watch as he turns around and becomes a better partner in return.
  • Why being married is extremely different from dating, and how there is a completely unique set of issues to face as a married couple that you cannot figure out when you first start dating.
  • How you can have everything on paper, but NOTHING in a relationship, unless you are compatible in this one area.

Commitment

Building a life with a man who makes you feel safe, heard, and understood.

Being a great girlfriend

  • A radical new way of choosing a man – not solely based on whether you’re into him, but whether he’s into YOU.
  • The hidden power of saying YES. Men love it. They don’t get enough of it. And you’ll be the first woman to ever say it to him regularly.
  • A simple and powerful way to avoid being a doormat. The right man doesn’t take advantage of your goodwill, and if he does, he’s out the door.
  • How a female animal trainer learned to train her husband using positive reinforcement and rewards. You can, too!
  • The Platinum Rule for relationships. If you want a man who is a giver (and you should), you can’t keep score of what you’re giving in return.

Breaking up

  • Why staying with a nice man you don’t intend to marry isn’t kind, any more than you’d want a man to stay with you if he didn’t want to get married.
  • A thirty-second script you can say to any man when it’s time to end things. It’s drama-free, it’s succinct, and it leaves no room for misinterpretation.
  • The 2 brain systems you use when making decisions. If you’re not doing this, you may be missing something vital in your emotional time of crisis.
  • The sad truth about millions of men. (Hint: they are too messed up to make a good husband for ANYONE, so don’t be too sad about letting them go)
  • A healthier way to view a break-up, no matter how sad or painful it might be. Sometimes, breaking up is not just the best answer but the ONLY one.

Commitment

  • Why the REAL numbers on marriage and divorce should make you feel OPTIMISTIC about finding love.
  • Exactly when you should cut your losses with a boyfriend who hasn’t proposed. Give him enough time to make a decision, then be brave enough to pull the plug.
  • A stunningly obvious way to determine if a man is marriage-oriented that does not involve interrogating him. Your future boyfriend thanks you in advance.
  • Why your man has no more power in your relationship than you do – unless you give it away to him.
  • The 3 paths to marriage which are most likely to end in divorce. I promise that you’ve done at least 2 out of 3 of these things – multiple times!

Wants vs. needs

  • Why you can’t have any relationship dependent on your partner changing. If you don’t like the way he’s acting right this second, don’t expect things to get better.
  • The difference between settling and compromising. It’s not what you think, and until you figure this piece out, you always struggle in love.
  • Why “dating like a man” is empowering, effective, and more likely to make you happy than anything you’ve ever tried before.
  • The most important quality a man can have. If your guy doesn’t have it, your relationship is sunk before it even gets off the ground.
  • My top-secret Husband Picker exercise. Previously reserved for private clients, I am sharing it with you for the first time here. This is the culmination of all of Love U and is a literal blueprint to pick the man you’re going to marry.

That’s a lot of stuff.

Love U is comprehensive

These videos answer every question you can possibly have on the road to lasting love.

While I’d love to teach you everything I know in less than six months, studies show new habits actually take a lot longer than the 21 days that Oprah may have mentioned.

In order to make sure the next guy you date is the last guy you date, the Love U process allows me to hold your hand every step of the way.

2 Love U is interactive.

It’s one thing to read a book or listen to an audio series. It’s quite another to LIVE the material.

And since Love U is about getting results, the curriculum has been designed to maximize DOING, not just watching and reading.

Every week you will download a new short exercise.

It may involve looking back on previous relationships, it may involve talking to a girlfriend, it may involve a new way to communicate.

But growth happens from taking action, and in Love U, I can guarantee you will be doing something different than you’ve ever done before.

  • 3 Love U is fun.

    Unlike a rigid university setting, the entire point of Love U is PLEASURE.

    There are no mid-terms. No final exams. No grades.

    In Love U, we are working on YOU.

    • Giving you the confidence to flirt and know that men will respond.
    • Helping you bring out the best in men wherever you go.
    • Teaching you how to make your partner do what you want with a few choice sentences.

    And while I do believe that it will be fun to watch the videos, do the exercises, and watch your understanding grow, you know what the real fun part is?

    When you see this stuff actually start to WORK.

    In the blink of an eye, all the theory becomes practice, and you will have a boyfriend who is built to last.

    A good relationship doesn’t feel like work. Neither does Love U.

    You will look forward to each and every module that lights your path to happiness.

  • 4 Love U is easy.

    Before creating Love U, I asked my readers:

    “Given that you invest 40 hours a week in working, how much time would you be willing to invest in finding love?” Here’s what you said:

    Love U poll stats

    I took all of that into consideration when building this program. Listen, I think it’s great that you’re willing to invest the time and energy to find a life partner.

    But you don’t need 5 hours a week looking at online videos to create love.

    You need simple, digestible lessons and you need to see results quickly.

    Which is why, instead of overloading you, I’m giving you only 30 minutes of Love U videos per week.

    I don’t care if you’re the busiest woman on the planet.

    You have 5 minutes a day to learn to love yourself and receive love in return.

5 Love U can be watched, read or listened to

Whatever your preferences, you can reap the benefits of Love U.

Every week, you will be given access to 10 short videos, but if you are not a visual learner, you can listen to the audio or read the transcripts.

I’ve created Love U based around your needs, and no matter what your learning style, you’ll have a seamless and stress-free experience.

Finally, while Love U is a six-month course, this material is available to you forever.

Once you’re a Love U member, you will have lifetime access to log in and get answers to all your dating and relationship questions.

6 Love U was created by a man.

Imagine a really nice guy who wanted to succeed with women:

Maybe he has no confidence, maybe he has no experience, maybe he doesn’t carry himself with masculine energy… All we know is that this nice guy is frustrated at his lack of success with women and he wants help.

Who would you recommend he talk to if he wants to understand women?

Seems kind of obvious, doesn’t it? Your nice guy would be far better off talking to you than to reach out to some man doing his best to guess how women think.

I have great respect for my female colleagues. They’re wonderfuland they’re making a huge difference in the world.

The one thing they are not is men.

And if you want to understand men, connect with men, and have a quality man devote his life to you, I think we can agree it makes more sense to ask a man.

