You’re About to Learn the Real Reason a Man
Will Suddenly “Disappear” from Your Life…
Even if He Seemed Into You
or Told You He Loved You…

Hi,

Thanks so much for visiting my website. I know your time is valuable, and I know there’s a lot written on this page, so if you already know you want to know "Why He Disappeared - The Smart, Strong, Successful Woman's Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever", just click below:

I’m excited to share with you the secrets of what men are really thinking, but before I do, I want to ask you a question about your past:

Have you ever felt an intense connection with a man - one where you felt like you "just knew" it was right?

You know what I´m talking about.

He was good looking and charming. He seemed to "get" you and seemed to know exactly what to say to make you feel good. He gave you butterflies when you thought about him and your knees would go weak when he´d look at you a certain way.

Your Heart Raced Every Time The Phone Rang,
Hoping It Was HIM

He gave you that hopeful, anything-is-possible feeling. You know that feeling. You love that feeling.

Nothing is more real. Nothing is more exciting. Nothing gives you more hope about the prospect of true love. And since all the positive signs were there, you began to look further ahead.

You started to picture your future together.

You told your friends and family about him.

You imagined events down the road - traveling, holidays, kids.

You had every reason to think he felt the same way. He told you that you were beautiful and sexy. He would ask you if you’ve ever been to exotic destinations and that maybe one day he’d take you. He’d hold your hand and share his dreams of having a family someday.

He seemed so into you. Everything was going so great.

Then, Suddenly, Out Of Nowhere, He DISAPPEARED

At first, you didn´t believe it was really happening. You figured it must be some miscommunication.

He told you he´d call you, but he didn´t.

He didn´t call the day after that, either. Or the next. He didn´t e-mail, or text, or anything. Zilch. Zip. Nada.

So you began to make excuses for him to make yourself feel better.

"Maybe he just got busy."

"Maybe he’s having a hard week."

"Maybe he’s in a bad mood."

You tried to stay calm, but inside, you were an emotional wreck. You attempted to piece things together in your mind. Did you do something wrong without even knowing?

No, you told yourself. Everything was perfect.

You went through the checklist in your mind. He definitely found you attractive. He definitely made an effort to see you. He definitely talked about making future plans.

So What Happened?
It Just Didn’t Make Any Sense For Him To Disappear

You took a chance and decided to send him a quick note, "Haven’t heard from you in a few days. Everything okay?"

But it had already been a few days since you sent him an email, and you still hadn’t heard back from him.

You started to worry. You became despondent.

You contemplated breaking your telephone silence and calling him.

But you knew better. You held back. You stayed cool.

A few days later, there was a ray of hope. He responded to your email with his own email: "Sorry I’ve been out of touch. I’ll try to call you soon."

You told yourself that this was good news. But deep down, you knew what would happen. A few more days went by and he didn’t follow up. Another week passed. Finally, you couldn’t help yourself.

You called him. You texted him. You called him again.

Nothing. It’s as if he fell off the face of the Earth.

Once again, a promising guy disappeared... and, to this day, you still have no idea why.

You Know You Could Have a Chance
of Getting Over Him and Moving On...

If Only You Knew WHY He Disappeared

Disappearing men are the most common dating issue in the entire world, and yet there don’t seem to be any solutions. Worse, you find that you can’t successfully move on.

You meet other guys who don’t give you the same spark.

You spend nights thinking about where you went wrong.

You burn up countless hours with your friends, who assure you that he didn’t deserve you, that he’s intimidated by you, that he’s an emotionally unavailable player who’s afraid of commitment.

And while you want to believe them, a part of you wonders if you might have played a small role in why he disappeared.

If you’d only understood him better, if you only handled things smoother, if you had only given him what he wanted, maybe there would have been a different outcome.

I hate to tell you, but your instincts are right.

You could have kept your intense connection alive...

You could have avoided this sadness and confusion...

You could have had the relationship of a lifetime...

...if you’d only understood the unspoken desires of men.

Now, for the first time, you can.

Stop Wasting Your Precious Time and Energy Obsessing
And Become More Successful In Dating
By Learning From Your Mistakes

“Be Amazed At How Much Better Your Love Life Becomes.” “This book is so simple yet so profound and important. If every woman knew and actually DID what it suggests, there’d be a lot more WILDLY happy women - make that COUPLES - in the world. I LOVE ‘Why He Disappeared’ and agree with every word. Get it, read it, reread it and commit it to memory, and then stand back and be amazed at how much better your love life (not to mention your whole life!) becomes.” Carol Allen Love Coach and Author of "Love is in the Stars"

First of all, it’s not your fault that you don’t understand men. There are no high school or college classes on this subject, no dating Masters degrees that you can put on your wall.

You go to school, you date around, you fall in love, you fall out of love. You break a few hearts. You have your heart broken. This is the way we pursue relationships.

