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Finding Fun, Passionate, Lasting Love is the NORM for Love U Graduates

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KARIN W.

"For any woman who wants a real and meaningful relationship but continues coming up short, you are the man for the job."

I can’t believe it’s taken me so long to tell you this, but … I’m married! Needless to say, this is a dream come true for me. I am so happy, because I feel safe and secure with a man who is devoted to me. He is everything I was looking for – although it took you to make me realize that. Of all the thank-you notes I have written, yours is the most important to me – because there is no way I would be a happily married woman today without you.

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DIANA B.

"Right now, I’m on my honeymoon in the Maldives with the man of my dreams, thanks to your work."

Hi Evan. I am writing to give you yet another success story from your coaching. I started reading your blog back in 2010, and followed your advice religiously. It took a while (like 2 years!) but I finally started applying your advice to my dating life. I knew it was working when I was dating a guy who other women were chasing, yet he was pressing me for commitment. I didn't think he was the one so I cut bait, but it was so EMPOWERING to be the one who made that choice vs the other way around.

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SAHAJA P.

"Blake are now engaged! Thanks for all your help and support in finding myself, and because of that, him."

I signed up for Love U in a moment of sheer desperation — being tired of being single, being tired of knowing I was doing something wrong and no one to tell me what it is. You always did tell it like it is. I have to say thank you for believing in me, and giving me confidence I didn’t know I had. Thank you for seeing that there was something to be seen in me, that I didn’t even know existed.

How bad did the doormat thing get? So bad. I was living under his roof, and made every meal. Never repeated a menu item in the 6 weeks we lived together, which was after a year of being together. A year where he was still free to meet other women. 6 weeks of living together where sometimes he didn’t come home. “Gone to Vienna, be back later” And sometimes I could sleep in his bed and sometimes I couldn’t. That wasn’t even the end of it, but those were things I did and totally thought were ok at the time. That is lower than low.

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CHRISTINE D.

"This week, I got a proposal and a beautiful ring - we'll get married later next year."

“A few years ago, when I was first introduced to Evan, I was feeling increasingly frustrated with my dating life. After divorcing an emotionally unavailable man after 23 years of marriage I had two difficult, long term relationships with men who were not stepping up and I had gotten used to being treated badly.

I’d had some difficult family situations to deal with as a single mother of three twenty somethings and Evan provided me with my first ‘Aha’ moment which was when he told me ‘You’ve been a great mother to your children, and a good daughter to your elderly mother but who’s been there for you Christine?’ This actually made me cry – I had been the ‘go to’ person for my children and the men I was dating were narcissists who had me hooked but were not good men.

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CARLA S.

"I followed your advice to a T, started online dating diligently, and met my husband after only meeting 4 guys online."

I'm a happily married woman that found my husband applying all your advice and tips. Five years ago, I was so frustrated with love and dating, I started reading your blog in hopes of learning something about men. Boy, did I learn something! I went ahead and bought your book "Why He Disappeared" and read every single one of your emails. I also read your blog diligently looking for answers and insight.

Are you the smart, strong, successful woman who has everything she wants in life… except her man?

You’re a great catch. You look amazing for your age. You’re smart and financially independent. You’re a kind person with a lot of love to give.

Your days are filled with meaningful work, close friends, and many hobbies, interests, and travel.

By all accounts, you have it all.

Yet despite having it all, you still find yourself looking enviously at your friends’ social media photos, feeling disappointed when you’re excluded from couples’ events, and continuing to insist that you’re perfectly happy being single.

In the rare moment where you stop to look inside, one thing becomes clear:

A fun, passionate, committed relationship is the only thing missing from your life…and you have no idea how to get it.

What makes it even more difficult is that you’re used to being successful.

You’re smart. Resilient. A problem solver.

So it’s even more frustrating when you see another woman who is not as impressive as you happily walking arm in arm with an attractive man.

Which is why it’s hard not to wonder: What do THEY have that I don’t?

Why them? Why not you? Why is it so hard to find a quality man who treats you well and wants to commit?

For the life of you, you can’t figure it out.

It may be hard to admit, but the first step on your journey to lasting love is to be 100% honest about your current situation.

Right now, take a moment and ask yourself, if…

You feel stuck, lost, and resentful because you don’t know how other women are getting guys to commit while you can’t.
You’re lacking the confidence to put yourself out there and are afraid of rejection after being hurt so many times in the past.
You’re paralyzed by fear that you’re going to end up in another dead-end relationship where your partner doesn’t meet your emotional needs.
You’re repeatedly falling for unavailable, inconsistent men or accepting negative, harmful relationships that don’t make you feel safe.

You don’t trust your judgment when it comes to men and you’re afraid of ending up with another player, cheater, or time-waster.
You’ve been burned by guys before, you’ve created an amazing single life and the last thing you want to do is “settle” on the wrong man.
You know you’re not doing things “right” but you don’t know what to do differently to ensure you’re not still single for the rest of your life.
You let your past mistakes affect you and assume the worst from men, dating, and relationships.

Over the years, you’ve probably developed a bad relationship with relationships. And it’s easy to see how.

If every promising relationship ultimately failed to last, it’s easy to conclude that nothing works and that you should give up on love entirely.

After all, you’ve already tried everything you can imagine:

You’ve tried online dating but got fed up with the lack of quality men.
You’ve tried dating apps but got stuck texting dozens of flakes.
You’ve tried singles events but only met low-quality guys.
You’ve tried setups but they always seem to fizzle after a couple of dates.
You’ve tried long-distance relationships but they always fall apart.
You’ve tried casual sex but discovered it didn’t lead to an amazing partner.
You’ve tried dating beneath your standards but always end up regretting it.
You’ve tried being the ‘cool girl’ but ended up feeling like a doormat.
You’ve tried giving nice guys a chance but were ultimately bored.
You’ve tried changing the narcissists but couldn’t get them to put you first.
You’ve tried asking friends for advice but it doesn’t seem to work.
You’ve tried YouTube and self-help books but they haven’t helped.
You’ve tried introspection and self-analysis but only feel worse afterward.
You’ve tried therapy but never made any tangible, lasting progress in love.

That’s a LOT of effort with very little reward.

Face it: what you’re doing just isn’t getting you to where you want to be – in a healthy, happy relationship with the man of your dreams.

If ANY of the above resonates and you’ve lost faith in yourself and your ability to have a happy, healthy relationship…

Don’t give up!

Thousands of women like you have overcome self-doubt, gained confidence in their ability to attract and choose quality men and found lasting love… and you can be next!

If you have a history of choosing the wrong men, this may sound
like a fantasy but it’s a reality for thousands of Love U graduates.

In this future we’re creating:

You never have to worry about whether he’ll call.

You never have to worry when you’re going to see him again.

You never have to worry about whether he’s going to leave you.

You never have to worry about speaking your mind and sharing your feelings.

You never have to worry about whether you can relax and be yourself.

All your anxieties and insecurities will be GONE.

Finally, you’ll have a partner who cares about you and puts your needs first.

Finally, you’ll live a life in which you don’t have to do everything by yourself.

Finally, you’ll feel the relief of being with a man who always has your back.

Finally, you’ll feel the joy of knowing that you have a guy who wants to take care of you, emotionally, physically, and financially.

One decision you make today could help you:

Carry yourself with unshakable confidence when it comes to all dating situations…

So you can connect with confident men who know exactly what they want. Soon, you’ll be the CEO of your own love life and make smart decisions in love with complete authority – and create a relationship that makes you feel amazing.