7 Love U is a raw, honest, authentic, and unfiltered look at men.

Unfiltered Look At Men

Wouldn’t it be great if we could teach all of the men in the world to understand women? Sure it would! So what would men need to learn to do better?

  • They would develop more empathy for your feelings.
  • They would acknowledge your need to be heard.
  • They would honor your desire to be understood and respected.
  • They would act masculine and selfless.
  • They would be consistently affectionate and complimentary.

That’s a nice start, huh?

So if we can presume that the world would be a better place if men understood women, it’s safe to say your love life will improve when you understand men.

In order to cut through the half-truths and misinformation, I make a point in Love U to acknowledge BOTH sides of the story.

There’s how you think. There’s how he thinks. They’re not always going to line up.

Once you learn what good men are actually thinking in each and every dating situation, you will be able to make intelligent and informed choices in love.

Love U may not always tell you what you want to hear, but it tells you what you NEED to hear.

Only the truth can get you into the easy, healthy relationship you deserve.

Aarti is a perfect example. A smart, strong, successful woman in her early 40’s, Aarti hadn’t given up on her dream of falling in love and starting a family.

Within months of watching my videos for 5 minutes a day on the subway, she found herself an amazing, marriage-oriented man who treats her like his top priority.

"This past week he proposed to me!"

Aarti

I love Aarti and am so happy for her. She completely embodies my next observation about what makes my program so unique and valuable.

8 Love U is results-oriented.

You’ve dieted. You’ve healed your past. You’ve signed up for every coach’s mailing list and been drowned in a sea of good intentions.

  • But you still don’t know how to write a dating profile that attracts a husband.
  • You still don’t know how to be a confident first date that men find irresistible.
  • You still don’t know how to conduct a relationship discussion that makes your man want to please you.
  • You still don’t know how to assess whether a guy is a keeper or a waste of time in the first six weeks.

Only Love U teaches all of that.

I have created a system that covers every single thing you need to know about confidence, meeting men, dating, relationships, understanding men, and commitment.

These are best practices for what actually works on men.

When we’re done, you’ll not only have peace over the dating process, but you’ll also have the one thing that you should never be without: love.

Give me five minutes per day, and I will give you a husband.

9 Love U is affordable.

If you had cancer, you’d pay anything to make it go into remission.

If a loved one were dying, you’d pay anything to save her.

If you had debilitating depression, you’d pay anything to feel better.

I am not suggesting there is something debilitating about being single.

It’s far better to be single than to be in a miserable relationship, that’s for sure.

I’m presuming that you are more than comfortable being single.

I’m presuming that you have it all – friends, family, career, and passion for life.

In other words, you have everything… except for the guy.

So what if I told you that you could get the guy in the next few months?

How much would that be worth to you?

Before you answer, consider this eye-opening research on love and happiness.

According to David Brooks of the New York Times, “People vastly overvalue work, money, and real estate. They vastly undervalue intimate bonds… The deeper the relationships a person has, the happier he or she will be. People in long-term marriages are much happier than people who aren’t.”

Once again, I’m not suggesting you’re unhappily single or that you should pair up with any random man just to get a ring on your finger.

I’m stating that according to a different study at the University of Virginia, married people are TWICE as likely to call themselves “very happy” than single people – and “very happy” actually correlates to a monetary value.

Economists David Blanchflower and Andrew Oswald surveyed 100,000 Americans and Britons and concluded that marriage was worth $100,000 annually.

And you’re not just gaining $100,000 in happiness THIS year.

You’re gaining $100,000 of happiness EVERY year you’re together.

Stay married for the next 35 years and you’re looking at $3,500,000 worth of happiness just by choosing the right partner.

I know, three and a half million seems like a ridiculous amount. But there’s a reason you’ve heard “you can’t put a price on happiness.”

What would it be worth to have a man who supported you, believed in you, and loved you for the rest of your life?

What I’m offering you is the ability to rewrite your future. The ability to find peace and happiness.

The ability to create the lasting love that has so far eluded you.

It’s the most comprehensive look at dating, relationships and commitment that I – or anyone else – has ever created.

You will receive the same information I share with my private clients, but instead of trying to cram everything into 12 weeks on the phone, you can access an easy to use system that will be available to you for the rest of your life.

Remember, you’re getting:

  • 26 weeks of videos to help you understand men and find love.
  • 26 weekly exercises that will put your knowledge into practice.
  • 26 weeks of audios so you can listen to the material on the go.
  • 26 weeks of transcripts if you prefer reading.

That’s 6 months of me holding your hand, using my one-of-a-kind program developed from helping thousands of other women like you find love.

In the past, my private coaching clients received no videos. No exercises. No structure. Just a series of once-a-week phone calls to discuss their various dating dilemmas.

Previously, that would have cost you $12,000 for six months. This isn’t a made up number. This is what women invest to work one-on-one with me.

Today, I’m offering you something better – and it’s not going to cost you $12,000.

And you won’t even have to invest the $1997 this cost when I first launched the Love U Inner Circle.

Because my goal is to make this same great material accessible to the world and literally help 1 million women find love, you can join Love U today for only:

$133/month for 6 months!

Yes, I’m Ready to Understand Men and Find Love

Love U is everything I know.

That’s right, I’m giving you ALL the information I’ve got to help you understand men and find love, and I have made peace with the idea that I will potentially never have you as a customer again.

My goal isn’t to keep you hooked on my products.

My goal is to get you into an easy, happy, lifetime relationship.

And all you need to invest is $133/month for 6 months for lifetime access to Love U.

What you get in Love U is not merely a husband, but rather, the ability to create and manage healthy relationships for the rest of your life.

As a Love U graduate, your confidence will be so high that you will be able to turn all of your relationships into EASY ones.

Yes, I’m Ready to Understand Men and Find Love

Sue Q.

"I Have Met the Man of My Dreams"

Evan taught me that I was the prize to be sought after! Now we are almost at 6 months and already talking of a future together.

Sue Q.
Julie M.

"I'm with the sweetest most caring man I could ever dream up in my head."

He calls me his soul mate and talks about a future with me. I'm blown away by him and I couldn't have had this insight about myself without your help. Life is F%^*ing AMAZING. Life is a miracle. Thank god for you, Evan.

Julie M.

Every time we are together I think to myself, "This is what a good relationship is SUPPOSED to feel like."

