Blog - Evan Marc Katz | Understand Men. Find Love.

Why Am I Not Attracted to Any Guys?

My sister is a beautiful, smart, and funny 29-year-old woman. She wants to get married and have a family someday, but her problem is that she’s not attracted to anyone.

Women in San Francisco Have Kids 10 Years Later Than Women in Rural Texas

Behold a telling infographic called “The Age That Women Have Babies: How a Gap Divides America.” While the average age of first childbirth is still 26, that’s a median between two extremes.

Why Would My Boyfriend Suddenly Break Up with Me?

I’d been in what seemed like the perfect dating relationship with a man for a couple months until just last week, when he broke up with me out of nowhere. I know a lot of articles tell people who were blindsided by breakups that just because the relationship seemed great to them, it doesn’t mean their partner had been feeling that way, too.

Porn: Not As Bad As You Might Think

The debate rages on in this surprising Slate article from earlier this summer. Can porn be addictive? Sure can.

How Do You Put Intimacy into an Intimate Relationship?

I followed your advice; dated a guy I normally wouldn’t have considered, let it slide when there wasn’t any chemistry, let him pick up the check, waited over a month to have sex, and stayed in the easy relationship where we never fight.

Women Have Mixed Emotions About Achieving Income Equality with Men

If it ever sounds like I’m beating the same drum over and over, that’s because every year it seems there is new research that validates conclusions drawn by this blog over the years.

THIS is exact the moment I knew I had to change my life…

My assistant had just quit and I was doing my own customer service for the first time in ten years. While I was going through the support inbox, I noticed a email from a woman who was very unhappy with her customer experience.

I’m Still Thinking About the Guy Who Ghosted Me

So, I was dating a guy for two months and things were going pretty great in my opinion! However, he started to do the slow fade after spending the night (no sex). I recognized what this was early on, and just let it be!

How You Can Create a Positive Friend Network Starting Now

Right before I got married, I had a therapist who told me something I never forgot.“Evan,” he said, “life is just a big hunk of Swiss cheese. The problem is that you only look at the holes and never even notice the cheese.”

I Followed Your Dating Advice for the First Time and WOW!

I am a long time reader. I am a tall, educated, beyond athletic, attractive woman who is successful and age 42. I entered college to get my higher level degrees later in life, and my classmates assumed I was in my 20s (whilst in my late 30s) and I was asked out often by them