Learn how to fix your broken man-picker and be loved unconditionally…

So you can finally stop wasting time on liars, commitmentphobes, and selfish men who don’t communicate. Soon, you’ll start attracting the right kind of men and be able to trust your judgment in choosing a guy that’s right for you in the long run.

Overcome the pain of your past relationships and look to the future with optimism…

So you can be positive and stop being held back by the men who disappointed you before. Soon, you will start seeing the glass half-full and know, in your heart, that you’re going to share a life with a man who loves you unconditionally.

Become an empowered woman who can attract a marriage-oriented man…

So you never have to worry if he’s committed and finally relax into a safe, caring partnership. Soon, you’ll have all of the tools to operate from a place of abundance, set healthy boundaries, and build the future you’ve always wanted.

Find the right guy and share a deep, abiding, emotional bond…

So you can trust you’ve got a best friend who is selfless and prioritizes your happiness. Soon, you’ll have a happy, healthy relationship and never have to be traumatized by the insecurities that other men brought up in you.

Isn’t it time you wrote a new script for your life? Isn’t it time you finally found the loving, committed relationship you deserve?

If you’re searching for a way to meet a loving partner who always makes you feel safe, heard, and understood…

You’re in the Perfect place!

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INTRODUCINGTHE BEGINNING OF YOUR LOVE STORY!

Love U is your personal GPS that shows you the clearest path to a committed relationship. Just follow the directions and set your course to your final destination: real, powerful, and lasting love.

I’ve created Love U based on your needs, so you can have a seamless and stress-free experience.

Through weekly videos and exercises designed to teach you about dating, relationships, and men, Love U answers all the questions you have while you’re dating.” and “100% online, this program puts you in complete control of your destiny.

It’s interactive, fun, easy, and can be watched, read, or listened to at your leisure.

100% online and with direct access to me, Evan Marc Katz, this program puts you in complete control of your destiny.

Love U provides a proven formula and dating structure so you can attract men of the highest quality and create a passionate relationship that lasts forever.

Join Love U today and…

Gain unprecedented access to everything you need to know about dating, relationships, sex, and men from one of the world’s leading dating coaches!

Love U gives you the tools you need to navigate every situation in your dating life. It shows you what works, what doesn’t, and how you can improve your results through short, video content that’s easy to watch and fun to implement.

But, more than that, Love U is like having a personal life coach at your fingertips. You’ll be able to leverage the knowledge and experience of a happily married male dating coach who specializes in helping smart women find love.

How do I know it’ll work for you? Because I get to listen to Love U coaching members and graduates share their wins with me every day.

Coming home from a great first date. Taking down your profile. Going on your first weekend trip together. Meeting your boyfriend’s family. Hearing the words “I love you.” Receiving a ring and a teary-eyed proposal. Sharing your wedding photos with me after your honeymoon.

That’s Love U.

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Here’s what you get if you join

From building confidence to navigating online dating to choosing a boyfriend to figuring out if he’s a keeper and learning to communicate effectively, here’s everything you’ll discover in this online, exclusive, and life-changing program…

MODULE 1: Confidence

Confidence is a choice – and that choice is yours to make. I will show you exactly how acting from a place of confidence and abundance throughout the dating process will revolutionize your success with men and attract the man you deserve. You’ll learn how you can be the CEO who carefully chooses men based on their efforts instead of the intern who hopes she gets chosen by men.

Past Baggage

Why holding on to your last relationship only stops you from finding a better one.
The danger of thinking that the man you’re seeing is the Last Man on Earth. He’s not – and you can definitely do better!
Why Cinderella needs to try on a lot of shoes before she finds the perfect fit (and why she doesn’t get mad at her feet when they don’t!)
The curse of being a smart, strong, successful woman with high standards and what that means for you.
How to be both a short-term pessimist and a long-term optimist. If you don’t figure this one out, you’re doomed from the start.

‘Why Bother?’ Syndrome

Why there’s no time like the present to find love. No matter how much you’ve suffered, you’re better off doing something NOW than putting it off indefinitely.
The one thing that’s been keeping you from getting back out there. It’s simple – but it’s weighing on you and stopping you from reaching your life’s true purpose.
The inspiring success stories of my most challenging clients: a 73-year-old widowed woman, a paralyzed woman in a wheelchair and a woman in the remotest part of the Yukon. Learn how these women found lasting love and how you can apply their lessons.
Why dating and relationships are never a waste of time – except in this one specific instance.
The reason you should always bother to date. All of your bad experiences may have helped you forget how good it feels to find the love you want.

Confidence

What it means to be unreasonable – and why unreasonable people are the ones who find love faster than anyone.
The incredible story of a famous self-help author who couldn’t find love. Learn her 4 limiting beliefs that might be holding you back, too.
The value of getting a “small win” and seeing instant results in your love life. Small wins propel you into bigger and bigger victories.
Why the only thing to be afraid of in dating is NOT dating. I’ll teach you how to get over everything else.

Taking Action

How you already know (almost) everything you need to get happy – you just haven’t applied it yet.
Love is like a lottery and you probably don’t want to celebrate your winnings until you’ve gotten all 6 numbers.
Why there are many things to celebrate before you get a ring on your finger – and why it’s essential to take joy in them as you date.
A new, empowering definition of happiness that will get you into action and produce greater results than any relationship book you’ve ever read.

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MODULE 2: Meeting Men

Every second you spend with the wrong man is a second you’re not looking for the right one. I’ll show you how to fine-tune your man radar, stop accepting unacceptable treatment, and create unconditional love. You’ll learn to reject the wrong men quickly and attract honest, desirable men wherever you go.

Meeting Men

Why “where are all the quality men?” is the wrong question – and what question you SHOULD be asking to get better results in love.
The downside of being too independent and comfortable – and how if you’re very successful at being single it becomes even harder to become a couple.
The secret to getting more men to approach you. It’s a piece of cake – and all you have to do is understand what he’s thinking when he sees you.
Why you should never take a man’s card or ask him to call you. The right guy doesn’t need to be prodded to follow up with you.
If you’ve ever felt you weren’t good at email, phone, texting or dating, you’ll learn to make men stand up and pay attention.

Flirting

The one thing you need to assume before you start talking to a guy. Once you get this down, you’ll never have to worry about whether he likes you or not.
The art of verbal foreplay – and why being a woman is the only power you need to flirt with the cutest guys.
Why “playing hard to get” is the WORST advice you’ve ever been given – and why warm and positive feedback is the way to any man’s heart.
The difference between flirting and being a tease – and how to establish healthy boundaries that let men know where you stand.
Don’t like the men you’re meeting? You can actually CHANGE your date’s personality by being a better flirt. This lesson is like MAGIC!

Online Dating

The difference between the top dating sites and which one is the best fit for YOU.
A powerful formula to writing an online dating profile that gets more, high-quality responses.
What it’s like to be a man in online dating. It’s shocking and heartbreaking – and it just may change the way you view men from this moment forward.
The power of my 2/2/2 Rule. Screen out bad guys, get the good ones to invest in you and have total control of your online dating experience.
How to confidently initiate contact with men and get them to write back. If you’re like most people, your first emails are weak attempts at finding common interests that send your favorite men running for the hills.