I want to thank you for the rock solid advice I've received from you. I'm currently in a great relationship with the kind of man I have been hoping to find and I couldn't be happier. Thanks again for helping me have the change in perspective that led to this.

Virginia P.
Cristina S.

"For the first time in my life, I don’t go to bed wondering if I am loved. I am no longer afraid. The future looks great."

Something about your advice, from a male perspective, telling me I deserved more, made me feel special. Now, I am part of a big Brady Bunch family!

Cristina S.
Olga S.

"Evan’s advice worked like magic! I am engaged to the love of my life and I am happy."

Through Evan’s calls and guidance, I realized that dating is about making better choices. In six months with Evan, I have learned so much about boundaries, patience, and accountability in dating. I am now engaged to the love of my life!

Olga S.

"He is my everything, my once in a lifetime love. This is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, and it is all thanks to you!"

"You're the best dating coach out there and I would refer every woman that struggles with her dating and love life to you."

Laureen A.

"He is a better man than even I could have dreamed up."

Evan, I know that I could not have gotten here without your invaluable advice. The passion and caring that you put into your clients, the coaching calls, and your writing is incredible and I am so thankful that I found you. You have made an immense impact on my life.

Tiffany S.
Linda S.

"He says he has never met anyone like me before."

I'm getting married next week. My guy teases me on how I "took the course" on how to meet a guy and keep him interested. He should only really know how much work that took and all the things I learned from you. So glad I found you.

Linda S.
Shelagh M.

"It's not that I don't think I wouldn't have found love and marriage eventually but I do know that I would not have found it as quickly nor as painlessly without Evan’s help."

It's not that I don't think I wouldn't have found love and marriage eventually but I do know that I would not have found it as quickly nor as painlessly without Evan’s help.  And who wants to wait to be happy?? 

Shelagh M.

"I feel secure, loved, adored, and yes, the sex is indeed great!"

I NEVER have to wonder how he feels or if he is committed to me because he expresses that commitment in words and deeds every single day.

Karrie F.

"Ladies, never give up hope. There are good men out there."

Take the time to learn and understand the knowledge Evan is presenting here, and I believe you, too, will find the man who will love you forever.

Lynn V.
Julie Z.

We're engaged!

Evan taught me a LOT of love lessons in a short period of time without having to experience them. It was like having a direct line to a man's "private talk."

Julie Z.
Tina P.

"Evan answered my question on one of the calls and it was the best coaching ever."

I’ve chosen to be cherished and allow myself to know that I was worthy of love.  Now, I feel like when I go with the flow and stop trying to control any given situation, things fall into place. It’s so exhilarating!  

Tina P.
Marisa C.

"We have seen each other every day since our first date and it has been incredible."

Within a few months I met the most amazing man. We are together now about a year and talking about moving in together.

Marisa C.

"I am now a wife and stepmom!"

I have truly married the nicest man in the world! My family and friends love him and he is wonderful to all of them. All I can say is that there are wonderful people are out there! I thank you for your coaching.

Shawn O.
Christine D

"This week, I got a proposal and a beautiful ring - we'll get married later next year."

It gets better and better. Dave is already talking about buying our perfect house so we can spend our lives together. I now feel 'Safe, happy and secure'… which was exactly what I wrote I was looking for in my online profile well over 5 years ago!

Christine D
Patience A.

"Taking your group class was the best $ I ever spent!!"

Valentino and I are getting married on December 11th in Switzerland.

Patience A.

"He told me how absurdly easy our relationship has been and, as we held each other close, we had our first tentative conversation about our long-term future."

When I see him puttering around, making coffee for me or doing the laundry, I am struck by how truly beautiful he is and how lucky I am to have him in my life.

Chris L.

But that’s not all: as part of this special last chance offer for Love U, I’m also going to offer you 4 more compelling reasons to join me today.

LOVE U BONUS #1

5 FOCUS Coaching Calls

5 FOCUS Coaching Calls

For years, I ran a program called FOCUS Coaching, where every month, I hosted a group of 250 women to a live lecture and Q&A on different subjects. Now, for the first time ever, I’m giving you access to five of my top FOCUS Coaching calls.

  1. Moving On
  2. Unmet Expectations
  3. Men and Money
  4. How to Make Him Fall in Love With You
  5. What Men Want

That’s $235 worth of coaching to help you get over the last guy, manage the new guy, and be the kind of partner that every man falls for.

You get all five calls absolutely free when you join Love U today. (Value $235)

LOVE U BONUS #2

(Video) “Too Much of a Good Thing: Why Your Work Strengths Are Your Relationship Weaknesses.”

This is the name of an 80-minute speech I delivered at Marni Battista’s Ignite Your Life event a few years ago and it remains my favorite speech of all time.

In this video, you will learn why the dating pool is smaller for smart, strong, successful women, why chemistry hasn’t led you into lasting love, as well as the two best predictors of a happy marriage.

This video has not been posted anywhere on the Internet before – and you can see it seconds from now when you enroll in Love U now. (Value $97)

Too Much of a Good Thing: Why Your Work Strengths Are Your Relationship Weaknesses.

LOVE U BONUS #3

My Bestselling Book, “Why He Disappeared”

Why He Disappeared

Tens of thousands of women have had their lives turned around by my most popular book, “Why He Disappeared – the Smart, Strong, Successful Woman’s Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever.”

Soon, you’ll understand why some men don’t want to date you, why others will sleep with you without committing, and why your boyfriend doesn’t want to be your husband.

More importantly, you’ll learn to turn around decades of bad relationship choices and let go of the pain in your past.

If you’re sick of being heartbroken and are ready to finally attract the man of your dreams, “Why He Disappeared” is a godsend. And it’s yours, for free, if you act now. (Value $27)

LOVE U BONUS #4

(Video) “Why the Men You Want Aren’t Chasing After You.”

A really fun hour-long interview with love expert Kavita J. Patel. Four minutes into the call, I reveal something personal that I usually don’t talk about publicly. I guess certain interviewers just bring that side out of me.

During the duration of the call, we will also get into these juicy topics:

  • Why women are typically attracted to the men that never want to commit.
  • The truth of whether instant chemistry is a sign of long term compatibility or it’s actually fooling you.
  • The reason we often feel uninspired by the men that are good for us.