As an intelligent woman, you’ve probably even noticed patterns in your behavior. Your attraction to cute, charismatic alpha males. Your aversion to nice guys who bore you. Your desire to find a man who is taller, smarter, more generous, and more successful than you. Your refusal to settle with the wrong guy, no matter what.

You feel like you’ve learned a lot, yet the results are always the same:

You don’t want the men who do want you.

You want the men who don’t want you.

And after the latest disappearing act from a man who really seemed like he cared, you’ve just about had it. You’re determined to figure out WHY this keeps happening, WHAT you can do to prevent it, and HOW to avoid men who will break your heart.

But, for the life of you, you can’t figure this puzzle out.

You know you’re a great catch.

You know that you’ve got a lot to offer.

You know that you’re smart, interesting, independent, and passionate.

All you’re looking for is a man who has all of these qualities as well.

Is that so wrong?

Of course not! Really, you deserve it!

Still, Everywhere You’ve Turned For Advice,
You Haven’t Learned A Thing You Didn’t Already Know

Your friends, your family, women’s magazines, dating books, Oprah: everyone reminds you that you’re a goddess, a princess, a diva. Love will find you when you least expect it! Don’t waste the pretty!

And yet here you are, at the end of your rope, after spending one month, three months, six months, one year, WASTING your precious time on another man who disappeared.

STOP!

The secret to understanding men doesn’t rest in talking to other women.

You Want To Know The Truth About Men?
Listen To A Man

And not just any man. You want to learn from a man who’s made it his life’s work helping women understand men and teaching them how to have more fun with dating and relationships.

My name is Evan Marc Katz. I’m a dating coach who has written two previous books on relationships, and coached thousands of women to understand men. Before getting married in 2008, I was a serial dater, had numerous six-month girlfriends, three-month trial relationships, six-week flings, and, yes, even a few one-night stands.

In other words, I’m not just a professional dating coach, I’m also the guy who disappeared on you. The guy who seemed like he was really into you, but was having second thoughts in his head the whole time.

And I’m speaking for other men - quality men - who have done the exact same thing. We are smart, we are kind, we are successful, and we are as relationship-oriented as you are.

But there are a few major mistakes that the most impressive women routinely make, which drive men to seek out other relationships.

After fifteen years of dating and seven years of coaching, here are the three biggest ones I’ve been able to identify:

The 3 Biggest Mistakes Women Make
That Cause Men To Disappear

 

 

“I've Found A Sense of Peace Around My Dating That I’ve Never Had Before...” “Before reading "Why He Disappeared," I would put a lot of hope and expectation into every encounter and into any new guy I’d start to date. This inevitably led to big disappointment when things didn’t work out. Earlier this year, I found myself at my wit’s end – once again left wondering what went wrong, or what I did wrong, after another non-starter relationship. And that’s when I contacted you...and what led to my breakthrough. Actually, you broke through to me by helping me shift my perspective. It took a while... but I finally get what you mean when you talk about letting go of control. More specifically, letting go of trying to control what I can’t control – namely, anyone other than myself. Letting go has given me confidence. It’s given me choice. But, most of all, it has set me free. From anxiety (will he call/care/commit?). From worry (why isn’t he calling/caring/committing?). And from self-doubt (what am I saying/doing wrong?). By letting go I’ve found a sense of peace around my dating that I’ve never had before. I now know not every date I go on has to, or will, mean something. And instead of sweating the "what does it all mean?!" stuff, I’m focused only on having fun and being a fun date. It’s been working for me and it appears to be working for my dates. But don’t take my word for it. Here’s a snippet from an email I received the morning after a recent date I went on: "I just wanted to say that I really enjoyed spending a few hours with you yesterday. Your down-to earth attitude and easy-going demeanor made me feel at ease. I hope we can meet again and pickup where we left off." Thank you so much for giving me the jump start I needed to get going...and to keep going!” Best, Elizabeth Toronto

 

The One Reason That Men Disappear,
More Than Any Other, By Far...

For too long, you’ve accepted this pain as just part of the dating process.

It doesn’t have to be.

There are women out there – not many, but a few – who are really good at handling men.

There are women who are in happy relationships, women who have happy marriages, women who don’t spend any time wondering about why he disappeared or when he’ll disappear.

It’s not that these women are smarter than you (they’re not), prettier than you (they’re not), or kinder than you (they’re not). Perhaps they have brothers. Maybe they have lots of guy friends. They could have had a number of long-term relationships. Whatever it is, there’s a handful of women who know what makes men tick.

That’s the big issue, isn’t it? Why do guys do what they do? Why are they so confusing?

They’re confusing because you are not a man. (Believe me, that’s a good thing!)

But just like 99.99% of men could use a crash-course education in understanding women, the vast majority of women have never bothered to view the world through a man’s eyes.

