The #1 Rated Dating and Relationship Blog on the Internet


I can’t believe it myself. But a website named Blogged, which helps aggregate and rank blogs from all over the Internet, has just named this the top blog out of 984 dating and relationship blogs.

Crazy, I know!

I just started doing this because I thought it would be fun and I’m just thrilled that people are responding to it.

So thanks to Blogged for recognizing this blog, and thanks to you for reading, commenting and asking intelligent questions that affect so many of us. It ain’t always easy being single, but if we keep learning from each other’s experiences, we’re more likely to find happy and healthy relationships.

Have a great day.


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  2. 2

    Hey congrats. It’s a great blog.

  3. 3

    Hi Evan,

    I love your blog and even though I wasn’t the editor responsible for giving you your 9.0 score, I have to say that I think your rating is very well deserved! Keep up the great dating advice — for a single guy like me, it’s quite helpful! 🙂


  4. 4

    *applause* *applause*

    Some of us are not at all surprised. 😀

  5. 5

    This is awesome, and no surprise at all.
    Congrats, Evan!

  6. 6

    Evan, congratulations on the well-deserved recognition!

  7. 8

    No doubt this is because I started posting responses…PSYCHE! Congrats Evan. Hopefully we all find what we’re looking for.

  8. 9

    Yep, folks just can’t get enough of freebies from a #1 expert … and quality keeps ’em coming back. Now that you’re a blog superstar, Evan, how high are one’s odds to getting a question answered on the blog?

  9. 10
    Evan's Girlfriend

    I’m so proud of you, honey. Keep up the good work! Saving the world, one single person at a time… 🙂

    1. 10.1
      girly girl

      i love you evan

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    Evan Marc Katz

    Thanks, Girlfriend. I’ll see you later tonight. As for your query, Chris, sadly, the odds of getting a question answered here are slim. For two reasons:

    1) I have hundreds of unanswered emails flooding my inbox.
    2) Most of these questions have been answered on AFASDE before.

    Which is why I’d encourage anyone who comes here to ask a question to go to The Best of Evan Marc Katz at the top left, and the site map at the very, very bottom of the page. Chances are, at some point, I’ve already provided my two cents on your very personal matter.

    Thanks again to all of you for your kind and generous words!

  11. 12

    Evan, congrats! This is an honor that is certainly deserved – no surprise here!

  12. 13

    Wonderful, and well deserved Evan. Hope you enjoy writing as much as I enjoy reading what you write, ’cause ya got me addicted. And obviously I’m far from alone on that!

  13. 14

    Yes, congratulations, Evan! I don’t always agree with you or like what you say, and sometimes I want to psychoanalyze you to prove to you that you’re wrong (hmm…maybe THAT’S why I’m still single)–but all in all, you seem to be honest and well-intentioned and (gritting my teeth on this one) insightful. Also, I didn’t realize there was so much competition for advice. You actually picked one of my questions not too long ago — cool! And thanks!

  14. 15

    Congratulations Evan! You are most insightful, clever and always hit the nail on the head with your comments. I am truly learning more about how to navigate through the dating channels. You are a Winner! Better than eating chocolate!! Keep up the good work!! Thank You!!!!

  15. 16

    Hello Evan,

    Did you honestly expect anything less !?!?!

    A real testimonial to your skillful expertise and a very very very worthy “EXCELLENT.”

    We love ya, Evan……you are simply the BEST.

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    Bella Shing

    Hi Evan,

    What an extensive and helpful resource.

    Would you be interested in being interviewed you for a series that I do on Beloved Men?

    I have a relationship coaching company that focuses on women called Manifesting Your Beloved. We’ve worked with hundreds of women in a 2 day seminar to guide them to find validation and safety within themselves (so they are not looking to find it through relationship). The women that come through it end up being luscious, centered, radiant. We’ve had hundreds of success stories.

    We’d be getting your message out to thousands of women.
    Bella Shing
    [email protected]

  17. 18

    i really love your blog evan! its really inspiring. i’ve found the one i was looking for and your website has helped us become open and understanding with one another.

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    Dude you’ve got the whole gambit covered. Personally I like a little more of an edge on my advice because the dating game is set up for girls to win but you have an interesting perspective. I think most guys would benefit from more staight talk and practical game instead of fluffy Dr Phil stuff but hey. Do your thing man.

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    Evan Marc Katz


    1) The dating game isn’t set up for girls to win if you’re a guy who gets it and knows his power. That’s the same defeatist attitude of women who think the world is just arranged for men to win, and it doesn’t get anyone anywhere.

    2) If it’s not clear from the way I’m writing to you right now, this is as straight as talk can get. Nothing fluffy here, except that there are a lot of women who are trying to understand men, and I treat them all with respect.

    3) The secret to dating is men understanding women and women understanding men. PUA’s are often so focused on what “works” in the short term that they lose sight of what’s effective in the long term. Sure you can get her number, but can you get what makes her tick? If not, you’re not gonna stick around very long. Guys who want to understand women should be reading this blog.

    4) Finally, there are some big blind spots in the PUA world that are not addressed by anyone else. For example, lowering a woman’s value via email on is a TERRIBLE strategy – and I’ve had to teach some Neil Strauss disciples to do it completely differently.

    I highly encourage any men who want more than a phone number and a hook up to stick around. What better source of information than a guy who picked up a woman at a party and married her two years later?

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