EffortlesslyAttractthe Man of Your Dreams and Create a Lasting Relationship That Makes You Feel Safe, Heard & Understood

Love U is the world’s most effective program in helping you regain your confidence, fix your broken man-picker, and get the unconditional love you deserve. It’s not just a coaching course but a community of inspiring women who are taking control of their destinies, rewriting their love stories, and living happily ever after.

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Finding Fun, Passionate, Lasting Love is the NORM for Love U Graduates

KARIN W.

"For any woman who wants a real and meaningful relationship but continues coming up short, you are the man for the job."

I can’t believe it’s taken me so long to tell you this, but … I’m married! Needless to say, this is a dream come true for me. I am so happy, because I feel safe and secure with a man who is devoted to me. He is everything I was looking for – although it took you to make me realize that. Of all the thank-you notes I have written, yours is the most important to me – because there is no way I would be a happily married woman today without you.

DIANA B.

"Right now, I’m on my honeymoon in the Maldives with the man of my dreams, thanks to your work."

Hi Evan. I am writing to give you yet another success story from your coaching. I started reading your blog back in 2010, and followed your advice religiously. It took a while (like 2 years!) but I finally started applying your advice to my dating life. I knew it was working when I was dating a guy who other women were chasing, yet he was pressing me for commitment. I didn't think he was the one so I cut bait, but it was so EMPOWERING to be the one who made that choice vs the other way around.

SAHAJA P.

"Blake are now engaged! Thanks for all your help and support in finding myself, and because of that, him."

I signed up for Love U in a moment of sheer desperation — being tired of being single, being tired of knowing I was doing something wrong and no one to tell me what it is. You always did tell it like it is. I have to say thank you for believing in me, and giving me confidence I didn’t know I had. Thank you for seeing that there was something to be seen in me, that I didn’t even know existed.

How bad did the doormat thing get? So bad. I was living under his roof, and made every meal. Never repeated a menu item in the 6 weeks we lived together, which was after a year of being together. A year where he was still free to meet other women. 6 weeks of living together where sometimes he didn’t come home. “Gone to Vienna, be back later” And sometimes I could sleep in his bed and sometimes I couldn’t. That wasn’t even the end of it, but those were things I did and totally thought were ok at the time. That is lower than low.

MICHELLE I.

We’re engaged! Mark proposed on Saturday night. It was magical. I want you to know that I am marrying the “right” man. I had so many men I thought I wanted to marry and they were the wrong men. I have the most wonderful, adoring, lovely Mark.

CHRISTINE D.

"This week, I got a proposal and a beautiful ring - we'll get married later next year."

“A few years ago, when I was first introduced to Evan, I was feeling increasingly frustrated with my dating life. After divorcing an emotionally unavailable man after 23 years of marriage I had two difficult, long term relationships with men who were not stepping up and I had gotten used to being treated badly.

I’d had some difficult family situations to deal with as a single mother of three twenty somethings and Evan provided me with my first ‘Aha’ moment which was when he told me ‘You’ve been a great mother to your children, and a good daughter to your elderly mother but who’s been there for you Christine?’ This actually made me cry – I had been the ‘go to’ person for my children and the men I was dating were narcissists who had me hooked but were not good men.

CARLA S.

"I followed your advice to a T, started online dating diligently, and met my husband after only meeting 4 guys online."

I'm a happily married woman that found my husband applying all your advice and tips. Five years ago, I was so frustrated with love and dating, I started reading your blog in hopes of learning something about men. Boy, did I learn something! I went ahead and bought your book "Why He Disappeared" and read every single one of your emails. I also read your blog diligently looking for answers and insight.

Are you the smart, strong, successful woman who has everything she wants in life… except her man?

You’re a great catch. You look amazing for your age. You’re smart and financially independent. You’re a kind person with a lot of love to give.

Your days are filled with meaningful work, close friends, and many
hobbies, interests, and travel.

By all accounts, you have it all.

Yet despite having it all, you still find yourself looking enviously at your friends’ social media photos, feeling disappointed when you’re excluded from couples’ events, and continuing to insist that you’re perfectly happy being single.

In the rare moment where you stop to look inside, one thing
becomes clear:

A fun, passionate, committed relationship is the only thing missing from your life…and you have no idea how to get it.

What makes it even more difficult is that you’re used to being successful.

You’re smart. Resilient. A problem solver.

So it’s even more frustrating when you see another woman who is not as impressive as you happily walking arm in arm with an attractive man.

Which is why it’s hard not to wonder: What do THEY have that I don’t?

Why them? Why not you? Why is it so hard to find a quality man who treats you well and wants to commit?

For the life of you, you can’t figure it out.

It may be hard to admit, but the first step on your journey to lasting love is to be 100% honest about your current situation.

Right now,take a moment and ask yourself, if…

Over the years, you’ve probably developed a bad relationship with relationships. And it’s easy to see how.

If every promising relationship ultimately failed to last, it’s easy to conclude that nothing works and that you should give up on love entirely.

After all, you’ve already tried everything you can imagine:

  • You’ve tried online dating but got fed up with the lack of quality men.
  • You’ve tried dating apps but got stuck texting dozens of flakes.
  • You’ve tried singles events but only met low-quality guys.
  • You’ve tried setups but they always seem to fizzle after a couple of dates.
  • You’ve tried long-distance relationships but they always fall apart.
  • You’ve tried casual sex but discovered it didn’t lead to an amazing partner.
  • You’ve tried dating beneath your standards but always end up regretting it.
  • You’ve tried being the ‘cool girl’ but ended up feeling like a doormat.
  • You’ve tried giving nice guys a chance but were ultimately bored.
  • You’ve tried changing the narcissists but couldn’t get them to put you first.
  • You’ve tried asking friends for advice but it doesn’t seem to work.
  • You’ve tried YouTube and self-help books but they haven’t helped.
  • You’ve tried introspection and self-analysis but only feel worse afterward.
  • You’ve tried therapy but never made any tangible, lasting progress in love.

