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Is He Committed to You? If Not, This is Why.

He’s seeing you regularly. You’re sleeping with him. He’s acting almost like a boyfriend but he’s not your boyfriend. Welcome to one of the world’s most common dating dilemmas. Join me on this Love U Podcast to discover how to avoid this trap in the future and ensure that any man you’re sleeping with is your boyfriend FIRST.

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Diane Allen

On what date do you tell a man that you will not sleep with him until he’s your boyfriend. 1st, 2nd, 3rd,? For me, it’s such an awkward conversation. I don’t want to waste any time , at all, sleeping with a man who isn’t my boyfriend.

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