Honestly, you don’t want to miss this, if only to get to the love challenge from me at the end of the call. (Value $47)

2 Marathon Coaching Sessions

To Recap, Love U Includes:

  • 26 weeks of short videos to help you understand men and find love (Value: $5,000)
  • 26 weekly exercises to reinforce the concepts you learn (Value: $1,000)
  • Bonus #1 – 5 FOCUS Coaching Calls (Value: $235)
  • Bonus #2 – (Video) “Too Much of a Good Thing: Why Your Work Strengths Are Your Relationship Weaknesses.” (Value: $97)
  • Bonus #3 – My Bestselling eBook, “Why He Disappeared” (Value: $27)
  • Bonus #4 – (Video) “Why the Men You Want Aren’t Chasing After You.” w/ Kavita Patel.” (Value: $47)
  • Lifetime access to Love U, where you can learn everything you need to know to meet and marry a quality man. (priceless)

Total Value: Over $6,000!

(Yours right now for only $133/mo. for 6 months!)

First of all, even though I have faith in all this content and all these free bonuses, designed to ensure that you graduate Love U with a devoted boyfriend…

…if you are still not convinced that Love U is an accurate look inside the male mind and hasn’t brought you greater success…

…just let me know within the first 30 days of the course and I’ll quickly and courteously give you 100% of your money back.

That’s right.

100satisfactionI’m so confident Love U will get you the results you desire, I’m giving you the chance to test drive the material for a full 30 days. That is the entire Confidence module – a full 1/6th of the course. Now, if you watch the videos and do the exercises but don’t feel you’ve learned anything valuable, then I really don’t deserve your money.

To be eligible for a refund, simply send me an email showing me you’ve worked on all the exercises and the reasons you feel Love U hasn’t helped you, and I’ll happily refund you 100% of your tuition.

You don’t even have to give back the bonuses. They’re yours to keep just for giving Love U a fair shot.

But I’m not too worried about that.

I’m positive that this limited-time offer is going to be one of the best long-term investments you’ve ever made.

"I would love my single friends to take the course. I can't give them the totality of the experience!"

Yvette

Investing in Love U is like investing in a safe mutual fund at a young age and watching your compound interest grow exponentially over time.

A few dollars a day now may well mean three and a half million dollars when you’re older.

At the beginning of the call, you learned that the biggest issue you have is that you don’t know what to do differently to get better results in love.

And if you don’t know what to do differently, love will continue to feel like a waste of time.

By enrolling in Love U now, you’re investing in a GPS for your love life, a guided system that prevents you from making any wrong turns and plots out a direct path to choosing the right partner.

In essence, Love U helps you create your own unique roadmap to meeting a man who makes you happy every single day.

That’s what good men do.

The way I see it, your success is my success. Your happiness is my happiness.

Soon you’ll understand everything there is to know about the opposite sex, so that you can create the love life you deserve – without further coaching!

My job is not to keep you as a client. My job is to get you results fast– and show you how to make healthy decisions on your own for the rest of your life.

Valerie is a perfect example of a woman who embraced this coaching, found a boyfriend, and is nearly evangelical about her transformation.

"Love U helps you connect the dots on all the different aspects of dating!"

Valerie

I appreciate Valerie’s enthusiasm, and believe me, you’ll be just as enthusiastic when you quickly find a great guy just like she did.

So, the real question isn’t whether you can afford to register for Love U right now; it’s whether you can afford NOT to register.

How much longer do you want to remain alone?

How many more years do you want to toil fruitlessly online, sifting through undesirable men?

What would it be worth for you to finally get happy?

I know other coaches who charge $20,000 for their big programs.

I have matchmaker friends who charge $60,000 for 10 blind dates.

You’re going to graduate Love U with a priceless education and a devoted boyfriend for only $4 a day.

You now have two choices on what to do next.

Choice 1: Try to go at it alone

Take the useful information I slowly dole out to you on my blog and newsletters. Combine that with the other dating sites, coaches, and friends advice you constantly have to wade through, and try to apply all the seemingly conflicting information to your situation.

And who knows?

You may get lucky and win the husband lottery.

Then again, you can take…

Choice 2: the quickest, easiest, and smartest way to get the love you deserve.

See, I’ve already done the work for you.

I’ve already gone on 300 dates, written 1000 blog posts, and coached thousands of women of all ages into happy relationships since 2003.

You don’t need any more failure.

You don’t need any more trial and error.

You don’t need to do the same thing over and over again that has led you to this point.

Love U is a tried and true blueprint that will get you the relationship you want.

Yes, I’m Ready to Understand Men and Find Love

  • Module 1 – Confidence

    • Past Baggage
    • Why Bother Syndrome
    • Confidence
    • Take Action
  • Module 2 – Meeting Men

    • Meeting men
    • Flirting
    • Online dating
    • First dates
    • Courtship
  • Module 3 – Dating

    • Staying cool
    • Sex
    • Being selective
    • Becoming exclusive
  • Module 4 – Understanding Men

    • Boyfriend material
    • Feminine energy
    • Alpha males vs. beta males
    • Understanding men
    • Chemistry
  • Module 5 – Relationships

    • How to talk with men
    • Should I stay or should I go?
    • Jealousy and cheating
    • Compatibility
  • Module 6 – Commitment

    • Being a great girlfriend
    • Breaking up
    • Commitment
    • Wants vs. needs

Imagine what it will feel like to be free of anxiety and fear.

To feel safe, heard and understood.

To feel supported, loved, and cherished.

To have tender loving care and wild passionate sex.

To have a man stand by your side, in sickness and in health, ‘til death do you part.

That is what you will get when you join me today.

Just listen to your heart and act decisively.

Give me five minutes a day, and I will give you a husband.

Love U is only $133/month for the next six months

While Love U students normally get 26 weeks of video coaching and 26 weeks of exercises, if you enroll right now in this special last chance offer, you will get access to all four launch bonuses for no additional cost.

That’s $400 in value absolutely free, with a 30-day, full-money-back guarantee that allows you to keep all four of your bonuses even if you ask for a refund. My promise is that you will emerge from this course with confidence, wisdom, peace of mind and the ability to choose your future husband.

By the time you graduate, you’ll not only have the equivalent of a Bachelors Degree in Men, but you’ll probably be qualified to be a dating coach yourself!