That’s a LOT of effort with very little reward.

Face it: what you’re doing just isn’t getting you to where you want to be – in a healthy, happy relationship with the man of your dreams.

If ANY of the above resonates and you’ve lost faith in yourself and your ability to have a happy, healthy relationship…

Don’t give up!

Thousands of women like you have overcome self-doubt, gained confidence in their ability to attract and choose quality men, and found lasting love… and you can be next!

If you have a history of choosing the wrong men, this may sound like a fantasy, but it’s a reality for thousands of Love U graduates.

In this future we’re creating:

You never have to worry about whether he’ll call.

You never have to worry when you’re going to see him again.

You never have to worry about whether he’s going to leave you.

You never have to worry about speaking your mind and sharing your feelings.

You never have to worry about whether you can relax and be yourself.

All your anxieties and insecurities will be GONE.

Finally, you’ll have a partner who cares about you and puts your needs first.

Finally, you’ll live a life in which you don’t have to do everything by yourself.

Finally, you’ll feel the relief of being with a man who always has your back.

Finally, you’ll feel the joy of knowing that you have a guy who wants to take care of you, emotionally, physically, and financially.

One decision you make today could help you:

Carry yourself with unshakable confidence when it comes to all dating situations…

So you can connect with confident men who know exactly what they want. Soon, you’ll be the CEO of your own love life and make smart decisions in love with complete authority – and create a relationship that makes you feel amazing.

Learn how to fix your broken man-picker and be loved unconditionally…

So you can finally stop wasting time on liars, commitmentphobes, and selfish men who don’t communicate. Soon, you’ll start attracting the right kind of men and be able to trust your judgment in choosing a guy that’s right for you in the long run.

Overcome the pain of your past relationships and look to the future with optimism…

So you can be positive and stop being held back by the men who disappointed you before. Soon, you will start seeing the glass half-full and know, in your heart, that you’re going to share a life with a man who loves you unconditionally.

Become an empowered woman who can attract a marriage-oriented man…

So you never have to worry if he’s committed and finally relax into a safe, caring partnership. Soon, you’ll have all of the tools to operate from a place of abundance, set healthy boundaries, and build the future you’ve always wanted.

Find the right guy and share a deep, abiding, emotional bond…

So you can trust you’ve got a best friend who is selfless and prioritizes your happiness. Soon, you’ll have a happy, healthy relationship and never have to be traumatized by the insecurities that other men brought up in you.

Surround yourself with other like-minded women who support you to find true love

So you can share experiences and grow with people who care about your future. Soon, you’ll have a network of smart, successful women who can understand you, empathize with you, and help you achieve incredible success with men.

Isn’t it time you wrote a new script for your life? Isn’t it time you finally found the loving, committed relationship you deserve?

If you’re searching for a way to meet a loving partner who always makes you feel safe, heard, and understood…

You’re in the Perfect place!

INTRODUCINGTHE BEGINNING OF YOUR LOVE STORY!

Love U is your personal GPS that shows you the clearest path to a committed relationship. Just follow the directions and set your course to your final destination: real, powerful, and lasting love.

I’ve created Love U based on your needs, so you can have a seamless and stress-free experience.

Through group coaching, community support, daily videos, and weekly exercises designed to teach you about dating, relationships, and men, Love U answers all the questions you have while you’re dating.

It’s interactive, fun, easy, and can be watched, read, or listened to at your leisure.

100% online and with direct access to me, Evan Marc Katz, this program puts you in complete control of your destiny.

Love U provides a proven formula and dating structure so you can attract men of the highest quality and create a passionate relationship that lasts forever.

Love U is an amazing community of women who support each other in an open, transparent, accepting, and friendly environment.

The most valuable aspect of Love U isn’t my expert coaching, the one-of-a-kind dating strategies, or the tips to help you gain more confidence with men.

What makes Love U so special are the people you share it with.

I’ve created a living, breathing community of empowered women who are tired of being alone, sick of wasting years on the wrong men, and actively making massive improvements to their man-selection process.

And I want to see you do the same!

If you’re afraid of breaking up with a man who is a decent boyfriend but unable or unwilling to be a good husband, the women of Love U and I will give you the strength to make the right decision.

If you’re convinced that online dating won’t work for you, we’ll give you practical tips and encouragement on exactly how to navigate it.

If you don’t know what to send in that next text, you can share a screenshot in the community and we’ll tell you how to respond with warmth and confidence.

If you’re feeling low and losing faith in yourself, we’ll lift you up and carry you forward when you need it most.

If you’re scared of being vulnerable, opening up, and letting a man into your heart, we’ll show you how rich the rewards of love can be.

If you don’t trust your judgment and don’t know how to communicate with your boyfriend, we’ll tell you exactly what to say in all situations.

Whatever you need, whatever you’re feeling, we’ll be by your side!

Every member of the Love U community is in your corner - so much so that our students remain friends for life, even if they’re separated by states, borders, oceans, and thousands of miles!

Which is to say that, no matter how convinced you are that nothing will ever work for you, the truth is:

You can’t fail here!

Not only am I going to show you what it feels like to be loved unconditionally – to have a man who listens to you, puts your needs first, and will do everything in his power to make you happy – but the women in Love U take it to a whole new level.

Let’s face it, it’s lonely at the top.

As a smart, strong, successful independent woman without a husband, there aren’t that many people who can identify with your struggle.