First Dates

The 3 things you should be looking for on a first date. If you don’t get them, there’s NO point going back for a second one.
What it means to “forgive the ignorance” – and how you want men to be more forgiving of your flaws as well.
How to handle the first date kiss. If you don’t do it this way, you may be inadvertently alienating the vast majority of men.
The deadly “Pedestal Principle” and how it could be silently killing your chances of online dating success! If you don’t know what it is, it’s probably already affecting you.
A nearly foolproof plan to start enjoying your first dates and creating chemistry and intimacy. No more dreadful coffee dates!

Courtship

Why men will do as little as possible to get the greatest reward – and how you can effectively weed out the users and players FAST.
A simple way to figure out whether a guy is interested in you. Do this and you’ll never spend another second staring at your phone waiting for his text.
You’ve spent your entire life focused on how you feel about your date. Instead, focus on THIS to avoid wasting time on ambivalent guys.
An ESSENTIAL fact about men that will make sense of all of their behavior and allow you to finally have peace around dating.
Why you can’t always tell when a guy is right for you – but you can absolutely tell when he’s WRONG for you.

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MODULE 3: Dating

Do you want to avoid the ambivalent guys, the glad-to-waste-your-time guys, and the never-want-to-get-married guys? I’ll teach you the crucial boundaries that most women never seem to set. By learning the art of effective dating – and cutting off the wrong men quickly – you’ll put those low-effort men in your past and find a quality guy who is ready to build a future with you right now.

Staying Cool

The first thing you need to remember when you’re seeing a guy – and the one thing that guarantees you don’t lose a moment of sleep over him.
How choosing a boyfriend is NOT the same as choosing a husband. In fact, the whole point of dating is to try a guy on for size before even considering a real commitment.
Why you need to throw out whatever rules you have in your head about how he “should” act – and what you should be looking for instead.
What to do when you’re freaking out that he hasn’t called and you think he’s pulling away. This will absolutely SAVE your relationship.
The fascinating science behind attachment styles and how learning yours can make or break your entire future.

Sex

The main difference between men and women when it comes to sex. Once you learn this, it will explain and heal all of the confusing sexual situations from your past.
Why great relationships should have great sex, but great sex is not a predictor of a great relationship. Just look at your past!
If a man is only interested in sex with you, then sex is probably all he’s offering in return. Funny how that works.
Five simple sentences that will guarantee that no man uses you for sex ever again.
How to say no to sex, set healthy boundaries, and still make him want to come back for more.

Being Selective

The downfall of dating smart, handsome, wealthy guys. I’m not telling you to lower your standards, I’m just shining the light on a blind spot that continues to afflict you.
Why you should never date simply for the sake of dating – and why dating is the best way to create lasting love.
3 things a man could say to you that should make you dump him on the spot. You’ve always been too forgiving, but you’ll never make that mistake again.
What men want. Believe it or not, 90% of it’s the same as what you want – but there’s 10% that you’ve never heard before. You NEED to learn this if you want to forge an unbreakable bond with your guy.
Why you may not need a man, but men want to be needed. Until you let down your guard and risk being vulnerable, you have no chance at getting the man you desire.

Becoming Exclusive

Find out exactly when it’s time for you to focus your full attention on one man. Don’t become his girlfriend until he does THIS.
The 2 different paths to becoming a boyfriend. Which one are you on and why are you putting up with the guy who is not stepping up to commit to you?
The vital definitions of exclusive vs. boyfriend. Until you nail this down, you run the risk of sleeping with men for months at a time who have no intention of being your boyfriend.
Instead of seeing if your boyfriend meets up to your mental checklist, try rating your relationship on this one important quality.
The 8 things your boyfriend should be doing right now. If he’s not doing them, you need to give him his walking papers!

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MODULE 4: Understanding Men

You’ll finally get an explanation as to why men act the way they do (including the behavior that’s always driven you crazy!) You’ll figure out what kind of man is a good fit for your personality. You’ll see how easy it is to understand what men are thinking and discover if a man has future potential before you sleep with him.

Boyfriend Material

Why you should never be afraid of having a serious relationship discussion. You’ll feel 1000 times better after you take this to heart.
Why great men aren’t always great boyfriends – and how you can tell the difference within a few weeks.
Why some men make less of an effort after they’re in a relationship – and why there are times that this is okay.
When you should say “I love you” and how to avoid scaring him away with those three magic words.
An easy way to assess whether your relationship is truly making you happy. Try this and it will spare you months of wasted time on the wrong men.

Feminine Energy

How to get a confident, masculine man to treat you like a queen. It sounds obvious, but most women have been getting it wrong forever.
Why smart, strong, successful women kick ass in the boardroom yet struggle in love – and what you can do about it without changing your personality.
How to choose a partner who is a complementary fit. There is no right and wrong – only effective and ineffective when it comes to choosing a man.
What it means to be with the “nice guy with balls,” and why even this attractive archetype is going to frustrate you – despite his charms.
A test to figure out your own feminine energy. The result will determine your romantic future far more than your education, career and hobbies ever will.

Alpha Males vs Beta Males

The difference between constructive criticism and destructive criticism when it comes to men. If you don’t know this off the top of your head, you’re probably unintentionally emasculating your man.
The secret appeal of the easy-going, laid-back guy. What you perceive as weakness is actually his greatest strength!
The 2 qualities that are the best at determining whether a man is going to be a great husband. I promise you have NO IDEA what they are – but once you do, you’ll have an advantage over every other woman seeking a life partner.
Can you be an alpha female at work and a beta female in a relationship? What does it take to be with a man who’s a natural leader? Together, we’ll explore your options and steer you towards the right kind of man for you.
A fun and effective way to make your boyfriend act the way you want him to. It’s basic psychology, and it’s incredibly powerful when you do it right.

Understanding Men

The first thing you need to understand about men. Once you do, you’ll be able to clearly decide whether his behavior is acceptable or not.
The primary difference between what men and women want from relationships. Once you know what he wants, you can easily give it to him and make your relationship rock-solid.
Your boyfriend wants to make you happy. With this knowledge, you can transform the way you deal with him and make him WANT to be a better boyfriend.
Men have a unique timetable when it comes to commitment. Understand where he’s coming from and he will clamor to commit to you.
Tired of wasting time on men who don’t want to get married? Here’s exactly how you deal with those guys who aren’t sure if they want to settle down…

Chemistry

It’s on Wikipedia, yet you may have no clue what “love” really is. This lesson will forever change the way you look at the concept of chemistry.
Have you ever had a guy tell you that he wasn’t “in love” with you? Have you ever said that to a man? Learn the science of being “in love” and what that means for your future.
What does it mean when you “just know”? Do you need to have that feeling? Learn why this is better known as “the deception of passion” and how not to be drawn into that trap.
There is a formula for happy relationships — a perfect mix of chemistry and compatibility. Learn it and make your next boyfriend your last boyfriend.
How to choose a man who’s not only attractive to you, but, just as importantly, great husband material as well.

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MODULE 5: Relationships

Understanding the difference between compromising and settling may be the only thing holding you back from true happiness. You’ll discover what qualities you should compromise on and which qualities you should never compromise on when picking a partner. Change your choice of men and you’ll be successful in love!

How to Talk With Men

The primary reason that men shut down when you have an important discussion. The second you get this is the second you can speak your mind without fear.
The “compliment sandwich” and how to use it to get your way. Trust me – no man can resist.
How he acts and how he feels about you are often two different things. Learn how to distinguish his inconsiderate actions from his cruel ones.
If you want your boyfriend to be 100% honest with you, you have to do this one thing (that pretty much no woman ever does).
Solve ANY sensitive relationship using this three-step conversation technique that makes him WANT to please you.

Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

“The Rubberband Effect” and how to deal with guys who pull away to think.
Why you should forgive him for being a man and break up with him for being a jerk. And no, those two words are not synonymous!
How to quickly identify and dump a jerk. I hate to use such clinical terms, but you need to break up with him before he does too much damage.
“The Normalization of Deviance” and how to fix your relationship before it becomes broken.
When you should give him a mulligan for his clueless behavior – and when to learn to let it go. Men have no incentive to stay in relationships where they are constantly told that they’re failing.

Jealousy & Cheating

The actual statistics on how many men cheat, how many women cheat, and why people stray. Trust me – it’s not what you think.
The surprising — and shockingly common — reason that good men lie to you. Believe it or not, you’re partially responsible for bringing out the worst in him.
The reason you’re drawn to cheaters and they’re drawn to you. It’s time to break your pattern of choosing emotionally unavailable men once and for all.
The truth about monogamy — what biology says, what men say, and why so many men choose to stay with one woman forever.
One simple rule you need to know about trust that will inspire the right man to be loyal and monogamous.

Compatibility

Common interests, similar backgrounds, great chemistry. Guess what? NONE of these are the primary source of compatibility with men.
The 3 personality traits that are the best predictors for a compatible partner. Does your guy have them or do you need to ditch him now?
Make your partner feel more appreciated by speaking his “love language.” Watch as he turns around and becomes a better partner in return.
Why being married is extremely different from dating, and how there is a completely unique set of issues to face as a married couple that you cannot figure out when you first start dating.
How you can have everything on paper, but NOTHING in a relationship – unless you’re compatible in this one area.

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MODULE 6: Commitment

Attracting the man of your dreams doesn’t require losing weight, growing your hair, getting a degree, making more money, lowering your standards, or changing your personality. In the final module of Love U, you’ll learn exactly how to find a long-term committed relationship in which you feel safe, heard, and understood.

Being a Great Girlfriend

A radical new way of choosing a man — one that’s not solely based on whether you’re into him, but whether he’s into YOU.
The hidden power of saying YES. Men love it. They don’t get enough of it. And you’ll be the first woman to ever say it to him regularly.
A simple and powerful way to avoid being a doormat. The right man doesn’t take advantage of your goodwill – and if he does, he’s out the door.
How a female animal trainer learned to train her husband using positive reinforcement and rewards. You can, too!
The Platinum Rule for relationships. If you want a man who is a giver (and you should), you can’t keep score of what you’re giving in return.

Breaking Up

Why staying with a nice man you don’t intend to marry isn’t kind. Would you want a man to stay with you if he didn’t want to get married?
A thirty-second script you can say to any man when it’s time to end things. It’s drama-free, succinct, and leaves no room for misinterpretation.
The 2 brain systems you use when making decisions. If you’re not doing this, you may be missing something vital in your emotional time of crisis.
The sad truth about millions of men. (Hint: they’re too messed up to make a good husband for ANYONE, so don’t be too sad about letting them go.)
A healthier way to view a break-up, no matter how sad or painful it might be. Sometimes, breaking up is the ONLY answer.

Commitment

Why the REAL numbers on marriage and divorce should make you feel OPTIMISTIC about finding love.
Learn exactly when you should cut your losses with a boyfriend who hasn’t proposed. Give him enough time to make a decision, then be brave enough to pull the plug.
A stunningly obvious way to determine if a man is marriage-oriented that does not involve interrogating him. Your future boyfriend thanks you in advance.
Why your man has no more power in your relationship than you do – unless you give it away to him.
The 3 paths to marriage which are most likely to end in divorce. I promise that you’ve done at least 2 out of 3 of these things multiple times!

Wants vs Needs

Why you can’t have any relationship dependent on your partner changing. If you don’t like the way he’s acting right this second, don’t expect things to get better.
The difference between settling and compromising. It’s not what you think, and until you figure this piece out, you’ll always struggle in love.
Why “dating like a man” is empowering, effective, and more likely to make you happy than anything you’ve ever tried before.
The most important quality a man can have. If your guy doesn’t have it, your relationship is sunk before it even gets off the ground.
My top-secret Husband Picker exercise. Previously reserved for private clients, I am sharing it with you for the first time here. This is the culmination of everything you’ve learned in Love U and a literal blueprint that will lead you to the man you’re going to marry.

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BUT That's NOT ALL:

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Love U Bonus #1

5 FOCUS Coaching Calls

Getting coached by a dating expert can be the difference between happily ever after and never finding lasting love. That’s why I’m giving you access to five of my favorite coaching calls – each with a live lecture and Q&A. These recorded sessions are going to take you through these key themes:

That’s $235 worth of coaching to help you get over the last guy, manage the next guy, and be the kind of partner that every man falls for. You get all five calls absolutely free when you join Love U today.

Love U Bonus #2

My Bestselling Program “Why He Disappeared”

“Why don’t some men want to date me? Why do some men sleep with me without committing? Why doesn’t my boyfriend want to be my husband?” If you want the answers to those questions, my most popular program is going to help.

Tens of thousands of women have had their lives transformed by “Why He Disappeared: The Smart, Strong, Successful Woman’s Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever.” You’ll be able to turn around decades of bad relationship choices and let go of the pain in your past.

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2 Recorded Love U Coaching Sessions

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Love U Bonus #4

Too Much of a Good Thing: Why Your Work Strengths are Your Relationship Weaknesses

If you want to know why the dating pool is smaller for smart, strong, successful women and why chemistry hasn’t led you into lasting love – you’re going to want to listen to this.

In an 80-minute speech I delivered at Marni Battista’s ‘Ignite Your Life’ event, I reveal all of that and more to help you get better results in dating. This video is probably my favorite speech ever – and you can see it in a matter of seconds when you enroll in Love U now.

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Whatever you’re dealing with, Love U can help you get unstuck…

Maybe it’s a lack of confidence, borne out of years of failed relationships.

Maybe it’s the inability to meet new men because your friends are married, you work in a home office, and you’re exhausted by online dating.

Maybe it’s the endless confusion that is dating — not knowing whether you should text, have sex or commit to him as a boyfriend.

Truth is, we all have blind spots. We all have limiting beliefs. We’ve all had our confidence take a hit after each heartbreak and disappointment.

Love U helps put all the confusion and heartache behind you and provides a GPS that will finally lead you to the man of your dreams.

If you give me 5 minutes a day, I will give you a husband!

If you give me 5 minutes a

day, I will give you a husband!

WHEN YOU GRADUATE FROM, YOU'RE GOING TO LEAVE WITH...

The confidence to let go of the past and attract the top 10% of men who are worth your time

An understanding of the 5 qualities you absolutely need to get from your partner

In-depth knowledge of dating (offline and online) and how to find quality men when they seem scarce

A proven process you can use immediately to attract the right kind of men and find true love

The chance to rewrite your love
story and start a healthy, passionate, and loving relationship

The tools you need to meet, date, and connect with a great guy and get him to commit long-term

Over 12,000 Love U graduates can attest to this!

Just like them, you can get the results you’ve been looking for.

All the women who’ve graduated from Love U have managed to overcome the pain of their past relationships – and a large number have gone on to find their husbands and get their happily ever after moment.

So, be sure of this…

Through expert advice and easy-to-follow strategies, I get you the life-changing relationship results you’ve been searching for but have never been able to achieve on your own.