And if you’re only viewing the world through your eyes, you’re only getting half the picture.

I’d like to give you the rest of the picture.

I’d like to explain to you why men choose some women and not others.

I’d like to illustrate to you that the women who do best with men are those who truly love men for all that they are.

Strong. Smart. Sexy. Generous. Thoughtful. Sensitive. Funny.

Believe it or not, there are LOTS of men out there who are ALL of these things – but they may not be looking for you as you’re looking for them.

I should know. I was one of those guys. I have no doubt that I was the subject of a few dozen "why did he disappear?" conversations.

I also know that despite seeming like a player, I was always looking for a relationship, I never wanted to hurt anyone, and would never openly criticize a woman I was dating. I was a genuinely good guy who wanted to settle down and have a family, but went through hundreds of dates who didn’t understand me as a man.

On paper, there was nothing wrong with these women. Smart, successful, interesting, educated, attractive, sophisticated, ambitious, opinionated – these were the qualities that drew me to them. Yet they were never enough.

It wasn’t until I met my wife – with two brothers, an ex-husband and a father in the military – that I truly found a woman who understood men, who knew how to make me WANT to commit to her for a lifetime.

My attractive, relationship-oriented male clients feel the same way. Every single one has identical frustrations with the women they date, which has nothing to do with how these women look, how smart they are, how funny they are, how successful they are, or how educated they are.

Date after date, week after week, it’s always the same story: Men of all different ages, of all different stripes, from all over the world pass up amazing women for reasons that the women have never even considered.

Yet somehow, I still didn’t think there was a need to create an entire book around just one question.

Then I found myself on the phone with a close friend who happened to be a business coach. She’s in her early 40’s, attractive, successful, and highly self-aware. When we were discussing her latest fizzled relationship, the first thing she said was: "If you could write something that explains, once and for all, why men disappear in the middle of dating, you would be doing the world a great service."

I immediately got to work.

“Evan's Guide Showed Me What I WAS DOING WRONG” “Ouch!!!! That hurt. I mean really, really hurt. I read the entire book in one sitting. Reading Why He Disappeared was like reading my own personal dating history replete with failures. Except this time, I have the opportunity to get it right. I just told my boyfriend of 3 months (yes, he does all of the things on the checklist) that I totally trust him...and that was the night before WHD went on sale. This came as the result of another single, mutual friend of ours trying to sabotage our relationship. It made us stronger. It made me anxious to buy Evan's book. I am a successful, independent, African American attorney. I live in Memphis, TN which, among other issues, does not have the greatest reputation for being a place where singles can live, thrive, and DATE. I am now dating a wonderful and successful African American man whose devotion to me never ceases to amaze me. We are both in our late 30s (I am 37 and he is 36), and yes, I do want children someday. Neither one of us have children. Although, I am in a relationship, I found the advice on page 35 of the book regarding what men want to be highly enlightening. I too believed that just being beautiful (I am often told this by men and women alike), successful, financially stable, secure, confident, and a great cook, would cause me to have men lined up down the street and around the corner--not so. I blamed it on the "shortage of dateable/marriagble black men". I blamed it on the fact that most of the men I date have not acquired the success (nor the financial stability) I have, and they are intimidated. Evan's guide showed me what I WAS DOING WRONG. When my guy called last night (he works in corporate America and travels with his position), we talked, I giggled softly, I did not indict him for his perceived flaws, he asked if I minded cooking lasagna for him when he returns this weekend, I obliged. When we hung up the phone, I COULD FEEL THE SHIFT. He called me back before going to sleep thanking me for being supportive of him. We have been friends since we were 16, and yes, I do LOVE this man. Thanks to you, Evan, I now have a fighting chance with this relationship before knocking myself out of contention. No, I do not know whether I will marry him, but if even my excuses about the shortage of men of my ethnicity could be dissolved by reading your book, then ANY woman's excuses should dissolve just as rapidly. THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS GIFT WITH THE WORLD. Sincerely," Rachelle P.

What I’ve compiled in my eBook, "Why He Disappeared - The Smart, Strong, Successful Woman's Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever" are the very things that men hope and pray that you figure out on your own.

The same exact way you hope that a man will simply listen to you instead of telling you how to fix your problems...

...or you hope that a man will instinctively make a great effort to meet your friends and family because it’s important to you...

...or you hope that a man will immediately tell you that he sees a future with you instead of playing games because his commitment makes you feel secure...

The same way that you wish that men just UNDERSTOOD this stuff naturally, men actually wish that they were understood, too.

The Secrets to Understanding Men
Are No Longer Secrets

"I wish you really understood me."

It’s likely that none of the men you’ve dated has ever said this to you.