Your college friend who’s been married for fifteen years? Your mother? Your girlfriend who hates dating and makes terrible choices with men?

When you apply to enroll in Love U, you’re part of something bigger. On our epic group coaching calls, emotions, feelings, and strategies are shared freely and without judgment.

I promise you will take something actionable away from each session and learn from other women struggling with the same issues.

And since I’ve seen the immense value of the community, I’ve taken to leaving the breakout rooms open for you to continue the conversation after our coaching is done. Next thing you know, Elizabeth in San Francisco is having Zoom drinks with Callie from New York and Jessica from London and they’re supporting each other daily on a group text.

Love U members have done spontaneous meetups all over the world. Boston. New York. Atlanta. Los Angeles. San Francisco. D.C. Portland. Seattle. Austin. London. Sydney.

These are the women of the Love Universe.

And we want you to be part of it.

Apply to join Love U today and…

Gain unprecedented access to everything you need to know about dating, relationships, sex, and men from
one of the world’s leading dating coaches and receive
daily support from an empowered group of like-minded women!

Love U gives you the tools you need to navigate every situation in your dating life. It shows you what works, what doesn’t, and how you can improve your results through short video content that’s easy to watch and fun to implement.

But, more than that, Love U is like having a personal life coach at your fingertips. You’ll be able to talk directly to a happily married male coach who specializes in helping smart women find love and connect with an extraordinary group of women who are committed to the same goals.

Every coaching call is supportive and growth-oriented and I pretty much guarantee you’ll have an aha moment every time we talk!

How do I know? Because Love U women share their wins with me every day.

Coming home from a great first date. Taking down your profile. Going on your first weekend trip together. Meeting your boyfriend’s family. Hearing the words “I love you.” Receiving a ring and a teary-eyed proposal. Sharing your wedding photos with the ladies you’ve befriended on this journey.

That’s Love U.

Here’s what you get if you’re accepted to join

Lifetime Access to the Love U Course

If you’re accepted into Love U, you’ll be able to access all of our videos, audios, and transcripts designed to teach you about confidence, meeting men, dating, understanding men, relationships, and commitment. At any point, you can go back and get answers to the most common dating and relationship questions.

Entry Into my Private Love U Facebook Community

Be prepared to be welcomed into the most unique, exclusive coaching community on the planet. Every day, you’ll be able to talk with me and other like-minded, vibrant women on Facebook (including married Love U graduates) who will personally hold your hand and help you make smarter choices with men.

A Massive Library of Videos, Audios & Transcripts

Love U teaches you to find a husband with just a half-hour of video lessons per week. As a Love U member, you have access to a treasure trove of online resources that walks you through best practices for smart women who want to attract men who are their equals for a lifetime of love and connection.

Weekly Exercises to Help Further Your Progress

After you complete your weekly videos, you can download weekly exercises that will help you put this knowledge into real-life practice. These are some of the intimate, little-known strategies the most desirable women use to find an attractive, loving, commitment-oriented partner.

Live Dating & Relationship Coaching

Along with the online content and all the other amazing benefits of Love U, you’re going to get regular coaching calls with me, Evan Marc Katz, where I’ll personally answer your dating and relationship questions in live Q&A sessions that last at least 90 minutes so I can take as many questions as possible.

From building confidence to navigating online dating to choosing a boyfriend to figuring out if he’s a keeper and learning to communicate effectively, here’s everything you’ll discover in this online, exclusive, and life-changing program…

MODULE 1: Confidence

Confidence is a choice – and that choice is yours to make. I will show you exactly how acting from a place of confidence and abundance throughout the dating process will revolutionize your success with men and attract the man you deserve. You’ll learn how you can be the CEO who carefully chooses men based on their efforts instead of the intern who hopes she gets chosen by men.

Past Baggage

  • Why holding on to your last relationship only stops you from finding a better one.
  • The danger of thinking that the man you’re seeing is the Last Man on Earth. He’s not – and you can definitely do better!
  • Why Cinderella needs to try on a lot of shoes before she finds the perfect fit (and why she doesn’t get mad at her feet when they don’t!)
  • The curse of being a smart, strong, successful woman with high standards and what that means for you.
  • How to be both a short-term pessimist and a long-term optimist. If you don’t figure this one out, you’re doomed from the start.

‘Why Bother?’ Syndrome

  • Why there’s no time like the present to find love. No matter how much you’ve suffered, you’re better off doing something NOW than putting it off indefinitely.
  • The one thing that’s been keeping you from getting back out there. It’s simple – but it’s weighing on you and stopping you from reaching your life’s true purpose.
  • The inspiring success stories of my most challenging clients: a 73-year-old widowed woman, a paralyzed woman in a wheelchair and a woman in the remotest part of the Yukon. Learn how these women found lasting love and how you can apply their lessons.
  • Why dating and relationships are never a waste of time – except in this one specific instance.
  • The reason you should always bother to date. All of your bad experiences may have helped you forget how good it feels to find the love you want.

Confidence

  • What it means to be unreasonable – and why unreasonable people are the ones who find love faster than anyone.
  • The incredible story of a famous self-help author who couldn’t find love. Learn her 4 limiting beliefs that might be holding you back, too.
  • The value of getting a “small win” and seeing instant results in your love life. Small wins propel you into bigger and bigger victories.
  • Why the only thing to be afraid of in dating is NOT dating. I’ll teach you how to get over everything else.

Taking Action

  • How you already know (almost) everything you need to get happy – you just haven’t applied it yet.
  • Love is like a lottery and you probably don’t want to celebrate your winnings until you’ve gotten all 6 numbers.
  • Why there are many things to celebrate before you get a ring on your finger – and why it’s essential to take joy in them as you date.
  • A new, empowering definition of happiness that will get you into action and produce greater results than any relationship book you’ve ever read.

