8 Reasons Men Are Terrible At Dating

You’ve gone out with enough guys to realize that, well, most of them are just AWFUL at dating. Canceling at the last minute. Staring at their phones. Not picking up the check. Leaving early. Trying to get laid. Talking trash about their exes. It’s not a pretty scene. But if we can assume that men are legitimately doing their best to make a good first impression, then how can they be SO FAR OFF? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain to you why most guys are horrible at the act of dating – and what you should do about it.

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Why You’re Attracted to the Wrong Guys and What To Do About It

It’s normal to be attracted to guys who aren’t good for you. It’s normal to date such men in hopes that they’ll change, that they’ll grow, that things will get better, that the power of your chemistry and love will make it work. It never does. Attraction is what gets you INTO a relationship. Compatibility is what keeps you there. And if you keep finding yourself in relationships with attractive incompatible guys, you need to do something different to get you a different result. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to show you how.

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You’re Lying If You Say You Want To Be Alone

Every week, I talk with women who apply for dating coaching and insist that they’re happy being alone. But are they, really? In this ranting Love U Podcast, I challenge this big lie that women tell themselves to justify staying out of the dating game. The truth is that you’d rather be single than in a bad relationship, but you’d rather be in a happy relationship than be single.

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Why Doesn’t He Listen To Me?

You love your boyfriend and he loves you. But you find yourself increasingly frustrated with him because he’s not acting the way you want him to. He makes you happy in so many ways, so why can’t he just do the few things you’re asking him to do? If he really loved you, wouldn’t he want to? The answer – in a word – is no. And in this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain to you why the secret of relationships is not in getting your boyfriend to change, but in finding a boyfriend you can fully accept. Stick around.

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How Do You Navigate Sex When You’re Dating

Your first three dates were amazing. Now, it’s Date 4, he’s back at your place, and he’s reaching for your belt buckle. You’re turned on, but you don’t think this is a great idea, but you don’t want to stop him and make a great date turn awkward. What can you to set a healthy boundary and still let him know you’re interested? Sex is one of my favorite topics and I’m going to go off on it in just a minute.

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No Chemistry? Here’s What to Do.

Chemistry. It’s the greatest drug in the world. When you’re feeling it, you’re on top of the world. When you’re not feeling it, you feel depressed and trapped. So what do you do if your chemistry isn’t off the charts? Is there any chance that you can have a relationship with someone who doesn’t curl your toes? I’ve got your answers in just a second

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Why You Should Stop Recycling Men

Did your ex text you a happy birthday? Did that guy you hooked up with reach out during the pandemic? Did your high school boyfriend write to you on Facebook? Yep. This is what guys do. They don’t know if they want to sleep with you, keep in touch with you, date you, or marry you, so they send all sorts of mixed messages. They’re like sharks, swimming in the water, waiting for some chum. Sorry to say: you’re the chum.

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10 Painful Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore

We’ve all been there. Everything was going great – until it wasn’t. It’s not like you did anything different, but suddenly, there was a shift in your relationship and now you feel off-balance. You’ve been around long enough to know that something is wrong, but you’re looking for validation that it’s not just you. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to share the telltale signs your guy has started to lose interest in you, so you won’t have to wonder you’re going crazy. You’re not. He’s pulling away. Here’s exactly how you can tell.

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Love Bombing, Future Faking, Zombieing and Ghosting, Oh My!

With the advent of dating apps that sit on your phone and give you access to thousands of singles in your area, there has never been an easier time to meet people than today. Then why does it all feel so bad? The answer is that all good qualities come with bad qualities. And if 21st century dating is marked by easy access, the downside is that we’ve had to come up with a new vocabulary to describe what can go wrong. In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to share some modern dating vocabulary to help you make sense of the ever-expanding number of ways that men can disappoint you.

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What To Do When He’s Not Ready For A Relationship

You’ve seen it before. Girl likes boy. Boy likes girl. Boy starts acting like a boyfriend. Girl falls deeper for boy. Boy doesn’t realize his deep-seated issues, insecurities and fear of commitment will ultimately end up breaking girl’s heart. Girl’s heart gets broken. It’s a sad, if common, scene, which begs the following question: what should you to if you suspect your guy is not emotionally available for a future?

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