They’ve probably never even said this to their friends! But they HAVE said to it to me. Not the bad men – the bad men are clueless - but the GOOD men. The men you want. The men who make you laugh. The men who believe in chivalry. The men who want families. The men who value commitment. These are the men I’m speaking for.

My eBook, "Why He Disappeared" provides an insider’s view of the entire dating process. For the first time, you will observe your own behavior during dates, courtship, and relationships from a man’s perspective.

I’ve decided to publish my book exclusively online in electronic format, so you can download it right now, and be reading it within just a few minutes...

Finally, you’ll understand what’s been getting in your way these many years, and how close you already are to being the woman of an incredible man’s dreams.

With the Insights You’ll Learn Through 'Why He Disappeared',
You’ll Begin To Experience Men and Dating

In an Amazing New Way...

You’ll be able to tell within a couple of weeks if a man is serious about you. And if he isn’t, you’ll just be able to walk away, with your confidence sky-high because you’ll know exactly what went wrong and that it wasn’t your fault.

You’ll be able to enter each new relationship with power and optimism, instead of fearing that moment when things come crashing down.

You’ll finally know the 3 secrets of what effective women do with men to make them never want to leave.

You’ll feel amazing because you’ll be able to cut off all of the men who are only interested in you casually, and focus exclusively on the men who have long-term interest in you.

You’ll be able to learn how to make the kind of man that makes you feel weak in the knees want to commit to you, so you can experience the incredible feeling of having the RIGHT man want YOU for a change.

You’ll learn how to feel so assured and relaxed around a man, that you come across as naturally very likeable, warm and magnetic and don't have to worry about whether he will ask you out again.

You’ll learn how to read a man’s signals from the first date, so you’re not wasting years of your life on a man who will just disappear one day.

You’ll finally be able to stop the parade of awkward coffee dates, delayed follow ups and late night texts, and be in a relationship with a man who consistently does what he says, says what he means, and treats you the way you’d like to be treated.

You’ll finally know what men think about paying for a date, the first kiss, the first sexual encounter and most importantly, a foolproof way to make sure these "touchy" issues never backfire on you again.

You’ll be able to trust a man and get rid of that cloud of confusion and anxiety that often comes with dating. You’ll never again wonder why he does what he does, when he’s going to call, or what you should do differently. You’ll know, deep inside, that whatever you’re doing, it’s the right thing.

With the information and insights you’ll learn in my eBook, "Why He Disappeared," you’ll be able to completely change your experience with men and dating. You’ll know how to effortlessly move a man toward a more secure and stable relationship. You’ll feel better, date smarter, and experience the kind of confidence and happiness you’ve always dreamed of.