MODULE 2: Meeting Men

Every second you spend with the wrong man is a second you’re not looking for the right one. I’ll show you how to fine-tune your man radar, stop accepting unacceptable treatment, and create unconditional love. You’ll learn to reject the wrong men quickly and attract honest, desirable men wherever you go.

Meeting Men

  • Why “where are all the quality men?” is the wrong question – and what question you SHOULD be asking to get better results in love.
  • The downside of being too independent and comfortable – and how if you’re very successful at being single it becomes even harder to become a couple.
  • The secret to getting more men to approach you. It’s a piece of cake – and all you have to do is understand what he’s thinking when he sees you.
  • Why you should never take a man’s card or ask him to call you. The right guy doesn’t need to be prodded to follow up with you.
  • If you’ve ever felt you weren’t good at email, phone, texting or dating, you’ll learn to make men stand up and pay attention.

Flirting

  • The one thing you need to assume before you start talking to a guy. Once you get this down, you’ll never have to worry about whether he likes you or not.
  • The art of verbal foreplay – and why being a woman is the only power you need to flirt with the cutest guys.
  • Why “playing hard to get” is the WORST advice you’ve ever been given – and why warm and positive feedback is the way to any man’s heart.
  • The difference between flirting and being a tease – and how to establish healthy boundaries that let men know where you stand.
  • Don’t like the men you’re meeting? You can actually CHANGE your date’s personality by being a better flirt. This lesson is like MAGIC!

Online Dating

  • The difference between the top dating sites and which one is the best fit for YOU.
  • A powerful formula to writing an online dating profile that gets more, high-quality responses.
  • What it’s like to be a man in online dating. It’s shocking and heartbreaking – and it just may change the way you view men from this moment forward.
  • The power of my 2/2/2 Rule. Screen out bad guys, get the good ones to invest in you and have total control of your online dating experience.
  • How to confidently initiate contact with men and get them to write back. If you’re like most people, your first emails are weak attempts at finding common interests that send your favorite men running for the hills.

First Dates

  • The 3 things you should be looking for on a first date. If you don’t get them, there’s NO point going back for a second one.
  • What it means to “forgive the ignorance” – and how you want men to be more forgiving of your flaws as well.
  • How to handle the first date kiss. If you don’t do it this way, you may be inadvertently alienating the vast majority of men.
  • The deadly “Pedestal Principle” and how it could be silently killing your chances of online dating success! If you don’t know what it is, it’s probably already affecting you.
  • A nearly foolproof plan to start enjoying your first dates and creating chemistry and intimacy. No more dreadful coffee dates!

Courtship

  • Why men will do as little as possible to get the greatest reward – and how you can effectively weed out the users and players FAST.
  • A simple way to figure out whether a guy is interested in you. Do this and you’ll never spend another second staring at your phone waiting for his text.
  • You’ve spent your entire life focused on how you feel about your date. Instead, focus on THIS to avoid wasting time on ambivalent guys.
  • An ESSENTIAL fact about men that will make sense of all of their behavior and allow you to finally have peace around dating.
  • Why you can’t always tell when a guy is right for you – but you can absolutely tell when he’s WRONG for you.

MODULE 3: Dating

Do you want to avoid the ambivalent guys, the glad-to-waste-your-time guys, and the never-want-to-get-married guys? I’ll teach you the crucial boundaries that most women never seem to set. By learning the art of effective dating – and cutting off the wrong men quickly – you’ll put those low-effort men in your past and find a quality guy who is ready to build a future with you right now.

Staying Cool

  • The first thing you need to remember when you’re seeing a guy – and the one thing that guarantees you don’t lose a moment of sleep over him.
  • How choosing a boyfriend is NOT the same as choosing a husband. In fact, the whole point of dating is to try a guy on for size before even considering a real commitment.
  • Why you need to throw out whatever rules you have in your head about how he “should” act – and what you should be looking for instead.
  • What to do when you’re freaking out that he hasn’t called and you think he’s pulling away. This will absolutely SAVE your relationship.
  • The fascinating science behind attachment styles and how learning yours can make or break your entire future.

Sex

  • The main difference between men and women when it comes to sex. Once you learn this, it will explain and heal all of the confusing sexual situations from your past.
  • Why great relationships should have great sex, but great sex is not a predictor of a great relationship. Just look at your past!
  • If a man is only interested in sex with you, then sex is probably all he’s offering in return. Funny how that works.
  • Five simple sentences that will guarantee that no man uses you for sex ever again.
  • How to say no to sex, set healthy boundaries, and still make him want to come back for more.

Being Selective

  • The downfall of dating smart, handsome, wealthy guys. I’m not telling you to lower your standards, I’m just shining the light on a blind spot that continues to afflict you.
  • Why you should never date simply for the sake of dating – and why dating is the best way to create lasting love.
  • 3 things a man could say to you that should make you dump him on the spot. You’ve always been too forgiving, but you’ll never make that mistake again.
  • What men want. Believe it or not, 90% of it’s the same as what you want – but there’s 10% that you’ve never heard before. You NEED to learn this if you want to forge an unbreakable bond with your guy.
  • Why you may not need a man, but men want to be needed. Until you let down your guard and risk being vulnerable, you have no chance at getting the man you desire.

Becoming Exclusive

  • Find out exactly when it’s time for you to focus your full attention on one man. Don’t become his girlfriend until he does THIS.
  • The 2 different paths to becoming a boyfriend. Which one are you on and why are you putting up with the guy who is not stepping up to commit to you?
  • The vital definitions of exclusive vs. boyfriend. Until you nail this down, you run the risk of sleeping with men for months at a time who have no intention of being your boyfriend.
  • Instead of seeing if your boyfriend meets up to your mental checklist, try rating your relationship on this one important quality.
  • The 8 things your boyfriend should be doing right now. If he’s not doing them, you need to give him his walking papers!