Soon you’ll be waking up, having amazing morning sex, and appreciating your husband as he makes you coffee and breakfast.

You’ll be taking a rigorous hike in nature with your man and a picnic lunch.

You’ll be hosting a dinner party with a few bottles of wine, a few of your favorite couple friends, and a lot of laughter.

All of this and more is possible when you join Love U.

Finding peace and joy in your love life is a truly incredible feeling.

Whether you’re looking for confidence, dating tips, relationship skills, the ability to identify good men, or the capacity to maintain a healthy long-term commitment, Love U gets you there.

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Hear from just some of the Women who have found the relationship of their dreams through Love U

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DEBBY H

HEATHER S

KARIN W.

DIANA B.

SAHAJA P.

CHRISTINE D.

CARLA S.

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APRIL G.

"I'm in an amazing marriage with a really wonderful man. Easily the best and most healthy relationship of my life. And I'm happy. Really happy."

I joined Love U for two reasons. One, I had ended up on Evan's email list and several of his emails literally seemed like they were talking directly to me. I always thought I was good at dating, because I could get dates. But if dating were baseball, I'm the girl that always got base hits and got tagged out before she got an actual run. The second reason I joined is because I've had huge success with fitness coaching, life coaching, why wouldn't I do relationship coaching? Bad relationship choices have cost me a lot more personally and sometimes financially than I'll ever spend on coaching

I didn't really even know what I didn't know when it came to dating. I knew that doing the same things I was doing would get me the same results, and I certainly wasn't happy with those. I wanted to know what I was doing that wasn't effective and what things I could change to be more successful. I didn't want just ANY relationship. I wanted a really good one.

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LAUREN T.

"Love U is the BEST purchase I’ve ever made!"

started the Love U program at age 36. I felt good about what I had to offer a guy (fun, loving, great community, stable job) but I couldn’t seem to make a relationship go the distance. I was really really down about this, but listening to Evan’s first two weeks of videos really helped to change my mindset. Specifically, he made the case that there are always people looking for love, which gave me hope.

Since then, I can say that Love U is the BEST purchase I’ve ever made! I met my husband at the end of December while visiting my family for Christmas and Evan’s coaching helped me create an amazing relationship. The relationship was long distance for the first 9 months (me in SF, he in the Midwest) and during this time I learned how to be the cool girl with boundaries, how to let my partner know how to please me, to assume positive intent, and to give all trust or no trust. There were many more lessons I learned, but if I hadn’t learned these and done the hard work to put them in to practice, I am sure I wouldn’t be where I am today in my relationship...

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MARIE N.

"You have to be bold because nothing in life worth having isn’t without some measure of risk."

For various reasons that I don’t want to get into, though not for lack of opportunity, I was a virgin at 34 when I joined Love U. A very successful one who had gone out on some dates but not ever taking it that seriously, and never truly having found that one guy that I really wanted to be with. I decided that I could either spend the rest of my life alone, or apply that logic and determination that I have so well in my professional life and try to find love. A lot of my friends were like, why don’t you just lose your virginity and get it over with so you can date more, it’s not that big a deal. But it was a big deal to me. I had waited this long and I wanted to find that special guy, the one who would love, cherish, respect, and commit to me, who was my match on every level, who would appreciate the gift that I was giving him and understand me for who I am. That was the one I was going to give myself to and it would be all of me. He would fall in love with me, commit to me, and we would be working towards marriage and a future together.

Now as most of you probably realize, this is rather a monumental task to achieve when you are a 34-year-old virgin dating in this fast-paced, sex on the second date, online world. Take everything that you are supposed to do - flirt but not be too sexy, be feminine but still maintain your boundaries, let him lead but know when to set him up for success, lead him around the bases (what are bases?) but don’t sleep with him until he is your boyfriend, figure out how to get him to the point of being your boyfriend, etc. - and then multiply that by a factor of “I’ve never done this before and gosh I hope it doesn’t show.”

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LYN B.

"Once I started taking Evan’s advice seriously, it took me six months to find the “one.” You can too!"

In 2014, I was 67 years old and planning to retire to a new community in the isolated region of the Adirondacks. Although I was used to living in small towns, I was always near bigger cities. My new home would have a population of 1,200 with the closest city of 19,000 an hour away. “Oh, no!” I thought. “I bet there’s probably one eligible man per ten square miles up there in the North Country!” Still, living in this town was a part of my commitment to be near my grandchildren and a part of their lives in my retirement. Could I fit a man into this life? Could I even find him?

I began dating online to find out. I was still working and living four hours away when I went onto my first dating website and posted my profile in the region I was moving to. Once a month I visited for several days and spent about six weeks that summer in my new digs. I had corresponded with a few men and saw them on visits north. Over the summer, I spent some extended time with one man and thought something might come of it. By fall, however, I realized this wasn’t going to work and broke it off with him. I didn’t do a very good job of it and found I wasn’t good at “breaking up!” “I wish I knew how to break up nicely," I pondered. So, I did what everyone does when they have a question — I googled it! Up popped Evan’s website and the rest is history.

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SHANNON K.

"Thanks to you and your help in our coaching sessions, I finally found the man that's perfect for me!"

Just wanted to share a wedding picture with you and thank you for being the BEST coach a single lady could want!!! We chose to have a small intimate wedding (30 people total), otherwise I would have definitely sent you an invite. In any case, I wanted to thank you for fine tuning my dating vision so I could finally weed out the guys that weren't right for me and see the man that is perfect for me. What you do as a coach is such a gift!

I have to thank you for all of your advice and fine tuning. Before working with you, I was so used to the flashy guys going all in to impress me, that I probably would have passed over the man I'm with because he would have been too normal and kind of boring for the old me.

Join Now and Take the First Step on Your Journey to an Unconditionally Loving and Long-Term Relationship…

Learn from one of the world’s leading dating Coaches

Since 2003, I’ve spent 3-4 hours every day coaching women like you into relationship success. As the first male coach who specializes exclusively in helping women find love, I’ve written four books, been featured in hundreds of media outlets including Today, CNN, and Time Magazine, and written articles that have been seen by over 30 million readers. But my greatest successes are my incredible marriage and all the marriages I’ve helped to co-create.

Love U is where I share everything I know so you can have this, too.

Put your past (and all those Disappointing guys) behind you

Whether you’ve tried your hand at love and have come up short or whether you’ve given everything to men and received little in return, Love U is the place for you. However long you’ve been struggling, this is your chance to change direction and leave the past behind you. In Love U, you have a blank canvas to write a new love story with a happy ending.

Find more Confidence and a renewed sense of worth

You may like yourself. You may think you’re kind, smart, and pretty. But if your genuine self-esteem hasn’t translated into insisting on proper treatment from men, Love U goes deep and helps you restore your confidence. Hey, that’s why it’s called Love U! You can’t have the relationship of your dreams if you don’t love yourself and the content, the coaching, and the community really help.

And, most Importantly, find a husband who ticks all of your boxes and makes you his #1 priority

Stop settling on players, narcissists, and commitmentphobes. Love U is the world’s most effective program in helping you look inside your blind spots, cure your relationship worries, and get the lasting love you deserve. I’m going to help you understand men and find a passionate, committed partner for life.

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is fun, powerful and has helped THOUSANDS of women take control of their destiny and find the man of their dreams!

