Blog - Evan Marc Katz | Understand Men. Find Love.

What is Cheating?

Certain themes come up frequently around here and this is one of them. What IS cheating? Where do you draw the line? Is it purely physical? Is it emotional? Can you be a cheater just for thinking about someone but never acting on it?

I’m Upset That My Non-Boyfriend Isn’t Acting Like My Boyfriend

I’ve been dating this guy for about three months. He has worked out of the country for 2 of those three months and just got back home this week. While he was away he called me or texted me everyday, was very attentive and made the effort to keep in contact since he was on the other side of the world.

When You Should Break Up with a Guy (Hint: NOW May Be a Good Idea!)

I like Sophia Benoit from GQ. Her prose doesn’t descend to the levels of most first-person journalism you’d read in EliteDaily or Elephant Journal. This piece, simply called “When to Walk Away From a Bad Relationship,” is something I wholeheartedly endorse as one of the few dating coaches who believe it’s better to find an easy relationship than it is to double down on fixing a broken one.

Is it Okay to Talk with a Man About His Small Penis?

I met a great guy on Match two months ago and we’ve been spending a good amount of time together since. We have great conversation, and have fun together no matter what we do. He values me for who I am, and it feels great that I can completely be myself around him.

5 Easy Ways to Make People Like You More

Vanessa Van Edwards does YouTube videos and articles about charisma on her website, The Science of People. I ran across this one and thought it was applicable to dating.

My Husband Sucks and I Want to Cheat on Him but I Know It’s Wrong

I am a married woman who has husband and a son. I have recently got in touch with my first ex. Well, technically we never met. I met him 20 years ago and for some reason we didn’t meet up and it has always been a void in my heart.

Do Men Have It Easier? Ask a Transgender Man

In the never-ending gender wars that take place in the media (and on blogs), I think it’s important to continue to gather more information and listen to different voices. As a reader, your perspective is largely limited by your own gender and experience.

Why Am I Not Attracted to Any Guys?

My sister is a beautiful, smart, and funny 29-year-old woman. She wants to get married and have a family someday, but her problem is that she’s not attracted to anyone.

Women in San Francisco Have Kids 10 Years Later Than Women in Rural Texas

Behold a telling infographic called “The Age That Women Have Babies: How a Gap Divides America.” While the average age of first childbirth is still 26, that’s a median between two extremes.

Why Would My Boyfriend Suddenly Break Up with Me?

I’d been in what seemed like the perfect dating relationship with a man for a couple months until just last week, when he broke up with me out of nowhere. I know a lot of articles tell people who were blindsided by breakups that just because the relationship seemed great to them, it doesn’t mean their partner had been feeling that way, too.