I’ve already told you about my credentials: 24 million blog readers, over 150,000 newsletter subscribers, a podcast with 1 million downloads, appearances in hundreds of media outlets and thousands of satisfied coaching clients.
Yet that’s not why you should pay close attention to all of the free advice I’ll send you.
Pay close attention because I care about your happiness, and won’t rest until you are in a relationship with a man who makes you feel safe, heard and understood.
My commitment to you is that after joining my community and absorbing my material, you will be empowered to make smart relationship choices on your own for the rest of your life.
I just told you a bit about me, but what’s more important is what I can do for you.
While you’re undoubtedly a unique individual, your dating experiences are universal. Millions of women suffer through disappointing relationships without realizing that it’s possible to enjoy dating, trust men and experience unconditional love.
The reason so many women turn to me is that I offer a rare level of truth, insight and experience. I’d like to think I’m some combination of your big brother, your best guy friend and the ex-boyfriend who didn’t marry you but still cares about your happiness.
My loyalty is not to my own biases, but to the truth. Dating and relationships provide enough emotion; I ask you to use your brain as well as your heart when dealing with men.
I believe that knowledge is power and the more well-informed you are about the realities of online dating, dating and relationships, the more likely you are to choose your partner wisely.
Similarly, by helping you set healthy boundaries and walk away from dead-end relationships, you can avoid wasting years on the wrong men.
Yes, this is where it starts to get exciting!
I’m opinionated. I’m difficult. I’m stubborn. I’m critical. I’m a know-it-all.
The reason I’m sharing this is because, for the first 35 years on Earth, I didn’t think that my flaws had anything to do with why I was still single. I blamed women. Los Angeles. Chemistry. Dating sites. Basically, it was everyone else’s fault but my own.
Essentially, I was a hypocrite. I would encourage clients to open up, stay positive and make compromises for love — yet I refused to do so myself.
It wasn’t until I followed my own advice that I had any romantic success.
I’m not concerned with being “right.” I’m only concerned that you find a relationship that works for you in the long-run, not just the short-run.
In 2007, I met a woman who was nothing like the women I’d dated. But every time I thought I could “do better,” I realized I’d never had an easier, happier, more drama-free relationship in my entire life.
After all my dating and coaching experience, I’d finally chosen a partner who saw me the way I saw myself, accepted me at my worst and shared the same values and humor.
In other words, I don’t give advice from a pedestal.
I give advice from a place of experience, truth and love. I’m not concerned with being “right.” I’m only concerned that you find a relationship that works for you in the long-run, not just the short-run.
Regardless of where you are in the relationship lifecycle, I can help you get better results.
One of the most powerful realizations I’ve had as a dating coach is how important it is for you to feel connected in your relationship journey.
As much as I joke about being a know-it-all, I’m very conscious that there’s always more to learn. Nothing is more important than getting feedback on how I can better serve you.
I sincerely hope that what I have to offer is different, not just because I’m a happily married man with a unique set of insights from a man’s perspective, but because — like a good husband – I’m attuned to your needs and committed to always doing better on your behalf.
I look forward to being of service to you today, through your relationship and even after you’ve found the love of your life.
Thank you so much for your trust. I will continue to earn it every day.
Since I am committed to providing you love, support, and confidence in all aspects of relationships, you and I should be in touch regularly.
In addition, I’ll send you free dating and relationship advice via email that will give you all the tools you need to find the love of your life.
And if you’re ready to meet your man now, click here to apply to enroll in Love U.
I’m very excited for you to get started and I can’t wait to hear your success story!
Warmest wishes and much love,