Love U Is Right For You If…

You want to become the most confident version of yourself
You want to effortlessly let go of the pain and negativity of your past
You want to stop putting up with guys who waste your time
You want to enjoy dating and feel in control of the entire process
You want to easily handle sexual situations and set healthy boundaries
You want to understand men, what they’re thinking and why we do what we do.
You want to surround yourself with support from other women
You want to act with confidence and trust and inspire your man to do the same
You want to find an attractive, passionate, and loving partner
You want to attract men who aren’t afraid of commitment
You want to find a man who always has your back and stands by your side.

Love U Is Wrong For You If…

You already know how to attract and choose a good man
You’re not ready to focus on becoming a more confident woman
You can’t spare a half-hour a week to learn about men
You don’t consider finding the right partner to be a top priority
You’re not willing to take responsibility for your future success in dating
You’re not going to date consistently and proactively
You don’t want to break out of your comfort zone and make real progress
You’re not able to make time to implement the advice you receive
You’re not sure now is the right time to invest in your happiness
You’re not ready to create a passionate relationship with a loving partner

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To recap… Here are all of the incredible things you’re going to get when you join Love U:

26 weeks of short, fun and actionable videos to help you understand men and find love (Value: $12,000)

26 weekly exercises to reinforce the concepts you learn and take the next step to finding the right guy (Value: $1,000)

Bonus #1 – 5 of my most powerful coaching calls, recorded and available whenever you need them (Value: $235)

Bonus #2 – “Why He Disappeared”, the program designed to help you turn around decades of bad relationship choices (Value: $47)

Bonus #3 – 2 in-depth Q&As with Love U members to answer all of your questions about men and dating (Value: $2,000)

Bonus #4 – “Too Much of a Good Thing: Why Your Work Strengths Are Your Relationship Weaknesses.” (Value: $97)

Lifetime access to Love U, where you can learn everything you need to know to meet and marry a quality man (Value: Priceless!)

With Love U, you can get an incredible library of relationship resources worth more than $15,000 for a fraction of its value.

It’s yours right now for just $149/mo for 6 months

or a one-time payment of $800!

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And if you still need another reason to get started with Love U, I offer a hassle-free, 100% money back guarantee!

I have total faith in this content and its ability to help you graduate Love U with a devoted boyfriend. But I want to give you peace of mind that this is an investment you can afford to make and that you feel GREAT about it.

So if you join Love U and aren’t convinced that it’s an accurate look inside the male mind and hasn’t brought you greater success – just let me know within the first 30 days of the course and I’ll give you 100% of your money back.

There’s no catch – I’m just including a 30-day, no-questions-asked, money-back guarantee because I believe so deeply that this material is going to help you.

If Love U doesn’t demonstrate its value, I don’t want you to pay for it. Just reply to the email confirmation you’ll receive after you register, write “Refund Love U” in your message, explain why it isn’t working for you, and I’ll refund you for the full amount straight away.

You even get to keep the Love U bonuses, as well. They’re yours just for giving Love U a fair shot.

I’m confident that this limited-time offer is going to be one of the best long-term investments you’ve ever made. But this is about more than just money… It’s about finding true happiness.

The way I see it, you have two Options today:

Option #1

You continue to go at it alone, stay stuck in the cycle of dating the wrong men without knowing why and never find the husband of your dreams.

Or…

Option #2

You make the simple decision today to join Love U – your GPS that shows you the quickest, easiest and clearest path to get the love you deserve in just 5 minutes a day.

So, which will it be?

Just imagine graduating from Love U with the Relationship you’ve always wanted and deserved.

Just imagine graduating from Love U with the

Relationship you’ve always wanted and deserved.

Whatever pain you’ve suffered. Whatever fears you’ve harbored. Whatever doubts you’ve had about yourself or men in general…that’s over now.

Now’s the time to put that fear behind you and change your life forever.

Starting now, you will never again spend a second too long with the wrong man and you will easily know how to attract and keep the right man.

There will be no more worry, no more drama, and no more loneliness.

Your husband will do everything he can to make you happy, every single day.

That’s what good men do.

If you’re a smart, strong, successful woman who has everything but the guy and you need help finding the unconditional love that has eluded you, this could be the most important decision you ever make.

Pause for a moment, close your eyes, and imagine the relationship you’ve always wanted.

Are you ready to make that dream a reality?

This is your time. Don’t let it pass you by.

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LISA O.

"I now live the life of my dreams and with the man of my dreams by my side as my husband."

When I met Evan, I was newly divorced and back in the dating game in my 40's and was very impressed with his direct and to the point message about dating. We had a phone consult, and even though I could not afford to hire you for private coaching, I will never forget that you gave me incredible advice and welcomed me to lower-priced offerings.

Your genuine approach to helping me find a happy, long-lasting healthy relationship made such an impression. I followed your columns and posts for years and made notes of the great feedback you gave to me. Many times, I tried and failed in the dating game and the times I failed were pretty much summed up in the advice you give that I just didn't follow.

Luckily for me, I don't give up. Fast forward 3 years later and I met my husband who has consistently been the love of my life and the most amazing man I have ever known. I do owe some of that credit to some advice I took from Evan that I never forgot...

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KARI O.

"That handsome stranger turned into my boyfriend, then husband and we will be celebrating our 1-year wedding anniversary in March!"

Just want to drop you a quick note to let you know that I read your book, followed your advice and broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years after I realized it was a dead-end relationship. While it was very difficult, I knew I had made the right decision to move on so I could make myself available to a man who wanted the same things that I did...marriage and a happy life together. I didn't plan on dating immediately after I broke up with my ex because I wanted to drop a few pounds and get back in to the swing of being a single person again. I then decided to take a vacation by myself and visit family and friends in Hawaii.

So, I was at the airport dressed in shorts, a casual pullover, flip flops and no makeup, waiting for the flight and I noticed this handsome outdoorsy looking man around my age with a hiking backpack waiting at the same gate as mine. The first thing I said to myself was, "wow I hope he's sitting next to me", then laughed to myself because I travel alone a lot and have never been seated next to a handsome stranger. When I got in the plane and headed for my seat, I couldn't believe who was seated at the window next to me...it was the handsome stranger!

MEJASOA R.

"I did not need to pretend to be someone else, act in a seductive way, or play games to attract my fiance’s attention."

I purchased Why He Disappeared in autumn 2014 after a long history of disappointments, betrayals, heartbreaks and when my confidence was at its lowest. At 36-year-old, my dating history was a succession of failure stories with no bright outcomes. I had accepted sub-part behaviors and made up a lot of excuses for the men I dated with who treated me poorly, in the hope I would keep them. Off course each story had crashed and burned.

I read the book and nothing sunk in after the 1st time, the 2nd time nor the 3rd time.

Meanwhile, I received Evan’s weekly newsletters, which intrigued and interested me and I kept reading and anticipating each new email at a certain point.

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PHILIPPA C.

"We got married last year. It is the best relationship I've ever had. We're best friends and I couldn't imagine us not together."

After years of recovery from a cheating ex-husband I was ready to date again. It became clear very quickly that most guys on dating apps (paid and unpaid) were looking for a hook-up. I tried many different apps and learnt quickly that asking for a recent picture was important. So many times, I didn't recognize the people I'd agreed to meet.

While I had fun, I knew what I was doing wouldn't get me to my end goal of a long-term relationship. I was feeling ready for a change. I discovered Evan via his Love U Podcasts first, then I bought and read, and re-read every book. I updated my profile, became much choosier about who'd I'd meet. I found that I either had lots of dates in a week, or none and I couldn't figure out why. I needed to understand how to find the guy that wanted me for me. I resonated with the advice; it was so simple.

