The Rules: 20 Years Later, Do They Still Work?

The Rules: 20 Years Later, Do They Still Work?

I’m not interested in game-playing, refusing to return men’s calls, running late to keep him guessing or any such B.S. But from all my experience, I have yet to see much compelling evidence that pursuing a man the way women often like to be pursued is an effective strategy.

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I Look Better In Online Dating Photos Than I Do in Real Life!

I Look Better In Online Dating Photos Than I Do in Real Life!

Finally, I’ll remind you that a camera only capture what’s actually there. Which is to say that if you look good in a photo, you look exactly that way in real life. Please don’t continue to believe false and negative things about your own looks; it’s disempowering. You may be the cute cheerleader’s friend, but guess what? Guys find her attractive, too!

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