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If you are, I don’t blame you one bit.
You don’t want to be told that you’re doing anything wrong.
You don’t want to be told that doing the same thing always yields the same results.
You don’t want to be told that you’re responsible for change when you’ve been hurt by so many bad men.
I hear you, loud and clear.
Men are a HUGE problem. I hear about it every single day from my coaching clients.
You’ve been reading my posts for awhile and you’ve been thinking to yourself:
“Yeah, this guy seems to know what he’s talking about, but something bugs me about him. All his advice is so practical. They always talk about compromise and realistic expectations and being patient. Sorry. I don’t want to compromise and have realistic expectations and be patient! I just want to find love naturally.”
I get it: you want to feel good, and my advice doesn’t always make you feel good.
Believe it or not, I even get it when you send me emails that chastise me:
You’re clearly smart, but when will you get to the real heart of the matter? There’s nothing to do when men are the problem here. They’re awkward, cheap, sex-obsessed and selfish. They think they deserve younger women when they don’t. They’re afraid of commitment and run when you start to care for them. This is why it’s frustrating to get your advice; it’s always telling me what I should do differently, but it doesn’t address the root cause of the problem: men.
Amen, Linda. You just spoke for thousands of women who are fed up with dating, online dating and the selfish idiosyncrasies and double standards of men.
Would it surprise you if I told you I agreed with Linda?
And not just a piece of what she wrote – every single word.
Men are a HUGE problem. I hear about it every single day from my coaching clients. I would not pretend for a second that you have it easy in trying to find a suitable lifelong partner. Dating is really tricky and I couldn’t be more sympathetic to your struggles.
Still, you have to admit, saying “Men are the problem” doesn’t begin to solve any problems. All it does is point fingers.
But let’s look at men another way – since that’s my job as a male dating coach who specializes in helping women. And let’s find agreement on all of these points:
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