Ask yourself if you want to be in this exact same position next year or if you want to change your life forever, starting right now.

Just listen to your heart and act boldly and decisively.

As much as I’d like to, I can’t put a price on love.

feel love and cherished

I can’t say what it’s worth to you, nor can I tell you what it costs you to do nothing.

All I know is that I have helped thousands of women like you find love, get married, and start families, with only a few months of coaching.

There is no other program, no other system, and, frankly, no other coach in the entire world who has put together such a comprehensive, interactive, affordable program that will rock your world, and change the course of your entire life.

Join me in Love U and I promise:

You will never spend even one second too long with the wrong man, and you will easily be able to meet and keep the right man.

There will be no more drama and no more worry.

Your man will make you happy over and over and over again for the rest of your life.

This is your time.

Yes, I’m Ready to Understand Men and Find Love

And if you are STILL unsure about whether Love U is going to work for you, click here to read my Love U FAQ.
It answers over 30 of the most frequently asked questions about Love U and will give you the peace of mind necessary to make this investment in your own happiness.

Feel free to keep reading and watching if you want to see a few more success stories from women like you – women who’d spent their entire lives doubting whether happiness was even possible, and now are in easy, happy, inspiring relationships.

I hope you find them as inspirational as I do and that you see that there is a direct correlation between joining Love U and getting happy.

"Once I made this shift I was able to select from a great pool of guys... including one fantastic guy I'm still dating!"

Teresa

"Dating has become so fun now! I enjoy it so much and it really adds value to my life."

Jasmine

"Love U is extremely far reaching and you will not be disappointed at all if you join!"

Deborah

"I'm now willing to seek out love and do it with authenticity, which has been a real game changer for me."

Cheryl

"To get a male perspective is invaluable and I'm so glad for this experience!"

Nancy

Yes, I’m Ready to Understand Men and Find Love

"I feel secure, loved, adored, and yes, the sex is indeed great!"

I was a divorced woman in her late forties and I had been looking for love for a decade! I used all possible tools such as online dating and asking friends to set me up. I read books about dating and finding love. I did affirmations, meditations, self-hypnosis, and well, you get the picture. I really tried! I dated every possible person and every possible type within reason, and sometimes, totally outside of reason.

Young, old, you name it-if they were "high quality" men, I dated them, but I could not find love. I am an ex-model, highly educated, successful in my career, feminine, loving, and giving, with a great sense of humor and a lot of passion for life. I attracted men by the truckload but nothing would stick, and I couldn't figure it out. I asked everyone in my life to please tell me what was wrong with me. All the women had the same stock answer:"Men are intimidated by you." I bought into that thinking, even though I am very feminine and understated, and I let it depress me for, oh, about a decade. But I still tried! Yet after ten years of effort, I never felt loved and I was exhausted. I had men with whom I had a lot in common take me out on fabulous evenings on the town and even to European capitals for amazing weekends, but no one wanted to be in a real relationship with me.

Then, I heard you say something that totally rocked my world. Someone asked him why she only attracted noncommittal men, and in his no-nonsense way, he said, "You don't ATTRACT those men. You ACCEPT those men."

ROCKETS SHOT INTO THE AIR!!! That was me. While I said that I was looking for love, I accepted the attention of every noncommittal man who came my way. I didn't weed them out immediately, which is what Evan tells us to do. No, I dated them time and again, wondering why they "didn't come forward" and enter into commitment with me.

As soon as I heard you say that, I made a commitment to change MY habits. I turned down all the "exciting" and "glamorous" men who came my way. I said NO to weekends in Berlin, dinners at extravagant restaurants, etc. from the same old tired guys who "wanted an interesting woman" in their lives but loved being single. After two months of practicing being the new me, I met Anthony, and we really hit it off as friends. Though he fit NONE of my criteria of being very tall and handsome, in a fabulous career, or living in the same city as me, as I watched him in his life, I realized that here was the kind of man Evan keeps advising us to consider-stable, loving, responsible, men who want most of all to make us happy! We came clean with our feelings after two months of friendship, and we have been in an ecstatic relationship for one year now. I NEVER have to wonder how he feels or if he is committed to me because he expresses that commitment in words and deeds every single day. He has added so much to my life. I feel secure, loved, adored-and yes, for all the women who wonder if he is "exciting" enough, the sex is indeed great. Our daily shared passion for life and for each other is more than I ever imagined possible with a man.

So thank you, Evan, for so much great advice but especially for that one sentence that made me realize that it was within my power the whole time.

Karrie F.

"I'm with the sweetest most caring man I could ever dream up in my head."

Julie M.

Thank god for you, Evan.

I used to be attracted to emotionally unavailable guys who treated me like crap. Which seems beyond insane to me at the moment, but apparently it's pretty common. As time went by, my boyfriends got just a little bit nicer and a little bit more available, but never worked out. I wanted a man who would care for me and share his life with me but I didn't believe deep down that I deserved that.

I made it my life's mission to find my soulmate and after each devastating break-up, I got more and more hopeless. I didn't know what was missing and I didn’t know how men operated.

Simple things like phone calls and attention were things I desired but weren't getting from my boyfriend at the time. You empowered me to believe that I deserved what I most desired in life. You told me that my desires were not irrational, that I deserved exactly what I wanted. Something about hearing this from a male dating expert, someone who has seen it all, led me to believe that I was NOT asking for too much.

Anyway, now I'm with the sweetest most caring man I could ever dream up in my head. He's sensitive, he's real, he shares his inner thoughts, fears, and love with me. He wants to see me all the time and he makes me feel like the most beautiful and special woman he's ever been with. He calls me his soul mate and talks about a future with me. I'm blown away by him and I couldn't have had this insight about myself without your help.

Life is F%^*ing AMAZING. Life is a miracle. Thank you Evan.

Julie M.

Every time we are together I think to myself, "This is what a good relationship is SUPPOSED to feel like."

I want to thank you for the rock solid advice I've received from you. I'm currently in a great relationship with the kind of man I have been hoping to find and I couldn't be happier. Your videos made all the sense in the world to me yet I was surprised at the positive response I’ve gotten from men. The irony is, I dated a few really nice guys that I couldn't see myself with in the long run, but the experience gave me added confidence that yes, I was desirable, even to successful men.