The most important, earthshattering, revolutionary idea about the men who have disappeared and left you broken-hearted. Learn this, and drop a lifetime of pain and confusion, freeing yourself up for true love. What traits desirable men desire most of all in a woman. The answers will surprise you! The big mistake most women make in assuming that the reason he disappeared after a first date is because he’s not attracted to you. In fact, 85% of the time that he disappears, it’s because of something you did on the date! Find out what that is. The dozens of things that men do to please you on the first date and the ONE thing you have to do to please them in return! The only method that shows you how to keep a man interested when you’re not having sex, and to ensure that he 100% definitely will call you after you do have sex. What men REALLY think about kissing on a first date and how he feels when you turn the other cheek. How to instantly determine if your boyfriend is using you for the short-term or is in it for the long haul. It’s simple. It’s fast. And it gives you the clarity you deserve. Find out what attractive, successful single men are fighting against every time they’re in a relationship, so you can know EXACTLY what he’s thinking and feeling about "settling down". Why knowing how to change a man is NOT the answer to being happy and secure, and the one thing you CAN control and change immediately. How to turn your love life around by simply changing your perspective in this one, specific way. The KEY to having a relationship with an ALPHA MALE. It’s knowing when and where to do this... The 3 basic emotional needs that men have that you can easily fulfill – if you know what they are! The number 1 quality that men look for in a woman – without it, it doesn’t matter if you’re gorgeous, thin, smart, rich, or cultured, because he’ll lose interest. What you should do when you leave work to ensure that you’re the most attractive version of yourself on a date. Do this and every man will want a second date with you. How a 5-minute exercise can literally turn around an entire date. Not only will it make him like you more, but it’ll make you like HIM more, too! How to let go of years of pain and frustration and leave it buried in the past where it belongs. 3 ways in which you’re ACCIDENTALLY sending him the message that you’d rather be anywhere else except on a date with him, even if you think he’s HOT. How you can connect equally well with average guys and intellects, and make each and every date into a positive experience. 10 simple things you can do to make a man feel special on a date so he’ll ask you out again. Are you inadvertently making him feel UNIMPORTANT? If so, you could be making him lose interest and disappear. Find out how to avoid this critical mistake. A guaranteed method to determine if a guy is serious about you after the first date. The key is in remembering that it doesn’t matter what happens on the first date, it’s how he follows up AFTER... The only philosophy you’ll ever need when dating a new guy. This can’t miss advice about letting men reveal themselves through their efforts will change your life forever! Exactly how much time you need to set aside each week to ensure that love can enter your life (you NEED to take this seriously). The reasons why you may have thrown away a potentially GREAT HUSBAND by dismissing a man for certain dating faux pas. How to know if he’s a diamond in the rough. "Forgive the ignorance" — what you need to do in order to open up more dating and relationship opportunities for yourself and end up with a great guy. The one all-purpose method for dealing with the check at the end of a date. Do this and there will never be another awkward moment – for either of you. The 2 things that you MUST pay attention to in determining a man’s level of interest in you. Hint: it’s not how cute he is, how smart he is, or how he makes you feel! What to do after a man tells you he’s fallen in love with you, but hasn’t discussed commitment yet. The right time to bring up serious relationship issues – and have them taken seriously by your boyfriend! You know what it feels like to date a man who’s just way too into you? A little annoying, right? Here’s how to know if you’re accidentally inspiring the same kind of feelings inside of HIM, too. A man will start to lose interest if he senses THIS in the way you talk about your past relationships. The most important thing you can say to yourself when your guy has put his foot in his mouth or done something really stupid. Learn this and change your life! The 3 most valuable techniques that the smartest women use to keep the relationship healthy. I literally married my wife because she knew these 3 techniques! Have patience with this one thing about him and you’ll endear yourself to him like no other woman. Do you assume that ALL men are lying, emotionally unavailable, commitmentphobic? If so, learn why this is a MASSIVE mistake. Why giving a man this ONE THING (it’s not sex) will make him be loyal and faithful more than anything else. Without this, good men will quickly disappear. Why men would often rather hang out with their guy friends - and what you can do to become part of his innermost circle. The kind of self-help books that men read and the ONLY reason that a man will ever choose to change for your relationship. How to avoid the deadly "Chemistry Trap": his amazing qualities blind you to his bad qualities and you never get the relationship you deserve. The key to figuring out which issues you can deal with from men, and which ones you should run from. The answer might surprise you! The Perfection Principle – until you get this, you’re going to continue to pass up the most amazing men who come into your life. The qualities in men you should NEVER accept and the qualities in men you should ALWAYS accept. You’ve been getting them backwards all these years!

If you’re wondering whether you can really get all of this from an eBook, and, more importantly, whether it will actually make an impact on your life, I don’t blame you. You should be skeptical. Smart women always are.

But I was delighted to find out that "Why He Disappeared - The Smart, Strong, Successful Woman's Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever" is not just effective in theory; it works wonders in practice. Just ask some of the readers who have already taken my advice to heart.

“I Think I Found You Just In The Nick of Time.” “I wanted to give feedback about your new book. It is awesome! I have always struggled with the whole ''let the guy pursue you'' concept. From a woman''s perspective, I always want to be up-front about my interest level, and thought that if I didn't show interest, the guy would move on. I am in the ''courting phase'' in my current relationship (yes, we met online). Every fiber of my being wanted to e-mail my new guy today, just to let him know that I was thinking of him, etc. But after reading your book, I decided to take your advice and Don't. Do. Anything. It was grueling! (And, BTW, he had said to me casually a couple of times that ''it's all about the chase, don't forget that.'' ) BUT, hours later, he sent me a very sexy e-mail, then sent me a text message. And I followed your instructions, and responded happily to his e-mail and his text. Now, the other part of the book that resonated with me was written by your wife, so you get no credit. Mr. Right has a big family ''birthday dinner'' on Sunday because 4 of his family members have birthdays within a few weeks. He did not ask me to attend this event. I was hurt at first, but after reading what your wife wrote, I understand that him not inviting me to this, has nothing to do with me. We're going on a trip to Aruba next week. I think I found you just in the nick of time. Many thanks, Evan! Your advice is spot-on, and sometimes (from a female perspective) hard to swallow." Mary

 

“The Result Was That I Let the Man of My Dreams Walk Right Into My Arms” “When I started reading WHD, I was hooked immediately. I felt so relieved to learn how to focus on men's behaviours instead of words, but especially, how to flatter and bring out the best in the men I was dating. This took the pressure off, made dating more fun, and was extremely effective at making men feel comfortable. As well, I learned a very important lesson about how to recognize the good things men were doing, which I often overlooked, and forgive their minor mistakes. I applied Evan's approach and saw immediate results. Suddenly, I was in control - the men I were dating always called me back for another date. It was so easy! I felt like I was finally effectively showing who I was during these dates: comfortable, confident, and charming. I had so much more fun on dates because by learning how to make men feel appreciated and at ease, I really feel that I got to see the best side of them, too! Shortly after, I met a man I was very interested in but who had a very successful and busy life. Things moved slowly at first given his busy schedule. Eventually he told me I was irresistible and he had to be my boyfriend. We couldn't be happier! I feel absolutely fantastic. There is no better feeling than knowing you are putting your best foot forward and are in control of your dating life, instead of the other way around. Using Evan's tools, I was able to effectively show men who I am, make them comfortable and at ease around me and wanting more. The result was that I let the man of my dreams walk right into my arms. It still feels surreal, it's so great!” Elizabeth New York

