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Once upon a time – back in 2001, when I was working for JDate – this would have been my dream come true. Telling funny, true, relatable dating stories that had the potential to teach a lesson and reach a wide audience? Sign me up as a writer!
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Don’t say that to the woman who thinks that if she’s a self-made millionaire, she “deserves” to date a man who makes more.
And definitely don’t say anything to the millions of starry-eyed lovers who think that long-distance relationships are a good idea.
This New York Times piece by Kim Tingley (great name, if you’re writing about sex!) tried to come off as neutral but the structure of the piece – specifically the beginning and end – make it clear that the author very much WANTS men and women’s brains to approach sex similarly and DOESN’T want to discover that men and women are different.
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Was there ANY point in this story where he was kind? Patient? Sensitive? Thoughtful? Put your feelings first? Showed that he’d be a giving and willing partner? Demonstrated the kind of character you’d want to pass along to your children?
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I understand if you feel like, “I don’t want to DATE. I just want to meet my husband NOW.” Alas, that’s not how it works. Dating is an iterative process that allows you to see the world in a different light, hold up a mirror to yourself, and try on different people to see who fits (or, more likely, does not fit.)
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I have been posting blogs on Mondays and Thursdays for 10 years.You have not received one from me since January 2nd.That wasn’t me, taking a little holiday break.
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“Often, when driven people care about something and finally experience whatever they’ve been hoping to achieve — whether it’s a new relationship, a health goal, a promotion or something else altogether — they’re unable to entirely savor the good times. They may, in fact, do the exact opposite: endlessly worry about when their peak might plummet.”
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I have mixed emotions right now. On one hand, it’s wonderful hearing from women who have been so touched by my work. Yet it hurts to get so many reminders of the pain that you feel around men, dating and relationships. It kills me that I can’t singlehandedly help every single woman on this mailing list just by waving my magic wand.
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Last year, at this time, I offered an $18,000 Love U VIP Masters Coaching Scholarship to one woman from my mailing list. 200 women applied in less than a week.
After agonizing over the applications and doing a number of phone interviews, I chose a 41-year-old woman named Rania. It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
This is HIS problem and if you think you’re scared, believe me, he’s even MORE scared. And, just like being a parent to a child who is fearful, the best thing you can do is provide reassurance that everything is going to be okay. He’s already feeling vulnerable and thinking all the same thoughts that you are – except he’s really beating up on himself.
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I'm in my 60's and expected that I would not have a committed relationship again. I'm still dealing with issues internally of fear and past experiences, as is he. But we can talk about these things and know that we have something special.
To make a long story short, I am so happy because I met Mr. Right. He possessed the 3 important requirements that fit my need: chemistry, compatibility, and emotionally and physically attraction. We are committed and our relationship is going on strong for three years now.
John texts me crazy wonderful love texts to start and end every day. The roses are never from the grocery store...the Christmas presents were thoughtful and perfect. And I am wrapped in his wonderful love.
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