MODULE 4: Understanding Men

You’ll finally get an explanation as to why men act the way they do (including the behavior that’s always driven you crazy!) You’ll figure out what kind of man is a good fit for your personality. You’ll see how easy it is to understand what men are thinking and discover if a man has future potential before you sleep with him.

Boyfriend Material

  • Why you should never be afraid of having a serious relationship discussion. You’ll feel 1000 times better after you take this to heart.
  • Why great men aren’t always great boyfriends – and how you can tell the difference within a few weeks.
  • Why some men make less of an effort after they’re in a relationship – and why there are times that this is okay.
  • When you should say “I love you” and how to avoid scaring him away with those three magic words.
  • An easy way to assess whether your relationship is truly making you happy. Try this and it will spare you months of wasted time on the wrong men.

Feminine Energy

  • How to get a confident, masculine man to treat you like a queen. It sounds obvious, but most women have been getting it wrong forever.
  • Why smart, strong, successful women kick ass in the boardroom yet struggle in love – and what you can do about it without changing your personality.
  • How to choose a partner who is a complementary fit. There is no right and wrong – only effective and ineffective when it comes to choosing a man.
  • What it means to be with the “nice guy with balls,” and why even this attractive archetype is going to frustrate you – despite his charms.
  • A test to figure out your own feminine energy. The result will determine your romantic future far more than your education, career and hobbies ever will.

Alpha Males vs Beta Males

  • The difference between constructive criticism and destructive criticism when it comes to men. If you don’t know this off the top of your head, you’re probably unintentionally emasculating your man.
  • The secret appeal of the easy-going, laid-back guy. What you perceive as weakness is actually his greatest strength!
  • The 2 qualities that are the best at determining whether a man is going to be a great husband. I promise you have NO IDEA what they are – but once you do, you’ll have an advantage over every other woman seeking a life partner.
  • Can you be an alpha female at work and a beta female in a relationship? What does it take to be with a man who’s a natural leader? Together, we’ll explore your options and steer you towards the right kind of man for you.
  • A fun and effective way to make your boyfriend act the way you want him to. It’s basic psychology, and it’s incredibly powerful when you do it right.

Understanding Men

  • The first thing you need to understand about men. Once you do, you’ll be able to clearly decide whether his behavior is acceptable or not.
  • The primary difference between what men and women want from relationships. Once you know what he wants, you can easily give it to him and make your relationship rock-solid.
  • Your boyfriend wants to make you happy. With this knowledge, you can transform the way you deal with him and make him WANT to be a better boyfriend.
  • Men have a unique timetable when it comes to commitment. Understand where he’s coming from and he will clamor to commit to you.
  • Tired of wasting time on men who don’t want to get married? Here’s exactly how you deal with those guys who aren’t sure if they want to settle down…

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Chemistry

  • It’s on Wikipedia, yet you may have no clue what “love” really is. This lesson will forever change the way you look at the concept of chemistry.
  • Have you ever had a guy tell you that he wasn’t “in love” with you? Have you ever said that to a man? Learn the science of being “in love” and what that means for your future.
  • What does it mean when you “just know”? Do you need to have that feeling? Learn why this is better known as “the deception of passion” and how not to be drawn into that trap.
  • There is a formula for happy relationships — a perfect mix of chemistry and compatibility. Learn it and make your next boyfriend your last boyfriend.
  • How to choose a man who’s not only attractive to you, but, just as importantly, great husband material as well.

MODULE 5: Relationships

Understanding the difference between compromising and settling may be the only thing holding you back from true happiness. You’ll discover what qualities you should compromise on and which qualities you should never compromise on when picking a partner. Change your choice of men and you’ll be successful in love!

How to Talk With Men

  • The primary reason that men shut down when you have an important discussion. The second you get this is the second you can speak your mind without fear.
  • The “compliment sandwich” and how to use it to get your way. Trust me – no man can resist.
  • How he acts and how he feels about you are often two different things. Learn how to distinguish his inconsiderate actions from his cruel ones.
  • If you want your boyfriend to be 100% honest with you, you have to do this one thing (that pretty much no woman ever does).
  • Solve ANY sensitive relationship using this three-step conversation technique that makes him WANT to please you.

Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

  • “The Rubberband Effect” and how to deal with guys who pull away to think.
  • Why you should forgive him for being a man and break up with him for being a jerk. And no, those two words are not synonymous!
  • How to quickly identify and dump a jerk. I hate to use such clinical terms, but you need to break up with him before he does too much damage.
  • “The Normalization of Deviance” and how to fix your relationship before it becomes broken.
  • When you should give him a mulligan for his clueless behavior – and when to learn to let it go. Men have no incentive to stay in relationships where they are constantly told that they’re failing.

Jealousy & Cheating

  • The actual statistics on how many men cheat, how many women cheat, and why people stray. Trust me – it’s not what you think.
  • The surprising — and shockingly common — reason that good men lie to you. Believe it or not, you’re partially responsible for bringing out the worst in him.
  • The reason you’re drawn to cheaters and they’re drawn to you. It’s time to break your pattern of choosing emotionally unavailable men once and for all.
  • The truth about monogamy — what biology says, what men say, and why so many men choose to stay with one woman forever.
  • One simple rule you need to know about trust that will inspire the right man to be loyal and monogamous.