 

How To Know If This Book Is For You

If a man consistently calls you when he says he will, and is always pushing to see you again, to the point of where you NEVER worry where the relationship is going or if he’s into you, then you don’t need this book.

If you’re the one who ALWAYS says "no" to a man or you’re the one who loses interest FIRST, then you don’t need this book.

If your man tells you he loves you and has COMMITTED himself fully to you and your relationship, and his actions are in alignment with his words, then you don’t need this book.

However...

If you’re confused and hurt because a man suddenly stopped calling for no apparent reason, then you need this book to learn what happened and get peace of mind.

If you’re anxious and waiting for “the other shoe” to drop with a man, you need this book NOW. Why? Because you may already be sending the wrong subliminal message that could make him disappear.

If you’re afraid to be vulnerable because you don’t want to get hurt if he disappears just like the last guy, then you need this book. You’ll learn exactly how to get what you want out of a relationship without closing yourself off.

If you seem to only want the men who don’t want you, and the ones who stick around are simply all wrong for you, you’ll discover why that happens and what to do about it.

If you’re agonizing over a man because you’re afraid that he’ll hurt you, be sure to download my book right away and begin with the section called “Why He Disappeared From Your Relationship.” You’ll learn how to make a necessary shift in attitude, so you can feel confident and relaxed around him instead of constantly on edge.

If you would love to know the secret to getting self-proclaimed lifelong bachelors and “players” to stop giving you the runaround, you’ll learn the 3 secrets to getting a quality man to settle down with you. These are highly effective insights from my wife, who really understands men. It’s her understanding that got a lifetime dater like me to finally pop the question!

“Why He Disappeared” will reveal things about men and dating you’ve been confused about your entire life. With the clarity and understanding you’ll get from reading my book, you’ll actually enjoy dating and relationships much, much more.

Understanding the Male Point Of View
Is The KEY To Connecting With A Man
And Inspiring Him To Be Committed, Devoted

And Worthy Of Your Love

I hope it’s already clear, but if not, I’ll come out and say it:

YOU are the reason I wrote "Why He Disappeared."

You could be my sister. You could be my friend. You could be my client.

My point is that I know women like you and I care deeply for your well-being. And nothing kills me more than knowing that you’re in such pain over your romantic relationships.

It just doesn’t seem fair.

You’ve got everything going for you, except for the one thing that is most important in life.

You’ve put yourself on the line, taken another chance on love, only to watch yet another guy disappear.

You’ve done your best to stay positive, but you’re struggling to keep up even a glimmer of hope.

And who could blame you? When every single relationship ends in disappointment, what incentive is there to keep on going?

That’s right. Not much.

Which is why you MUST do something different. Instead of staying the course and inviting in the same players and liars and emotionally unavailable guys, you need to open up to a new world view: the male one!

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“I Wanted To Thank You Evan For Giving Me That Perspective To Understand” “I'm a 25 year old British girl who has recently come back to the UK after living abroad for four years. In that time I had a lot of boyfriends but none really stuck longer than a few months - and I thought it was because I always knew I was going to leave (I moved every year or so) and didn't really commit fully (even though I was desperate to). I thought that when I came back to England everything would fall into place and I'd settle down. I have a lot of friends and am generally a very happy, easy going person. I also have three brothers so am very at ease with men and didn't struggle getting dates but just couldn't get over that two month hump. I've only had one long term relationship that broke up when I was 20. I had to conclude that I was good on paper but not in reality, as a girlfriend, and I needed to know why. The biggest lesson I learned from WHD was to relinquish control. It's been liberating. It's still very early days with W but it's been nothing but a positive experience and I'm having a lot of fun. I'm used to being proactive in everything I do, so waiting for him to get in touch with me, for him to ask for another date and organise it, and for him to pay is a real shift but I'm loving it. I don't feel needy, I don't feel like I'm hanging around waiting for him to reply, and I'm not in any rush to cement and confirm what's going on. It's ok to just go with the flow. I always wanted a man who I felt would look after me, but never let anyone even try before. Now I am and he's rising to the challenge. I also have some perspective on it all because I don't feel consumed by this relationship. Yes I enjoy his company but no I won't be a shell of my former self if it doesn't work out. I wanted to thank you Evan for giving me that perspective to understand - I feel more myself in this relationship than I ever have before, even though the nuance has shifted. Thanks again, and give my love to your clever wife for me :-)” Emma U.K.