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TRACEY D.

"Even with a doctorate in Psychology, I never learned what I needed to know to have the kind of relationship I deserved."

I never expected to be sending you this email. It will be four years that we have been together. This crazy time has brought us together even more. Although, I never thought I wanted it, it made me realize how much Barry is a part of me and we are now engaged! We plan to have a small family wedding with our kids sometime in the next few months. I hope to have a celebration party at our home once this crisis is over and I would love for you and your wife to join us. It will be a while before a large gathering can be safe but I am looking forward to it.

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Bonnie K.

"It's amazing to have a true partner in life. I feel like I hit the jackpot!"

I got engaged last week!

I gotta admit it's been a loooong road to this. Honestly, there were times where I really thought I may never find someone. Then felt stupid for thinking that and told myself my life is great in so many other ways. I hated it that quote that went something like - "you'll realize why all the others didn't work out when you meet the one." Well now I know, like REALLY know. My goodness, thank god you're in this business to help women find this person. Thank god you never give up.

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LINNA X.

"Evan taught me how to look for the right things instead of chasing after an illusion of a perfect man. Last month, we just celebrated our 2nd anniversary."

When I contacted Evan, it was a day before my 31st birthday.

I had been in and out relationships. I had been putting myself out there over and over again after each relationship ended. I was becoming scared of starting a relationship that led to nowhere but left me with a shattered heart. I was getting tired of going on meaningless dates with men whom I saw no future with. I was impatient, frustrated, deeply worried about the future of my love life and absolutely hopeless about my dating reality.

So, the day before I turned 31, I made my mind: if I were going to give myself a birthday present this year, it'd be putting an end to my clueless, fruitless and oftentimes painful dating path.

Evan was the answer to my 31st birthday wish.

JAN T.

"Love wins! All I had to do was stop doing everything I had done before and open myself to a great man!"

I got divorced in 2014, after 20 years of marriage to a very toxic man. I left that marriage feeling low, unworthy and anxious. As I started to get back out there, I found Evan and purchased many of his products such as “Why he Disappeared” and “Believe in Love.”

I met a Jewish doctor in 2014 who was exactly my type: exciting, sexy, smart, and the chemistry was off the charts. However, he was extremely avoidant and could not commit. Instead of following Evan’s advice I plugged along trying to change him for a five year on and off relationship.

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MICHELE C.

"This I know for sure: Do what you need to do heal your wounds and limiting beliefs, follow Evan's advice to a T, and the rest will fall into place - I promise!"

So, I officially got engaged on Valentine's Day! 😍

Thanks again, Evan! You were instrumental in helping me create this awesomeness. I never thought a love like this was possible for me. My guy is THE BEST.

About me: 44 y/o, never married, no kids, never even lived with a man, and had buyer’s remorse after getting a dog (though I do love my dog now, lol). I've always been pretty successful and had great friendships, hobbies, travel adventures and whatnot. So, for a long time I didn't realize I had some work to do on myself and my mindset around love and relationships.

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TRACEY W.

"I hope my story inspires you! If you want it, you'll get it!"

I'm 49, and was never married. I've had some relationships where I thought "maybe this could be the one?" I had an on again, off again relationship with someone between 2014-2017 where I thought "well... I think I love him, but I'm not sure this feels how it's supposed to. He loves me so much, he's a great guy, I guess this is what it feels like?" But something in my gut just kept telling me it wasn't right. And actually, Evan had a few live Q&A webinars as part of Love U we got to call in and ask Evan anything we wanted. BOTH times I called in about this relationship, how unsure I was, and BOTH times, in so many words, Evan basically told me this was not the right guy for me! Talk about knocking your head against the wall, LOL.

Then I had a 7-month relationship where I thought "Okay, THIS one could be the one. He's a great guy. I think I could fall in love with him." Even though in the whole time we dated, neither of us said "I love you" yet. Then he started doing the typical "pulling away" responses around March of that year. When he finally broke up with me, I was devastated! And frustrated!! How could HE not be the one either?! I'm so tired of waiting for "the one"! Why is this not happening?!

Love U success story of a strong smart successful woman happily married to her husband

ALI G.

"Evan challenged me - not to change myself - but to change my choice of men."

I'm in love, married and now have a family. I couldn't be happier.

When I first hired Evan, I was coming off of a horrible relationship with a selfish man who never made me feel safe. Evan challenged me - not to change myself - but to change my choice of men. He didn't always tell me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to hear. He was honest with me even when I didn't like it. He held a mirror to my face, so I could see how I was sabotaging myself. No one enjoys that, but it's important if you really want to make a change and find true love. In just a few months, I learned so many things:

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ELLY K.

"I wish everyone could do Love U. Evan is one of the best dating coaches on the planet!”

After almost three years together, David and I got engaged. And exactly one year later we got married. We were lucky enough to have our dream wedding on Sydney Harbour a few weeks before the bushfires and a few months before Covid. Despite our ages (both over 40), it was a first marriage for both of us. I don’t think our relationship would have unfolded and progressed so smoothly if it wasn’t for Love U. The course, coaching and community was a life-changing experience for me. I loved every minute of it. So, from the bottom of my heart, thank you, thank you, thank you, Evan! (Plus, a thank you from David.) Evan and his wife were invited to our wedding – along with a tightknit group of Love U friends and their boyfriends and husbands – but, unfortunately, it clashed with a significant event and they weren’t able to make it. But Evan and I are friendly and keep in touch. He truly cares about his clients.

FULL LOVE STORY

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SHELAGH M.

Two and a half years ago I was frustrated, sad and a little hopeless. I had yet another man leave me suddenly and I was so confused. I knew I hadn’t done anything to warrant his departure and yet I could not deny that the only common denominator in all my failed relationships was me! I had started to read Evan’s blog and everything he said resonated:

I really believed there were good men out there – after all many of my friends had met and married good men – and I had finally come to accept that the only thing I could change was me. So, I signed up for Love U private coaching and promised myself that I would do whatever Evan suggested even those things I knew I would want to resist.

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DAWN O.

I wanted to send you a quick hello and let you know things are going so well! I've been working hard since we worked together last summer. I've been following the guidelines and now am in a committed relationship. We have been together 5 months. As I move forward, I believe I have the tools I need to manage this relationship and any future ones. I hear your voice in my head sometimes though! It helps me remember what is important. This guy has all the things on the What I Need list and so many on the What I Want list too! The time, money, and effort from last summer was absolutely worth it! Thank you!

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MORGANA R.

I had just started dating someone I liked when I joined Love U, and I wanted an expert to guide me through the transition from dating to relationship.

I wanted to understand the whole process better, especially from a guy’s perspective. One of the nicest things I got from working with Evan was the ability to separate THIS guy from past relationships, and to get the “green light” to say yes to this relationship. I was so gun-shy about getting hurt again that I don’t know if I would have given my husband a chance without Evan’s support and encouragement...

MARIE N.

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ELIZABETH M.

"If this 50-year-old divorced woman can do it, then pretty much anyone else can do it too, if they set their minds to it."

I so enjoyed participating in the Love U three years ago. Even at the time, I recognized I was learning a lot, and more importantly, gaining a new perspective on how to approach dating again after my 15-year marriage ended. I had to kiss a few more frogs that year, but don't worry - there is a happy ending to this story!

Almost exactly two years later, I met a wonderful guy on Match by following what I learned in your programs. He pursued me from the start, has always treated me wonderfully, and very quickly he became my best friend and the love of my life. And almost exactly five years later, we are married. I have others to thank, of course, including good friends who gave good advice...