Compatibility

  • Common interests, similar backgrounds, great chemistry. Guess what? NONE of these are the primary source of compatibility with men.
  • The 3 personality traits that are the best predictors for a compatible partner. Does your guy have them or do you need to ditch him now?
  • Make your partner feel more appreciated by speaking his “love language.” Watch as he turns around and becomes a better partner in return.
  • Why being married is extremely different from dating, and how there is a completely unique set of issues to face as a married couple that you cannot figure out when you first start dating.
  • How you can have everything on paper, but NOTHING in a relationship – unless you’re compatible in this one area.

MODULE 6: Commitment

Attracting the man of your dreams doesn’t require losing weight, growing your hair, getting a degree, making more money, lowering your standards, or changing your personality. In the final module of Love U, you’ll learn exactly how to find a long-term committed relationship in which you feel safe, heard, and understood.

Being a Great Girlfriend

  • A radical new way of choosing a man — one that’s not solely based on whether you’re into him, but whether he’s into YOU.
  • The hidden power of saying YES. Men love it. They don’t get enough of it. And you’ll be the first woman to ever say it to him regularly.
  • A simple and powerful way to avoid being a doormat. The right man doesn’t take advantage of your goodwill – and if he does, he’s out the door.
  • How a female animal trainer learned to train her husband using positive reinforcement and rewards. You can, too!
  • The Platinum Rule for relationships. If you want a man who is a giver (and you should), you can’t keep score of what you’re giving in return.

Breaking Up

  • Why staying with a nice man you don’t intend to marry isn’t kind. Would you want a man to stay with you if he didn’t want to get married?
  • A thirty-second script you can say to any man when it’s time to end things. It’s drama-free, succinct, and leaves no room for misinterpretation.
  • The 2 brain systems you use when making decisions. If you’re not doing this, you may be missing something vital in your emotional time of crisis.
  • The sad truth about millions of men. (Hint: they’re too messed up to make a good husband for ANYONE, so don’t be too sad about letting them go.)
  • A healthier way to view a break-up, no matter how sad or painful it might be. Sometimes, breaking up is the ONLY answer.

Commitment

  • Why the REAL numbers on marriage and divorce should make you feel OPTIMISTIC about finding love.
  • Learn exactly when you should cut your losses with a boyfriend who hasn’t proposed. Give him enough time to make a decision, then be brave enough to pull the plug.
  • A stunningly obvious way to determine if a man is marriage-oriented that does not involve interrogating him. Your future boyfriend thanks you in advance.
  • Why your man has no more power in your relationship than you do – unless you give it away to him.
  • The 3 paths to marriage which are most likely to end in divorce. I promise that you’ve done at least 2 out of 3 of these things multiple times!

Wants vs Needs

  • Why you can’t have any relationship dependent on your partner changing. If you don’t like the way he’s acting right this second, don’t expect things to get better.
  • The difference between settling and compromising. It’s not what you think, and until you figure this piece out, you’ll always struggle in love.
  • Why “dating like a man” is empowering, effective, and more likely to make you happy than anything you’ve ever tried before.
  • The most important quality a man can have. If your guy doesn’t have it, your relationship is sunk before it even gets off the ground.
  • My top-secret Husband Picker exercise. Previously reserved for private clients, I am sharing it with you for the first time here. This is the culmination of everything you’ve learned in Love U and a literal blueprint that will lead you to the man you’re going to marry.

Whatever you’re dealing with, Love U can help you get unstuck…

Maybe it’s a lack of confidence, borne out of years of failed relationships.

Maybe it’s the inability to meet new men because your friends are married, you work in a home office, and you’re exhausted by online dating.

Maybe it’s the endless confusion that is dating — not knowing whether you should text, have sex or commit to him as a boyfriend.

Truth is, we all have blind spots. We all have limiting beliefs. We’ve all had our confidence take a hit after each heartbreak and disappointment.

Love U helps put all the confusion and heartache behind you and provides a GPS that will finally lead you to the man of your dreams.

If you give me 5 minutes a day, I will give you a husband!

If you give me 5 minutes a

day, I will give you ahusband!

WHEN YOU GRADUATE FROM, YOU'RE GOING TO LEAVE WITH...

The confidence to let go of the past and attract the 10% of men who are worth your time.

An understanding of the 5 qualities you absolutely need to get from your partner

In-depth knowledge of dating (both offline and online) and how to find quality men when they seem scarce

A network of incredible, empowered women who support you every step of the way

The chance to rewrite your love
story and start a healthy, passionate, and loving relationship

The tools you need to meet, date, and connect with a great guy and get him to commit long-term

Over 12,000 Love U graduates can attest to this!

Just like them, you can get the results you’ve been looking for.

The women who’ve graduated from Love U have managed to overcome the pain of their past relationships – and a large number have gone on to find their husbands.

So, be sure of this…

Through expert advice, a personal touch, and a robust community of women on the same journey, we get you the life-changing relationship results you’ve been searching for but have never been able to achieve on your own.

Soon you’ll be waking up, having amazing morning sex, and appreciating your husband as he makes you coffee and breakfast.

You’ll be taking a rigorous hike in nature with your man and a picnic lunch.

You’ll be hosting a dinner party with a few bottles of wine, a few of your favorite couple friends, and a lot of laughter.

All of this and more is possible when you join Love U.

Finding peace and joy in your love life is a truly incredible feeling.

Whether you’re looking for confidence, dating tips, relationship skills, the ability to identify good men, or the capacity to maintain a healthy long-term commitment, Love U gets you there.

Hear from just some of the Womenwho have found the relationship of their dreams through Love U

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MICHELLE
SUE Z
CHRISTINE Z
DEBBY H
HEATHER S

KARIN W.

"For any woman who wants a real and meaningful relationship but continues coming up short, you are the man for the job."