 

“You Have Completely Changed My Life...” “So last week, I was SOOOOOOOOO in the dumps about how things were going, but this week I had such a major breakthrough! Man, you have just changed my life. There’s this Brazilian Jiu Jitsu instructor. He is texting me 20 times a day....saying all sorts of sexy things about how he wants me all to himself... completely lavishing me with an addictive amount of attention that I´m such a sucker for. I felt so obsessed with this guy I´ve never met... simply because he had lavished me with tons of attention, he was hot... has his act together and I was in the throes of obsession land; mainly because he was pulling back a bit, and I was feeling "not good enough". After reading your stuff, instead of obsessing about how I´m not going to be good enough, I started thinking... "Y´know... I´m not sure I´m ready to accept a potential relationship where I might be walking on eggshells". And I woke up feeling so FREEEEEE and in CONTROL. OMFG! I´ve never EVER turned around obsessive thoughts about a man into a feeling of control. That is all YOU, YOU, YOU! Wow! I can´t believe it. I would´ve been so caught up in his gesture of a "pretend commitment" before, that I would have been setting myself up for a huge fall! Because Mr. Jump-in-the-deep-end-head-first without knowing a person... jumps out of the pool just as quickly because it's based on NOTHING. He doesn´t know me and I don´t know him. As you said... he is seeing my POTENTIAL right now... not "Melissa". Evan...you´ve really changed my life. I just can´t think of a bigger gift than having control over my emotions when it comes to dating. NOTHING. No amount of money... no amount of success would have been able to give me this. This is almost BETTER than finding Mr. Right... just knowing I now have control over something that I felt so powerless over for so many years. THANK YOU EVAN! You have completely changed my life... probably more than any one person ever has!” Melissa California

 

“You Got Through Like No One Else Has Ever Been Able To...” “I am so extremely grateful to you. I walked into two of my clients’ houses yesterday and they said, "What´s his name?" because they said I was glowing and luminous. They´ve only seen me look like that before when I was infatuated with a new man. But I now feel this way because a huge weight has been lifted and I have a new path and outlook for my future. Do you have any idea how huge that is? I hope I just gave you the compliment of the year because that is big stuff; to make that kind of a difference. I´ve already made changes and "cleaned house". There are a couple guys that still text me that before talking to you, I would occasionally go out with, simply because they´re cute and funny, but they have big problems I overlooked before. I´m no longer going to date them. I just can´t even tell you. I´m a new person. You got through like no one else has ever been able to.” Carmela Seattle

 

“If A Guy Isn´t Acting The Way You Want, He´s Not The Right Guy For You. ” “You give great advice that takes 'He´s Just Not That Into You' a step further. I especially liked your points about the pros and cons of smart, attractive women and the need to persevere. Conventional wisdom is often wrong, such as "it´s a numbers game." If that were true, online dating would be easy. After 8 years of dating in my 30´s following a divorce, I feel like an expert myself. I think singledom is an epidemic in our country. With about 100 million singles, something in our society isn´t working and we need all the help we can get. One piece of advice you give to women who ask why men behave the way they do is that it doesn´t really matter. If a guy isn´t acting the way you want, he´s not the right guy for you. Great advice!” Angie

 

“I Am Definitely Enjoying The Ride” “I am an avid reader and have listened to your calls in the past. Pretty much anything you offer, I have soaked up like a sponge! And I just want to say thank you. I am actually beginning a new relationship with someone I met through a friend but if it weren´t for you and your advice, I wouldn´t be. Your advice helped me think of dating and men (and myself) in a whole new way and it’s because of that that I was able to have a better attitude towards all things dating! Thanks to your advice, I did put myself out there more AND I used your methods of filtering out the people I didn´t want to see. Because of your techniques, I was able to avoid some dates that would have gone horribly wrong. I also started thinking about giving people I didn´t initially think of "my type," a chance. That has directly impacted the relationship I have begun. We´re slowly getting to know each other, but I am definitely enjoying the ride! Thanks again and please keep doing what you do.” Lorien

 

“Resulted In A Great Relationship With My New Guy” “Just wanted to tell you thanks for all your coaching, which in fact... has resulted in a great relationship with my new guy Scott... I pass your tips on to all my single girlfriends, if only they would listen... LOL. I have a brand new perspective on dating, and yes, sometimes it sucks but I hold my ground now and everything has been great in the long haul.... So thanks and keep up the GREAT service you provide for us women...(who need to be told over and over that He’s Just Not That Into You!) Ha!” Kim New Jersey

 