I am just now going back to school to compete my BS after dropping out almost ten years ago to work full-time. Until now, I had let myself believe that financially successful men would not consider me, due to my lack of worldly accomplishments. After watching one of your videos about what successful men want in a woman and getting positive feedback from a couple, my mind turned to someone I had met a couple years ago that I turned down, even though we were reeeeally compatible aside from the fact that he had a successful business and I didn't feel "chemistry". Well, I contacted him and luckily for me he was single. We started seeing each other and the more I know and appreciate him, the more "chemistry" I feel. Every time we are together I think to myself, "this is what a good relationship is SUPPOSED to feel like." Thanks again for helping me have the change in perspective that led to this.

Virginia P.

"For the first time in my life, I don’t go to bed wondering if I am loved. I am no longer afraid. The future looks great."

Cristina S.

I was in a difficult marriage for ten years before I finally found the courage to leave. By the time I found you, I was a single mum, trying to get by with my four young sons. My self-esteem was depleted and I was just grateful for any man that was interested in me. As a result, I ended up in many horrible situations that only left me feeling worse. There is a lot of advice by women, but something about reading your advice, from a male perspective, telling me that I deserved more, made me feel really special. It was soothing and comforting; it felt warmly paternal and so sweet. I walked away from dating and decided to work on myself for a while. About a year later, I was at the gas station one day, when a nice single dad offered to help me with an oil change. It was a funny situation because he only has one arm, and we were both very awkward- and being watched with much amusement by my four sons, and his two daughters from our respective cars.

Some months later, we are now all living happily together, one big Brady Bunch family, and for the first time in my life, I don’t go to bed wondering if I am loved. I am no longer afraid. The future looks great.

Thank you for all your words.

Cristina S.

"Evan’s advice worked like magic! I am engaged to the love of my life and I am happy."

Olga S.

Before I joined Evan, I felt lost in the dating process. I wasn’t sure what exactly I was doing wrong, but I knew I needed a change. I had this feeling that dating was a game of chance - being in the right time at the right place, etc.

But though Evan’s calls, guidance, and peer-support, I realized that dating is about experience and making better choices. Chance plays a role too, but I have significantly improved my chances by practicing and becoming more effective. In six months with Evan, I have learned so much about boundaries, mirroring, flirting, patience, and accountability in dating.

Perhaps the most important lesson I have learned is to accept some uncertainty instead of trying to figure out the future at the beginning. I needed to stop overthinking and start paying attention to the actions of men around me.

Evan’s advice worked like magic! I am engaged to the love of my life and I am happy! That's what good relationships do for us.

Olga S.

"He says he has never met anyone like me before."

Linda S.

I'm getting married next week. My guy teases me on how I "took the course" on how to meet a guy and keep him interested. He should only really know how much work that took and all the things I learned from you. He told me he was captivated by how real and open I was on our first meet. How I really listened, opened up about myself and the clincher, reaching over and touching his arm to make a point. He says he has never met anyone like me before. Could it be because we communicate so well and I NEVER make him wrong?

Thanks again Evan. I know I owe a lot of this to you. At 67, I never lost hope and kept a positive attitude. Guys I dropped still try to contact me. LOL. I am taken.

Take care and be well. You help a lot of people find love, which is no simple task. So glad I found you.

Linda S.

"He is a better man than even I could have dreamed up."

You have completely changed my worldview and my behavior when it comes to men, dating and relationships. I had tried online dating prior to finding your site and had a bunch of first dates and a handful of 3-5 month "relationships." The lessons you taught me helped me be a more successful dater and, even more importantly, helped changed my perspective about the dating process. I learned that "no man is real until he's your boyfriend" and "men do what they want." Whereas I used to take it personally and really feel the sting of rejection when a guy I had been e-mailing with or went on a first date with didn't contact me again, you taught me that this is just part of the dating process and any number of factors could have contributed to his not continuing the conversation, it didn't mean that I was a bad person, boring or unattractive (like I used to think).

I'm happy to say that after putting your principles into practice and changing my mindset, a little over a year ago, I met an amazing man through an online dating site. We enjoyed our time with each other from the beginning, but I kept reminding myself to lean back, have fun, and let things progress in a natural course so that I didn't rush things like I had in the past. Now we are deeply in love and planning our future together. I always thought that I would have to settle for someone less than what I wanted or be alone. But he is a better man than even I could have dreamed up, and even though on paper he isn't exactly what I envisioned as my "perfect" man - he's divorced with 3 children - he is the kindest, most thoughtful, and attentive man I've ever dated. He truly loves me for me, accepts me just as I am and tells me and shows me so on a regular basis. And I feel exactly the same way about him!

Evan, I know that I could not have gotten here without your invaluable advice. The passion and caring that you put into your clients, the coaching calls, and your writing is incredible and I am so thankful that I found you. You have made an immense impact on my life.

Tiffany S.

"I am now a wife and stepmom!"

I have truly married the nicest man in the world! There was never drama. My family and friends love him and he is wonderful to all of them. Unfortunately, my dad passed away last year - but watching the two of them was hysterical. My dad was a retired Army major. I often refer to him as "The Major'. When Brad first met him, he shook his hand and said, 'Major', to which my dad replied "Well, if we're using titles, Doctor'. That's what they called one another from then on. Brad was incredible when my Dad got sick - helping us understand what was going on and supporting us through it.

I am now a wife and stepmom. We have 2 boys, 16 and 15, and a special needs daughter age 12. I also have wonderful in-laws.

All I can say is that there are wonderful people are out there! Keep encouraging woman to be open to all avenues. I thank you for your coaching.

All the best,

Shawn O.

"It's not that I don't think I wouldn't have found love and marriage eventually but I do know that I would not have found it as quickly nor as painlessly without Evan’s help."

Shelagh M.

Two and a half years ago I was frustrated, sad and a little hopeless. I had had yet another man leave me suddenly and I was so confused. I knew I hadn't done anything to warrant his departure and yet I could not deny that the only common denominator in all my failed relationships was me! I had started to read Evan's blog and everything he said resonated: I really believed there were good men out there - after all many of my friends had met and married good men- and I had finally come to accept that the only thing I could change was me. So I signed up for private coaching and promised myself that I would do whatever Evan suggested even those things I knew I would want to resist.