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RACHEL E.

"In less than one year, I met my fiancé online."

After being married for 13 years, I was ready to jump back into the dating scene, and I knew I wanted to use online dating to meet the man of my dreams. So, I decided to do some research on “online dating best practices” and stumbled upon Evan. It had been a long time since I’d dated, and Evan’s tips about getting started online helped me go into the whole process with the right mindset and attitude.

My main goals were to determine the type of man I wanted to be with, who would be a right fit for me. In my past relationships, I’d always led with my heart first, and ended up being disappointed. This time, I wanted to make better choices so I could find long term happiness with a partner who was a good fit for me…not just someone I was physically attracted to.

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NICOLETTA G.

"I feel empowered to have created for myself the life I truly desire."

When I first met Evan, I was in a 2 year long-term-relationship with a guy… but he was stalling around getting married

I remember discussing these topics with Evan during one focus call and one thing that Evan told struck me profoundly “Nicoletta, pay attention to how bad this man wants to be your husband.”

I was suffering deeply and asking myself the same question that haunts all the women who choose to work with Evan “why does an attractive, sophisticated, loving and successful woman who has much to offer have so much trouble finding a man willing to make a life-long commitment?!” while observing friends getting engaged, married, then having babies at the speed of light…

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LAVONNE W.

I am so excited to finally be writing you about my dating success story thanks to your help! I have been following you since 2014 and am also a Love U student/graduate! I think you are such an awesome dating coach! I tell anyone who will listen about you, your websites and your books! Yes, I am an avid student and fan! Even more so now that I am in a relationship and exclusively dating a man I met online. By following your suggestions everything happened just as you said it would.

I am a divorced 53-year-old, highly educated successful and independent black woman with an MBA and a high paying job with the Federal Government who knows the value of having a man in her life! I was married for 22 years to a man I met when I was 18 and a freshman in college. After 8 years of marriage we had one child, a daughter, who is now almost 20 and a sophomore in college. We divorced (when she was 13) due to growing apart and not having the same life goals. It was a very amicable divorce and we are still friends.

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CLAIRE K.

"Evan, there is a gorgeous baby girl in Melbourne, Australia who owes a lot to you and at some stage, when she is old enough, I’ll be sure to explain that to her!"

When a baby is born, the parents usually have a list of people they wish to thank - perhaps starting with their obstetrician, midwives and family doctor. In my case, the list reads a little different. The person on the top of my "thank you list" is you! Please let me go back a few steps and tell you why.

Three years ago, I purchased your eBook, "Why He Disappeared." Since then, following advice from the book and your blog, I have met and fallen madly in love with an incredibly kind, generous, loving man and am enjoying the most fulfilling and special relationship of my life. After being a couple for about a year, we decided we’d like to start a family together. Following 12 months with no success naturally, we undertook IVF, and on 17 March 2015 at 3:09pm our beautiful little girl Eva Amelia was born.

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SAIMA S.

"I have never been happier or in more love in all my life."

Since I joined Love U, so much has happened. It’s surely been such magical time that it’s been like a dream come true and it is all because of you and your coaching. I opened myself up to this man's attention and affection and he has not disappointed me since then.

He told me after 2 dates he wanted to be exclusive and be his girlfriend and told me he was in love after 2 months. As it turned out he was not being "polite" when he would ask me how I was during my cancer treatments but really wanted to be there for me because he knew in his heart that I was someone special. By December, he had introduced me to his kids in France and on Feb 1st, we got engaged. We got married the following summer and I finally have a new job now in Boston MA and we both moved a couple of weeks ago.

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OLGA S.

"Before I joined Love U, I felt lost in the dating process."

I was not even sure what exactly I was doing wrong, but I knew I needed a change. Prior to Love U, I had this feeling that dating was a game of chance - being in the right time at the right place, etc. As a part of Love U I have learned a lot about boundaries, mirroring, flirting, patience, and accountability in dating. But through the weekly coaching calls, guidance, and peer-support, I have realized that dating is about numbers and experience.

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JULIE Z.

It was like having a direct line to a man’s “private talk.”

I was a 55-year old never married woman when I engaged the services of Evan Marc Katz. I had little experience in love having yearned 18 years for someone not destined for me. I’d recently made the decision to move on and online date. Though I grew up in a family of males, I knew nothing about dating. As a result, I’d had one painful online breakup prior to working with Evan and another one in the works when I signed up with Evan.

Evan taught me a LOT of love “lessons” in a short period of time without having to experience them for myself. Listening to how he used the train wrecks of otherwise smart successful women to provide teachable moments for us all was invaluable. He has an ability to sift through suffering and get at the heart of a situation quickly. On behalf of all GREAT women, Evan doesn’t tolerate bad behavior coming from men. Not only is he gifted at pointing it out but also excellent at getting women to see that one extra moment focused on “Not The One” was a lost moment in the search for love.

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SARAH N.

I just wanted to take a moment to thank you. I started to reading your newsletter and then got the Why He Disappeared. I was starting to see a pattern in the men who hadn’t worked out and I knew I needed a change. I’m so happy to say that with your e-books and videos, you coached me into the best relationship of my life. My love is kind, treats me like gold, makes me laugh non-stop, he’s financially responsible, a great cook, and we have amazing chemistry! He even bakes me fresh bread every few days. Bread and butter are the way to my heart. Haha. It’s really off the charts.

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SARA C.

It’s happened. Your hard work and mine had paid off! Meet Tripp. 3 months in and we are both over the moon. Your interview with Dr. Ali hit me like a Mack truck…. Tripp went from a 6 attraction in my book to a 12 because now his sweet face is symbolic of how incredibly he treats me. And it just makes me want to be better and better to him. Being a “yes” girl and not giving him a hard time about anything has been so rewarding (thanks to your wife for that one) and it gets easier and easier to be that way every day because of how appreciative he is of my newfound easy-going nature. I guess it takes a village. Just had to share with you my excitement and appreciation. Have a great week!

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KIT H.

I notice, now, how terrible it is that women get so many messages that basically tell them not to expect much of men and set the expectation that you will be in an emotionally unsafe or distant relationship. It’s not true. My guy is incredible. Wants to talk through everything, but not in a cloyingly sensitivities way. He cares about taking care of my emotions. He holds me when I am freaking out. It’s amazing. I feel very lucky. He is a very good one. And cute too! And more age appropriate

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LAUREN B.

"I have been wanting to send you this email for quite some time to thank you for your advice (by way of your website, emails, podcasts, blogs, etc.), which have changed my life."

I am now 35 years old but stumbled across your website two and a half years ago after a bad breakup. The breakup left me devastated, and there was a point that I had resigned myself to being the stereotypical spinster cat lady for the rest of my life. I felt frustrated that despite dating seemingly different men (in terms of age, race, religion, socio-economic status, educational backgrounds, etc.), they all seemed to either be emotionally unavailable or lack stability (financial, professional, mental) or a combination thereof. Some say that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over again and expecting a different result – and I realized then that if I continued to date as I had been, I would essentially be attracting more of the same men. I don’t quite remember what I typed into the search engine, but I believe it was something to the effect of “why is it hard for beautiful successful women to find a decent guy”. And ergo, I came across one of your blogs and became acquainted with your work. One of the first blog posts that I read was about online dating and how the percentage of eligible partners is fairly small and how to essentially separate the wheat from the chaff.

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