I can’t believe it’s taken me so long to tell you this, but … I’m married! Needless to say, this is a dream come true for me. I am so happy, because I feel safe and secure with a man who is devoted to me. He is everything I was looking for – although it took you to make me realize that. Of all the thank-you notes I have written, yours is the most important to me – because there is no way I would be a happily married woman today without you.

DIANA B.

"Right now, I’m on my honeymoon in the Maldives with the man of my dreams, thanks to your work."

Hi Evan. I am writing to give you yet another success story from your coaching. I started reading your blog back in 2010, and followed your advice religiously. It took a while (like 2 years!) but I finally started applying your advice to my dating life. I knew it was working when I was dating a guy who other women were chasing, yet he was pressing me for commitment. I didn't think he was the one so I cut bait, but it was so EMPOWERING to be the one who made that choice vs the other way around.

SAHAJA P.

"Blake are now engaged! Thanks for all your help and support in finding myself, and because of that, him."

I signed up for Love U in a moment of sheer desperation — being tired of being single, being tired of knowing I was doing something wrong and no one to tell me what it is. You always did tell it like it is. I have to say thank you for believing in me, and giving me confidence I didn’t know I had. Thank you for seeing that there was something to be seen in me, that I didn’t even know existed.

How bad did the doormat thing get? So bad. I was living under his roof, and made every meal. Never repeated a menu item in the 6 weeks we lived together, which was after a year of being together. A year where he was still free to meet other women. 6 weeks of living together where sometimes he didn’t come home. “Gone to Vienna, be back later” And sometimes I could sleep in his bed and sometimes I couldn’t. That wasn’t even the end of it, but those were things I did and totally thought were ok at the time. That is lower than low.

MICHELLE I.

We’re engaged! Mark proposed on Saturday night. It was magical. I want you to know that I am marrying the “right” man. I had so many men I thought I wanted to marry and they were the wrong men. I have the most wonderful, adoring, lovely Mark.

CHRISTINE D.

"This week, I got a proposal and a beautiful ring - we'll get married later next year."

“A few years ago, when I was first introduced to Evan, I was feeling increasingly frustrated with my dating life. After divorcing an emotionally unavailable man after 23 years of marriage I had two difficult, long term relationships with men who were not stepping up and I had gotten used to being treated badly.

I’d had some difficult family situations to deal with as a single mother of three twenty somethings and Evan provided me with my first ‘Aha’ moment which was when he told me ‘You’ve been a great mother to your children, and a good daughter to your elderly mother but who’s been there for you Christine?’ This actually made me cry – I had been the ‘go to’ person for my children and the men I was dating were narcissists who had me hooked but were not good men.

CARLA S.

"I followed your advice to a T, started online dating diligently, and met my husband after only meeting 4 guys online."

I'm a happily married woman that found my husband applying all your advice and tips. Five years ago, I was so frustrated with love and dating, I started reading your blog in hopes of learning something about men. Boy, did I learn something! I went ahead and bought your book "Why He Disappeared" and read every single one of your emails. I also read your blog diligently looking for answers and insight.

APRIL G.

"I'm in an amazing marriage with a really wonderful man. Easily the best and most healthy relationship of my life. And I'm happy. Really happy."

I joined Love U for two reasons. One, I had ended up on Evan's email list and several of his emails literally seemed like they were talking directly to me. I always thought I was good at dating, because I could get dates. But if dating were baseball, I'm the girl that always got base hits and got tagged out before she got an actual run. The second reason I joined is because I've had huge success with fitness coaching, life coaching, why wouldn't I do relationship coaching? Bad relationship choices have cost me a lot more personally and sometimes financially than I'll ever spend on coaching

I didn't really even know what I didn't know when it came to dating. I knew that doing the same things I was doing would get me the same results, and I certainly wasn't happy with those. I wanted to know what I was doing that wasn't effective and what things I could change to be more successful. I didn't want just ANY relationship. I wanted a really good one.

LAUREN T.

"Love U is the BEST purchase I’ve ever made!"

started the Love U program at age 36. I felt good about what I had to offer a guy (fun, loving, great community, stable job) but I couldn’t seem to make a relationship go the distance. I was really really down about this, but listening to Evan’s first two weeks of videos really helped to change my mindset. Specifically, he made the case that there are always people looking for love, which gave me hope.

Since then, I can say that Love U is the BEST purchase I’ve ever made! I met my husband at the end of December while visiting my family for Christmas and Evan’s coaching helped me create an amazing relationship. The relationship was long distance for the first 9 months (me in SF, he in the Midwest) and during this time I learned how to be the cool girl with boundaries, how to let my partner know how to please me, to assume positive intent, and to give all trust or no trust. There were many more lessons I learned, but if I hadn’t learned these and done the hard work to put them in to practice, I am sure I wouldn’t be where I am today in my relationship...

MARIE N.

"You have to be bold because nothing in life worth having isn’t without some measure of risk."

For various reasons that I don’t want to get into, though not for lack of opportunity, I was a virgin at 34 when I joined Love U. A very successful one who had gone out on some dates but not ever taking it that seriously, and never truly having found that one guy that I really wanted to be with. I decided that I could either spend the rest of my life alone, or apply that logic and determination that I have so well in my professional life and try to find love. A lot of my friends were like, why don’t you just lose your virginity and get it over with so you can date more, it’s not that big a deal. But it was a big deal to me. I had waited this long and I wanted to find that special guy, the one who would love, cherish, respect, and commit to me, who was my match on every level, who would appreciate the gift that I was giving him and understand me for who I am. That was the one I was going to give myself to and it would be all of me. He would fall in love with me, commit to me, and we would be working towards marriage and a future together.