Evan helped me with my profile, recommended a photographer and I started to date using his advice. Within a month I met Dale. Now, in hindsight I can see something which was not obvious to me then: when I met a man who was really open to a relationship, and who I might like, I wanted to run - made excuses as to why he wasn't right or talked myself into moving onto a less available man.  And of course this was true of Dale too. In this case though I had Evan - who encouraged me to start paying attention to how he treats me. Never before have I received better advice! To make a long story short, Dale and I are now married. I love him and am so happy and excited to start a new life and family together.

It's not that I don't think I wouldn't have found love and marriage eventually but I do know that I would not have found it as quickly nor as painlessly without Evan’s help.  And who wants to wait to be happy??  Evan, thank you for everything!

Your ever grateful client,

Shelagh M.

Yes, I’m Ready to Understand Men and Find Love

"Ladies, never give up hope. There are good men out there."

It all paid off in the end – I have found a wonderful man!

Ladies, never give up hope. There are good men out there. Evan’s advice and materials gave me the tools I needed to find him online, interact successfully with him online, move him off to personal emails, then meet up, and finally, become mutually exclusive with him in a serious committed, loving relationship. It is all so worth the time and effort I put into learning and understanding Evan’s materials and words of advice. Evan is spot on with his knowledge and tools. They helped lead me to an amazing man.

Goodbye, good luck, take the time to learn and understand the knowledge Evan is presenting here, and I believe you too, will find the man who will love you forever.

Lynn V.

We're engaged!

Julie Z.

I was a 55-year old never married woman when I engaged the services of Evan Marc Katz. I had little experience in love having yearned 18 years for someone not destined for me. I'd ecently made the decision to move on and online date. Though I grew up in a family of males, I knew nothing about dating. As a result I'd had one painful online breakup prior to working with Evan and another one in the works when I signed up for Evan's Inner Circle.

Evan taught me a LOT of love "lessons" in a short period of time without having to experience them for myself. Listening to how he used the trainwrecks of otherwise smart successful women to provide teachable moments for us all was invaluable. He has an ability to sift through suffering and get at the heart of a situation quickly. On behalf of all GREAT women, Evan doesn't tolerate bad behavior coming from men. Not only is he gifted at pointing it out but also excellent at getting women to see that one extra moment focused on "Not The One" was a lost moment in the search for love.

The work Evan and I did together as I navigated the victories and defeats of my-then-current "relationship" was invaluable. Every possible truth about men and dating reared it's ugly head and Evan was right there to "set the record straight." He was gentle, tough, hugely insightful and extremely accurate at decoding a man's words, his actions, his lack of action, his likely intention. It was like having a direct line to a man's "private talk."

But mostly I learned about me. I learned how to give the right men a second chance and bypass the wrong men quickly. I learned how to sit comfortably and uncomfortably in my own confidence and allow a man to choose me while women swirled all around him. I learned to love a man for what he has to give and to give up years of finely honed "expectations" which had been driving me into the online ditch I learned to distrust my feelings when they came from a place of anxiety, unprocessed chemical desire, or panic. I learned to judge a man by his effort and in the end his kindness and humor.

And now after 3,838 views on Match, I have attracted in -- my guy -- we both can't believe how lucky we got that our time together is now. We're engaged! I've done a lot of work to get to this place -- beyond Evan -- but Evan was able to take the raw ingredients and pull together a game plan and a way forward that was smart and organic and after that, all I had to do was keep showing up.

Julie Z.

"Evan answered my question on one of the calls and it was the best coaching ever."

Tina P.

Before I began FOCUS coaching I was feeling very alone in the dating process.  I knew what I was doing wasn’t working.  I was treating going on dates as if it were a business meeting and thought men should like me just because I am this strong, powerful, and successful woman.  On some level I knew that I lacked being feminine, intimate, sexy, and easygoing.  I was under the wrong impression thinking those qualities made me look weak.  Boy, was I wrong!!

I wanted to understand how other women were getting all the online dates and I was not. I wanted to understand how I could be different in my online profile, and with initial phone conversations.  I wondered what 40+ year-old men thought about and who better to hear it from but a male dating coach!

Evan answered a question of mine on one of the monthly calls and it was the best coaching ever.  I changed my thinking and behaviors towards men and began to realize they were just as scared sometimes as I was on the initial date.  I’ve chosen to be cherished and allow myself to know that I was worthy of love.  Now, I feel like when I go with the flow and stop trying to control any given situation, things fall into place. It’s so exhilarating!

I met my boyfriend of 7 months ago.  Each day I get to know more and more about myself and learn who I need to be in this relationship. I knew that he was an awesome man through his actions.  I was never left guessing or needing information.  He was expressive in his communication and let me know he liked me as soon as the first date was over. I felt amazing.  When I let go of my old beliefs about who I thought I was and or how I thought I was being perceived, life changed for me.  It was not only the different, risky and uncomfortable actions that I took but the person I embraced and knew myself to be; a beautiful, sensual, tender loving woman.

Tina P.

"We have seen each other every day since our first date and it has been incredible."

Marisa C.

When I first received your emails I was in such a bad place. I was so discouraged with online dating I must have went on hundreds of terrible dates. I was attracting all the wrong type of men. I felt I needed help with attracting the right type of person and have more fun on my dates. I was at a point where I dreaded going on them. It was a big joke at my office. When I started listening to Evan, I started to understand I needed to make some changes. I revamped my online page and really started to pay attention to the profiles I was reading instead of a picture that never really looked like the person I met.

The results I saw were amazing. I started really meeting nice people on my dates. Within a few months I met the most amazing man. We are together now about a year and talking about moving in together. We see each other everyday since our first date and it has been incredible.

Marisa C.

"He is my everything, my once in a lifetime love. This is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, and it is all thanks to you!"

I gave up, gave up on men, gave up on dating, gave up on love and gave up the dream of being happy with my Prince Charming. After all the tears, heartbreak, and lies, I couldn't bear the thought of giving my trust and love to someone who would then again throw it back in my face, or someone who would first devour me then spit me out. But also I couldn't bear the thought of being lonely the rest of my life. So I started searching for some advice, and I ran across Evan's website. He really changed the way I see dating, men and love!