“Your Material Was SO Impactful To Me That I Accepted A Marriage Proposal!” “This isn´t a question - it´s a THANKS! Your material was SO impactful to me that I accepted a marriage proposal! We were married in February - it´s going great and I tell people about you ALL of the time. Thanks Evan!” M.J. Michigan

 

“We Deserve To Be With Men Who Put In The Effort...” “I so appreciate what you said about "effort." We deserve to be with men who put in the effort and if he doesn't it's okay to leave but it's up to us to walk out the door. And of course I'm going to attract all kinds of men but it's up to me to ONLY accept the guys who treat me well! I don't have to settle because there are millions of single guys out there! Thanks again,” Donna H. Tennessee

 

“I Get It's Not About Changing, It's About What To Share About Myself” “I try and keep all your advice in mind and it certainly seems to work. I've met a new guy, and so far, so good; we seem rather compatible and have a great time together. The last few guys I've liked have been flakey, I considered whether I was somehow attracted to unavailable men and my brother said to me "Maybe it's not about you doing anything wrong, maybe you like the guys who have their stuff together and these guys do in every way except with women, which is why they are still single." From what I can tell, that really rang true. I get it's not about changing, it's about what to share about myself. I'll keep you posted. And again, congrats on the further evolution of your coaching empire.” Sheryl T. California

 

“You Clarify and Simplify What Women Find Hard to Verbalize” “Everything you write rings with the truth and I "like" them all, meaning: you clarify and simplify what women find hard to verbalize. Your work is a practical, useful guide to successful dating and relationship management. It's like a light bulb lighting up over one's head.” Michelle P. New York

 

“Because of My Work With You, I Completely Re-thought What Kind of Man I Was Looking For” “I *did* take all of your advice to heart and I changed my approach on the dating sites - and guess what? I met a wonderful Christian guy on Match.com. We were each other's match of the day! And at first, I thought, no way, he's Chinese (but he's tall which is good for me), he lives far away, he's not that attractive, but he's smart (a dentist) blah, blah, blah - then I had no chemistry for the first two dates......so why was I going to continue to see him? Because he is the nicest, smartest, and most fun man I have met - and we have tremendous chemistry (and I never dated an Asian man) and we have been dating for 2 months now...and we just might be able to go the distance. Time will tell. Because of my work with you, I completely re-thought what kind of man I was looking for and had a very short list of ''must-haves''. He treats me so well, is very genuine, stable, keeps his commitments, and a great kisser to boot! I am a lucky woman...just thought you'd want to know.” Brenda B. (who knows that all it takes is "one good man") Los Angeles

 

“Your Last Email, In Particular, Hit The Spot, Touched Me and Made Me Feel Cared For” “It´s funny, but even though I know you don´t actually know me, and thus, sign-offs like "Your friend "and "Warmest wishes" could be said to be unearned, meaningless, or, heaven forbid, sales ploys, I DO appreciate them, take them in and feel sincerity from them! There is a real sense of compassion and empathy in your writing about dating. You freely share your own losses and hurts in this arena, and what you write really feels geared to improving the reader´s chances of relationship happiness. I feel your concern about protecting my/our heart(s) from pain. Your last email, in particular, hit the spot, touched me and made me feel cared for. I feel like you´re God’s emissary, generously showing and explaining your bruises and strategies on how women should protect themselves. I thank you, here and now.” All the best, Susanne

 

“Something In Your Book Spoke To Me Like No Other Dating Coach Did” “I really feel like I gained a new respect for myself and realized that my past relationship was not working for me and hadn't for a long time. Something in your book spoke to me like no other dating coach did. Most dating coaches deal with what YOU can do to make the relationship better. Even my therapist did the same thing. From the time we are children we are told you will be successful at anything if you just try. That is not always the case in dating. While your book does provide skills for successful relationships, if the guy is a jerk, he's just a jerk. Your book gave me permission to evaluate the relationship for what it was and realize this is not the man for me and finally cut the tie as opposed to trying new ways to hang on to what wasn't worth hanging on to. Today I feel confident in myself and my ability to have a good solid relationship. I have acknowledged my own mistakes. I am also confident in knowing when it's time to get out as opposed to staying and beating my head against a wall for a year. Your book has alerted me that regardless of how much love, understanding and acceptance I apply, it just is not going go fix someone that is a mess! I have been seeing a nice gentleman. He lives an hour away. It's a good distance that allows me to learn to be me and do my own thing and gives him the same. I realize should the relationship grow closer, it may require more time together and less time with my girlfriends and I understand that. However, this relationship is moving at a very slow relaxed pace. It is exactly what I need right now. I will never be with a man that de-values me ever again. I know who I am and what I can bring to a relationship. Thanks to coaches like yourself, I feel like I can approach dating on a more cerebral level instead of just emotional. I've told myself that the next serious relationship I find myself in, my head and heart will be in sync!” Thanks Evan. You Rock! Freddie