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10 Ways Your Anxiety Drives Him Away

It’s normal to feel anxious about dating. Too many men are selfish, emotionally unavailable, and incapable of making you feel secure. But when you find a secure man who treats you well, your anxiety can be a real detriment. When you treat a nice, consistent guy as if he’s a constant threat to hurt you or abandon you, most of those nice guys will eventually find it tiring. In this Love U Podcast, we explore the many ways in which anxiety surfaces in a relationship so you can finally forge a bond with a man that is meant to last.

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https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2023/02/attachment-theory-misconceptions-relationship-spectrum/673025/

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Why High-Achieving Women Struggle With Feminine Energy Guys

Masculinity is suddenly a hot topic in America. Is masculinity – aggression, decisiveness, ego – inherently toxic? Would men be better off acting more like women? If so, what does that mean for women who remain attracted to stereotypically masculine men? This is a common theme of my coaching in Love U and in this podcast, I wanted to share some of the insights and inherent contradictions in being a Type A woman who wants a man who is more “man” than she is, but bristles at the idea of being with a more passive, easygoing guy. This is a good one. Stick around.

RESOURCES: https://mariyaspasova.com/femininity-blog/feminine-men/ 

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Do Women Lie More Than Men?

Yes, it’s a provocative title. But there’s some science underlying it. Because women are more sensitive to each others’ needs and emotional cues, they’re often more likely to withhold the truth.

Think of all the times you didn’t speak your mind to your boyfriends (or tell your girlfriends what they really needed to hear). And because you don’t always speak your truth – out of politeness or fear – you may have a hard time believing it when he says something like “I’m not looking for anything serious right now” or “I don’t ever want to get married again.”

In the second half of the podcast, we talk about basic conversational differences between men and women, as outlined by feminist author, Deborah Tannen. It’s a challenging, interesting, and important conversation.

RESOURCES: https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/opinions/1990/06/24/sex-lies-and-conversation/01cb17ba-1af7-4bf4-8a02-3d1b6c11648f/

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How Avoidant Attachment Is Killing Your Love Life

He’s fun. He’s sexy. He’s successful. And he’s into you. But there’s one catch: he’s emotionally unavailable. Despite being a great catch, he might not be the best long-term partner due to his avoidant attachment style. Tune in to this Love U podcast episode to explore how avoidant attachment could be impacting your love life and gain valuable insights to navigate relationships better.

https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/uncategorized/are-you-secure-anxious-avoidant-attachment-theory-explains-it-all

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How Often Should You Hear from Your Guy

One of the biggest complaints I get about men is about their inconsistency – both when dating and in relationships. So what’s a reasonable amount of contact to expect from guys? Well, it all depends on how long you’ve been seeing each other.

That’s why, in this Love U Podcast, I’ve broken dating into three phases: the first couple of weeks, when you’ve been dating 3-5 weeks, and when you’re officially boyfriend/girlfriend. Once you know how a good boyfriend acts, you’ll have no tolerance for accepting less from men.

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https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/letting-go/boyfriend-only-contacts-me-every-couple-of-days-am-i-overreacting

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How You Can Make Men Slow Down Physically

When it comes to sex, men usually seek speed and women prioritize comfort. If men push too hard early on, women will often shut down. Similarly, if a woman slows down so much that he feels unattractive, it’s bound to backfire as well.

That’s why, in this Love U Podcast, I’m going to outline specifically how women can slow down men to the point that you feel comfortable, but keep things moving fast enough that he feels connected to you and excited to spend more time with you.

Since so many burgeoning relationships break up in the first month around sex, it really helps if you know how to pace yourself so that his attraction can turn into a commitment.

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https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/understanding-men/a-good-man-is-hard-to-find-only-35-of-men-are-emotionally-intelligent

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4 Tips to Create Intimacy With Your Man

Ever notice that there are some good guys out there who seem incapably of true intimacy? You’re not alone.

In this Love U podcast, I outline three main reasons that so many men seem emotionally stunted and 4 essential tips for creating intimacy with your man.

After that, we talk about emotional intelligence – what it means and how it’s an essential component of successful relationships. As always, the goal is to raise your standards on what to expect from men.

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5 Ways Your Negativity Shines Through on Dates

It’s easy to become negative after years of disappointing relationships and awful spells of intense online dating. So it’s not that you’re “wrong” for feeling your feelings; it’s that it’s ineffective in helping you connect with men and get lasting love.

In this Love U Podcast, we explore the five ways your negativity shines through on first dates, as well as five ways that women might feel more negative about dating than men. It would sound like it’s a negative podcast, but, really, it’s a call to optimism, ending in a beautiful love story that can one day be yours. Stick around.

https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/letting-go/why-are-women-more-negative-about-dating-than-men

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Do You Make Too Big a Deal About Small Differences?

Sure, you want to find someone compatible. But does compatibility mean that you’re going to be just like your partner in every way? That you’re going to agree on everything? That he’s not going to have any qualities you don’t like? And if you do have some – uh – quirks, would you want him focusing on them in an attempt to find someone flawless. Join me on this interesting episode where we do a deep dive on the narcissism of small differences, and explore what, if anything, should send you running in the opposite direction.

https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/when-do-you-tell-someone-that-youre-different

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What To Do If You’re in Your Masculine Energy

Women need masculine energy to thrive in the workplace and set healthy boundaries with men. Men need feminine energy to be empathetic partners. But what happens when women are too in their “masculine” and men are too in their “feminine?” Turns out, most people don’t like that dynamic. And yet it’s all too common when career women are forced to put on different hats depending upon whether they’re at work or at home. In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to explore masculine and feminine energy – what’s most effective in dating and how it impacts your choice of a compatible partner, and maybe, just maybe, explain a few of the mysteries of why smart, successful women struggle in love.

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https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/can-stay-man-im-masculine