I had the need to meet Mr. Right so I continued dating, even again after all the lies, all the drama, all the hurt, tears and guys that weren't that into me! Until finally I met someone, I met Mr. Right. From the moment I saw him I was so deeply in love, nothing can explain. There was no chemistry at first, but the thing that made me clicked was the fact I could be completely myself, I was comfortable. Some of the first advice I followed was to mirror. He followed up literally every day, he would take me out on a date every night and all I had to do is say yes, and before I knew it, he asked me to be his girlfriend.

A thing I usually also did previously is judge by age, I would never date a guy that's 5 years older than me, but he is almost 12 years older than me. We have now recently been together 10 months, he asked me to move in with him about 6 months ago, and we are still in love. He invests in my feelings and needs, and so I do in return for him, I'm his first priority, and so he's my first priority. He makes my unconditionally happy, I cant think of a day he didn't make me laugh, even when we had a fight he would do something really silly and I would just start laughing uncontrollably. Yes we have fights, but that is rarely. This is the longest commited relationship I've ever had. He talks about a future, marriage and kids with me, although recently having children is a subject he can't seem to leave, which sparks more interest from my side. He's wonderful, he has a lot of love to give. I found my compatible other half. We agree almost on everything, although I like him to take the lead, as I trust him. Something I also learned from Evan. We have realistic expectations, healthy communication and we are sensitive to each others needs. He takes care of me, loves me for who I am, exepts me, invests in my feelings, makes me happy, he puts me first as a priority and I would do anything for him in return. He is my everything, and my once in a lifetime love, this is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, and I just know we are going to have an amazing future together, and it is all thanks to you!

You changed the way I think, the way I see dating, love and men. Thank you Evan for being such an amazing source of advice. You're the best dating coach out there and I would refer every woman that struggles with her dating and love life to you.

Thank you Evan for changing my life!‎

Laureen A.

"This week, I got a proposal and a beautiful ring - we'll get married later next year."

Christine D

"A few years ago, when I was first introduced to Evan, I was feeling increasingly frustrated with my dating life. After divorcing an emotionally unavailable man after 23 years of marriage I had two difficult, long term relationships with men who were not stepping up and I had gotten used to being treated badly.

I'd had some difficult family situations to deal with as a single mother of three twenty somethings and Evan provided me with my first 'Aha' moment which was when he told me 'You've been a great mother to your children, and a good daughter to your elderly mother but who's been there for you Christine?' This actually made me cry - I had been the 'go to' person for my children and the men I was dating were narcissists who had me hooked but were not good men.

I needed to understand that I deserved more than this, that there were some good men out there and although it wasn't going to be easy to find them, I believed with the new tools I had learned I could do this.

I learned a lot and made some good friends through Evan’s community, and that by changing my ways and gaining the support of Evan and other women in the same situation that I could get better and better. The most important thing I learned was that I didn't actually want or need the type of man I thought I wanted. That my type was not in fact my type!

Soon, I was able to make dating fun and behave like the woman I wanted to be. I became the CEO in charge of my own life, and not subject to the whims of men. Although I had dated lots of nice men online, there was one man I had met in 'real life', who was there in the background. I'd placed him firmly in the 'just friends' box, but once I took a long, hard look at what I really wanted in a man to move forward to a healthy and satisfying relationship I realized he was all of these things. Actually it was Evan who pointed this out and simply said 'Date him!'

This week, I got a proposal and a beautiful ring - we'll get married later next year. I wanted you to be the first to know. By the way, my daughter Kate also turned her life around, thanks to you. Ditched the guy who could never step up, found a wonderful new man from LA, moved from NYC to move in with and is getting married in 2017, on a private estate in Malibu.

I now feel 'Safe, happy and secure'… which was exactly what I wrote I was looking for in my online profile well when I first met you 8 years ago!"

Christine D

"He told me how absurdly easy our relationship has been and, as we held each other close, we had our first tentative conversation about our long-term future."

After my divorce, I decided to start dating again and joined Match.com. I had been married for 18 years and was understandably nervous, but inexplicably excited. Turns out, I'm good at first dates. I can small talk and flirt with ease, especially with someone for whom I have neutral feelings.

Then I met someone I really liked! Although not my "type". He was short, 12 years older, and er, um.... bald. But immediately I saw his kind heart and I became smitten. And of course, I managed to screw it all up! I slept with him on the second date. And immediately afterwards, I suggested plans for us over the next few weeks. And suddenly my new sweet fella was a little standoffish.

So I purchased "Why He Disappeared" and I searched your blog endlessly. I realized I made mistakes. So I gave my guy the distance he was silently asking for and I started making connections again on the dating site. I didn't even go on a date with any of them, but immediately felt better and more confident. I knew that I had options should things not work out with the man I was dating.

My new found confidence must have been noticed, because after a brief period of quiet, he started asking me on dates again. And we kept going. Last week, we celebrated the anniversary of our first date. He told me how absurdly easy our relationship has been and in soft whispers that night as we held each other close, we had our first tentative conversation about our long-term future. Both of us scared and excited and hopeful. And as far as him not being my "type"; I smile to myself thinking about that now. When I see him puttering around, making coffee for me or doing the laundry, I am struck by how truly beautiful he is and how lucky I am to have him in my life.

Thank you Evan! Your book, blogs, emails and coaching helped me during a time when I really needed it!

Chris L.

"I followed your advice to a T, started online dating diligently, and met my husband after only meeting 4 guys online. "

Evan,

I'm a happily married woman that found my husband by applying all your advice and tips. Five years ago I was so frustrated with love and dating, I started reading your blog in hopes of learning something about men. Boy, did I learn something! I went ahead and bought your book "Why he disappeared" and read every single one of your emails. I also read your blog diligently looking for answers and insight.

I wanted to write to you to let you know I often talk about you with my friends that asked me how I landed such an amazing husband. I always tell them it was because of you. I have probably recommended your site, your book and your services to nearly 50 women I know.

Thank you Evan, you changed my life. You helped me discovered a lot about me and learn a lot about men and dating. I followed your advice to a T, started online dating diligently, and met my husband after only meeting 4 guys online. Started dating seriously pretty soon. And now we are happily married.

I can say that I'm grateful I found you and I realized I hadn't told you thank you and how much you made this blessing happen in my life.

Carla S.

Yes, I’m Ready to Understand Men and Find Love

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