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One of the most frequent questions I receive is about your frustration with the entire dating process and understanding what’s going through the minds of men.
While you’ve made up your mind about him – you love him, and you think he’s the one – you still aren’t confident that your relationship will endure.
This insecurity can take place at any point in a burgeoning relationship.
You’ve been dating him for two weeks and you feel electric chemistry.
You’ve been sleeping with him for three months and you’re not sure you’re exclusive.
You’ve been boyfriend/girlfriend for six months and he hasn’t said “I love you.”
You’ve been a couple for a year and a half and he’s never hinted at a future.
Instances like these are incredibly common – more common than healthy relationships, to tell the truth – and you rightfully want to know if you should stick around or if you should bail.
Thankfully, I’m here to give you a cheat sheet (in the form of the above video) on what signs you should look for to figure out if your boyfriend is falling in love with you.
First of all, as I wrote in a newsletter once upon a time, believe the negatives, not the positives.
On the surface, that might not make sense. But upon further inspection, I would submit that every time you ignored the negatives, they came back to bite you.
The classic example is the guy who tells you at the beginning, “I’m not really looking for a relationship.” But then, drawn by attraction or chemistry or boredom, he starts sleeping with you. Pretty soon, you’re seeing him once a week, receiving regular texts, and he’s telling you how much he enjoys your company.
In your mind, you’re on the verge of having a boyfriend.
In his mind…
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