Who Pays for the First Date?

The check comes. It sits on the table. You wait for him to reach for it. You think he’s waiting for you to reach for it. You continue your strained end of meal conversation, wondering who is going to reach for it first. Who picks up the check is an emotionally fraught first date ritual that leaves a lot of people highly disappointed. Today, I’m going to explain to you what men should do and what women should do so that this never has to get weird for you again.

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If He Doesn’t Put In The Effort, Do This!

It feels the worst when it starts out strong. That first month, he was so into you. Texting dozens of times a day. Planning the next date while you’re still on a date. Telling you effusively how beautiful you are, how much he likes you and how excited he is. Talking about a future. And then something happens. You don’t know what it is but everything feels different. Suddenly, his constant efforts start to wane and you’re left feeling off-balance. On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you EXACTLY what to do when that happens again.

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Why Men Never Get Things Right When It Comes to Sex

There are many ways it’s more challenging to be a woman in today’s world. There is latent misogyny. There are double standards for strong women as compared to strong men. And it’s an understatement to say that most men haven’t had to grapple with what it’s like to be objectified and feel threatened by members of the opposite sex. There are a couple of ways, however, that it’s super tricky to be a man. One of them is the fact that men are expected to make the first move. I’m not saying it’s good or bad or that it should be any different. But as long as that’s the dynamic, it’s important for you, as a woman, to understand why it’s almost impossible for a guy to act in the exact way sexually that you want him to. Stick around for a really interesting Love U Podcast that is sure to push your buttons and make you think a little deeper about why sex seems so complicated. It’s because it is.

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How To Deal With One Word Replies While Texting

I know something you absolutely hate. You’ve got a cute guy you’re texting. You’re kind of excited about him and hoping to make a connection. Yet it’s almost impossible to get anything out of him. You ask him a question and he answers but doesn’t give anything back in return. One-word or one-sentence replies only. What do you do with these guys? When should you cut them loose? Is there anything in your control to elevate the conversation into something more fun? I’ve got all your answers. Stick around.

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Do You Love Being Single More Than You Want to Be Married?

You’re single and fabulous. You’ve got a career you enjoy, friends you love, and passions you pursue. You’re extremely busy doing things that bring you pleasure: travel, yoga, reading, personal development. You don’t need a man. You want a man. The question is whether this man wants to fit into your life exactly as it is right now or whether you need to make accommodations for another person. Stick around and I’ll show you the blind spot that’s preventing you from finding a man you respect who also wants to be with you.

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Why Men Don’t Court Women Anymore

Dating apps are everywhere. Texting is ubiquitous. Hookup culture is rampant. If courtship isn’t dead, it’s surely on a respirator. And while I did a Love U Podcast episode called Why Men Should Court Women (which women loved), there is a dark truth about men don’t court women anymore that most guys won’t tell you. I’ll tell you.

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3 Limiting Beliefs That Stop You From Finding The Right Man

You know the power of belief. Maybe you believe in God. Maybe you believe in your own inherent goodness. Maybe you believe that each day is a gift that should be lived to the fullest. To some degree, we ARE our beliefs. Unfortunately, that includes the negative beliefs you have around love. These are called limiting beliefs. We all have them and they are often the primary reason you struggle to find a compatible partner. In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to tackle a few common limiting beliefs and help you find the right man. Stick around.

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Texting First After a Date

You had a good date. You’re open to seeing him again. He said at the end of the date he’d talk to you soon. And now you don’t know what to do. Once upon a time, it was a given that a man would pick up the phone and call you to ask you out on a second date. But now, with texting, social media, and the blending of gender roles, it’s become a lot more confusing as to who is supposed to do what and when. On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain how to handle texting after a first date.

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When You Want to Know “What Are We?”

Imagine going out with a man for three months. He texts you nearly every day. He sees you nearly every weekend. He’s really sweet. He compliments you often. The sex is great. There’s only one problem: you have no idea if you’re a couple. And while you want to say something, you’re afraid that saying something might mean the end of your relationship. So you say nothing and keep sleeping with a man who acts kind of like a boyfriend but is most certainly not your boyfriend. This isn’t the relationship you imagined. On this Love U Podcast, you’ll learn whether to keep him around or cut him loose.

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Is He Shy or Is He Not Interested?

You ever start dating a guy who was just a little…passive? He texts you but he doesn’t say that much. He stays in touch but he doesn’t ask you out. He takes you out on a nice date but he doesn’t make a first move. Is he just not that into you? Is he a beta male? Is he gay? What the hell?! In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain how to tell if a man is shy or just not interested. Stick around.

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