Now as most of you probably realize, this is rather a monumental task to achieve when you are a 34-year-old virgin dating in this fast-paced, sex on the second date, online world. Take everything that you are supposed to do - flirt but not be too sexy, be feminine but still maintain your boundaries, let him lead but know when to set him up for success, lead him around the bases (what are bases?) but don’t sleep with him until he is your boyfriend, figure out how to get him to the point of being your boyfriend, etc. - and then multiply that by a factor of “I’ve never done this before and gosh I hope it doesn’t show.”

LYN B.

"Once I started taking Evan’s advice seriously, it took me six months to find the “one.” You can too!"

In 2014, I was 67 years old and planning to retire to a new community in the isolated region of the Adirondacks. Although I was used to living in small towns, I was always near bigger cities. My new home would have a population of 1,200 with the closest city of 19,000 an hour away. “Oh, no!” I thought. “I bet there’s probably one eligible man per ten square miles up there in the North Country!” Still, living in this town was a part of my commitment to be near my grandchildren and a part of their lives in my retirement. Could I fit a man into this life? Could I even find him?

I began dating online to find out. I was still working and living four hours away when I went onto my first dating website and posted my profile in the region I was moving to. Once a month I visited for several days and spent about six weeks that summer in my new digs. I had corresponded with a few men and saw them on visits north. Over the summer, I spent some extended time with one man and thought something might come of it. By fall, however, I realized this wasn’t going to work and broke it off with him. I didn’t do a very good job of it and found I wasn’t good at “breaking up!” “I wish I knew how to break up nicely," I pondered. So, I did what everyone does when they have a question — I googled it! Up popped Evan’s website and the rest is history.

SHANNON K.

"Thanks to you and your help in our coaching sessions, I finally found the man that's perfect for me!"

Just wanted to share a wedding picture with you and thank you for being the BEST coach a single lady could want!!! We chose to have a small intimate wedding (30 people total), otherwise I would have definitely sent you an invite. In any case, I wanted to thank you for fine tuning my dating vision so I could finally weed out the guys that weren't right for me and see the man that is perfect for me. What you do as a coach is such a gift!

I have to thank you for all of your advice and fine tuning. Before working with you, I was so used to the flashy guys going all in to impress me, that I probably would have passed over the man I'm with because he would have been too normal and kind of boring for the old me.

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Join a Community of women on the same journey as you are

You aren’t just another student in Love U. You’re investing in your happiness and taking this journey with me and every other member. Our community is a safe space to share your struggles, your aha moments, and your special moments with zero judgment. In Love U, you’ve got a group of people on your side that truly understands you and will help keep you on track when you’re struggling.

Learn from one of the world’s leading dating Coaches

Since 2003, I’ve spent 3-4 hours every day coaching women like you into relationship success. As the first male coach who specializes exclusively in helping women find love, I’ve written four books, been featured in hundreds of media outlets including Today, CNN, and Time Magazine, and written articles that have been seen by over 30 million readers. But my greatest successes are my incredible marriage and all the marriages I’ve helped to co-create.

Love U is where I share everything I know so you can have this, too.

Put your past (and all those Disappointing guys) behind you

Whether you’ve tried your hand at love and have come up short or whether you’ve given everything to men and received little in return, Love U is the place for you. However long you’ve been struggling, this is your chance to change direction and leave the past behind you. In Love U, you have a blank canvas to write a new love story with a happy ending.

Find more Confidence and a renewed sense of worth

You may like yourself. You may think you’re kind, smart, and pretty. But if your genuine self-esteem hasn’t translated into insisting on proper treatment from men, Love U goes deep and helps you restore your confidence. Hey, that’s why it’s called Love U! You can’t have the relationship of your dreams if you don’t love yourself and the content, the coaching, and the community really help.

And, most Importantly, find a husband who ticks all of your boxes and makes you his #1 priority.

Stop settling on players, narcissists, and commitmentphobes. Love U is the world’s most effective program in helping you look inside your blind spots, cure your relationship worries, and get the lasting love you deserve. I’m going to help you understand men and find a passionate, committed partner for life.

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Love is possible for everyone. I get it now! I use to be so jaded about love and now I am a bonafide hopeless romantic.

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Regardless of how women want to go about finding the relationship they want and need, you are the one to help them find it... Thank you so much for everything!!

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"I wish everyone could do Love U. I’ll continue to back Evan because I feel as though he’s the best dating coach out there by far."

Love U Is Right For You If…

Love U Is Wrong For You If…

The way I see it, you have two Options today:

Option #1

You continue to go at it alone, stay stuck in the cycle of dating the wrong men without knowing why and never find the husband of your dreams.

Or…

Option #2

You make the simple decision today to join Love U – your GPS that shows you the quickest, easiest and clearest path to get the love you deserve in just 5 minutes a day.

So, which will it be?

Just imagine graduating from Love U with the Relationship you’ve always wanted and deserved.

Just imagine graduating from Love U with the

Relationshipyou’ve always wanted and deserved.

Whatever pain you’ve suffered. Whatever fears you’ve harbored. Whatever doubts you’ve had about yourself or men in general…that’s over now.

Now’s the time to put that fear behind you and change your life forever.

Starting now, you will never again spend a second too long with the wrong man and you will easily know how to attract and keep the right man.

There will be no more worry, no more drama, and no more loneliness.

Your husband will do everything he can to make you happy, every single day.

That’s what good men do.

If you’re a smart, strong, successful woman who has everything but the guy and you need help finding the unconditional love that has eluded you, this could be the most important decision you ever make.

Pause for a moment, close your eyes, and imagine the relationship you’ve always wanted.

Are you ready to make that dream a reality?

This is your time. Don’t let it pass you by.

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